Its time for Asha's wish to come true, Bijoy plz do it...

Originally posted by: dlavanya

Asha nahi hoti tho sona kab ka dev ko chodke chali jaati.. i used to appreciate her before now she is just going over board with her mahanta speeches

Originally posted by: Sharica

Absolutely right...

I was fine the day Dev ditched Sona on his birthday and Asha made her understand his situation...

But these infertility things, i m surprised and shocked...

Now I feel ki on birthday, Sona should have created a scene...why to understand such creepy people...

Also Dev married Sona after knowing abt her infertility is not a big thing, because he was being selfish and did not had the courage to convince his mom...

About the treatment, Asha was very disappointing, you are fine with Ishwari putting conditions...She not even once thought why is she doing that...

I think she should write novel on her daughter's life only...and have Sona in front of her to elaborate each and every instance and badmouthing that happened...

May be then she will realise ki what she is teaching her daughter...compromises and sacrifices are for deserving people and not for Dixits...

Asha ji..pls dont give any further advices to your daughter...let her decide her future cource of action...

Originally posted by: tia.o

While Asha's "understanding" speech gets on my nerves, one thing we can't forget though that if Sona really wanted to leave Dev, she would have regardless of her speech.

You see, Sona is a very convenient obedient daughter unlike Dev who follows his mother's edict like sheep.

Sonakshi didn't marry the first person Asha presented, not even the second or third person. Then why every time Asha speaks on Dev's behalf she is so willing to listen? Why does she always call Asha and not her father or even her grandmother when she is conflicted and hurt?

Because she herself is pathetically attached to Dev and Asha speaks exactly what she wants to hear. Bijoy and her grandmother may give her an advice which she doesn't want to follow. It doesn't even take Asha much to convince Sona to forgive Dev. It's almost as if Sona is eager to forgive and go back to being lovey dovey, but just needs someone to tell her that leaving her self-respect in the dust is worth it. Which is exactly what Asha does for her.

Let me tell you something, in this case, Sona is not much different than Neha.

Neha doesn't listen to Ishwari all the time. She only listens to her when she says what she wants to hear.

Dida is not the weak-willed understanding lot like Asha. But she is not in your face rude and aggressive like Bijoy either. She is strong and polite but firm.

When Bijoy wanted to teach Dev a lesson for calling his wife aunty and hurting her feelings, Dida didn't stop him. She encouraged him to show Dev a mirror because that's what family who are your well-wisher do. They show you where you are wrong when you do something wrong.

Asha is old-fashioned like Ishwari although a much nicer person. She was always concerned about what people will say or think. There is no way in hell she'd support Sona to leave her husband. If you recall, she was getting desperate to get Sona married.

I think, the reason of Sona's condition is not Asha. It's her inability to realise and accept the truth of her relationship, her marriage and her place in Dev's life and unwilling to do anything about it.

Originally posted by: gemini54

Here it is not about Asha, Bijoy, Easwari etc . It is about what Sona wants and if she is happy with crumbs that is all she will get