Real life story similar to Devakshi-A new member here

Hello everybody,My name is shubha,I am almost a silent reader of this forum.I do read the posts and comment whenever i get time.But never actively participated in any discussion.

Very nice real life story.. but sad they lost so many years of their life.. all wasted. But anyway, all is well that ends well.

Reunite hona easy nahi hota.

Originally posted by: pkbdas61

Very nice real life story.. but sad they lost so many years of their life.. all wasted. But anyway, all is well that ends well.

Originally posted by: Mishti_94

Wow!

Such a sweet story.

Now we know that the show hasn't gone far from reality!😉

Thanks for sharing this!😃

Originally posted by: coolmeet

Reunite hona easy nahi hota.

Aesi bohot log hain jinhone apne parents ke liye khud ki life finish ki hai.

Well

Welcome to the forum Shubha.

Srilotus.

Very nice and interesting story dear. Indeed, real life is stranger than fiction. Wonderful to hear that the couple reunited and are living happily.

Sharing another experience about a couple who reunited.My friend's friend was living in a joint family and her hubby was a puppet in his mom's hands. Naturally his wife was severly ill treated by them.She was a housewife, and that made things worse for her. After 7 years of marriage , she left him taking her 5 year old son with her.They stayed apart for around 6 years.During this time he realised his folly .He went back to her asking for forgiveness. She said that she would come back on the condition that they live in a nuclear family( away from his mom). She also said that under no circumstances and for no reason should the mil ever come to her house. He agreed. They are living together now.And the boy avoids his mom like the plague ;)... During the initial years of their marriage she was forced to dance to his tunes, now as per her own words " he dances to her tunes". Life always goes full circle.

Originally posted by: visvin2

Yes they lost so many years of their life because of insecurities and ego from guy's family.But its a very rare case of after being divorced once and then remarried.There is another sad thing is that girl's mother died much before remarriage.I hv seen how she fell sick and was suffering because of what happened to her daughter.She always wished to see them together again.When it happened she was no more.😭😭

yeah, sad. But not all things happen in one's lifetime. it is okay, as long as only good things happen!

i am of the firm belief that before marriage, irrespective of what type it is, love or arranged, both partners need counseling and be spoken the truth. It is like a pilot taking simulator lessons prior to getting license. Tell them all the possibilities that may happen and guide them on the possibilities in handling it. .

My niece got married recently. She was in new zealand and the boy from the US. They met on e-harmony. They spoke to each other for 6 months ( video chats - gosh i cannot understand this modern generation, they are a challenge to me!) and wanted to get married. She is just like my daughter and so i had a role to play.

I called both of them home and spoke to them of ALL my experiences, my own, what i have seen happening round about me via my friends, colleagues.. everything... the topics covered infidelity, a barren womb, financial, emotional such as depression, panic attacks, job related, Sexual, family planning, roles of parents and relatives, movies, wanderlust, abortion, divorce, chidren.. the list was so long.. just name it and you have it. yes, i also covered some situations from KRPKAB too!! 😊😊

The boy was kind of shocked as he did not expect this. From his face, it was clear he thought i was talking shop. My niece though knew me and expected this. The next day, the boy went to the church and met with the pastor.. and the pastor too covered all these topics, but over a long stretch of time.

to cut a long story short, at the end of the day, the boy confessed that there were many things he was not aware off.. and it was a learning for him and he confessed that it was good he learnt it before than later.

They are both married now and i am hoping that all goes well.

Very touching story indeed
Glad to know they reunited