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Posted: 8 years ago
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I know lots of speculations going on in the forum...myriad of feelings...some are excited, some are in angst, and some are detached...I thought let me share with you our experience at home after Friday's epi...I expected tongue lashes between the duo which happened but I didn't expect Sona to throw Mangalsutra on Fire..I was flabbergasted...And looked at my mom...

Me: this is little too much...you can't let your emotions overrule you.

My Mom: No, this is god's retribution to Dev for what he has done to his wife.

I was shocked is an understatement 😕. Me: Mom did you see she threw her Mangalsutra.

Mom: "yeah what's point in hanging it around your neck when the person who tied it doesn't keep up his words?"

Me: So you are OK with DIVORCE.

SO I called out my sisters and said "Guys if you are planning to divorce but are worried about Mom's reactions, pl go ahead, she is fine with it"

Mom: My SILS are not like your Dev, if they are like him, I would have initiated Divorce, forget Divorce, I wouldn't have let my daughter marry him in the first place because he married her for his mom...

I told her: Mom I rest my case. I am getting to see not KUCH rang PYAR ke...but KUCH rang my MOM ke... I gave an ultimatum to my Huby also.,,," Look you better behave yourself, my MOM is fine and will support me if I Divorce you".😉 Thanks to PH and CVs of KRPKAB who made me see a different shade of my MOM...

PS: I conveyed to my MOM appreciation of the Forumites and She is very happy...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thank you for this post dear 😆 Can I say I adore your mom. She is just perfect antidote to Ishu n Dev 🤣
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Posted: 8 years ago
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My mom reaction is also is same as ur mom.Good see Mom's like this.This is a good change.Were now Mom don't advice their daughters.To adjust to whatever wrong in laws n husband do.They encourage to raise their voice.Guide them correctly n also be a pillar of suppourt.A supportive parent is must.That's why I love Bijoy more than Asha.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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This type support system , we all girls want from our family...then no girls will be tortured physically or mentally in our society...I know I know...Encouragement on wrong things from family...It is not right too...But support on right time when a girl needs...That is called support system of a girl..

Big hug to your mom from my side. ❤️
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: reenarani

This type support system , we all girls want from our family...then no girls will be tortured physically or mentally in our society...I know...encouragement on wrong things from family...It is not right too...But support on right time when a girl needs...That is called support system of a girl..

Big hug to your mom from my side. ❤️



@Bold - I agree. If girls get this kind of suppourt for right things.Many women who face domestic violence n mental abuse.Can take a bold step of Divorce.Because parents r there to suppourt her.She can start a new life.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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My husband refuses to listen to my ranting of Kuch Rang ever since I told him the SIL slapped his FIL in anger 😆.

The matter won't even go till my mom, I would have done the needful long back 😆. If such case happens, I have a feeling my MIL can also initiate the process and disown him 🤣
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: VIMAL.M



@Bold - I agree. If girls get this kind of suppourt for right things.Many women who face domestic violence n mental abuse.Can take a bold step of Divorce.Because parents r there to suppourt her.She can start a new life.


Very true...I must say, for us She is our Support system...you can rely on her and she does things without any expectations...I always feel only mother-daughter relationship is true in this world...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Your mom is super cool yaar.
Keeping aside whether the makers really doing justice to this beautiful show or not, one good thing is we are getting a chance to see perspectives of people around us wrt these situations and the best thing no one is supporting these kind of back ward thinking. From the time this post marriage track started, whenever my husband watching this show he always says how this marriage is going to work when this couple is so busy in pleasing their mother and MIL instead of spending time in understanding each other.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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It was so funny to read:

We also had a similar situation in my house. My daughter who is 11, knows that I love Kuch Rang. My husband was teasing me for getting upset seeing the Devakshi separation.

My Daughter: Why mom is upset?
Hubby : Her favorite couple Devakshi got separated
My Daughter: Why did they get separated?
Me: Because he listened to his mom and loved her more.
My daughter: Whats wrong if he listens to his mother?
Me: Hmm...you won't understand
My Daughter(jokingly) : that means it is okay if I don't listen to you.

I don't want to tell her that parents can be wrong too..she is too young to understand these.

Me: Go and read your story book. Indian shows are too complicated to understand.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: LiveLife321

Your mom is super cool yaar.

Keeping aside whether the makers really doing justice to this beautiful show or not, one good thing is we are getting a chance to see perspectives of people around us wrt these situations and the best thing no one is supporting these kind of back ward thinking. From the time this post marriage track started, whenever my husband watching this show he always says how this marriage is going to work when this couple is so busy in pleasing their mother and MIL instead of spending time in understanding each other.


very true...But my mother always been a very strong woman...she has taught us to be respectful but always cautioned us that we should give respect and love only to those who deserve it...it may sound little weird but this is exactly her words😆

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