Why infertility treatment is considered as atyachar

It's very painful treatment off course but sona was equally wanting her own child then why all the blame game on ishu or dev. Doesn't if ishu wudnt have told her to do so she could not having her treatment. I think everybody wants child in their life so why this treatment thing is considered as atyachaar. Every normal couple wud have gone through it.

There is a word used in medicine called CONSENT. It means you go for treatment knowing all about it accepting everything positive or negative , you are ready for the treatment by your own free will. I would not have been bothered if the treatment was opted by Sona will. She has the right to decide. Here she dosenot know anything abt the treatment its success rate ,side effects and is wanted to be subjected just to please Ishwari. There r so many couples who stay childless because of their free will , some with infertile conditions opt for surrogacy . Despite all the trouble and pain infertility treatment is a tedious process amalgamation of numerous heartache and dosenot necessarily yield a positive outcome. So before opting for such procedures couple need to be emotionally, mentally ,economically in a stable . Support of the patient is paramount which is faltering even before starting.

Undergoing trouble willingly is one thing and forcing is another. Here, they have taken having the baby to a different level which majority of us aren't able to accept.

undergoing infertility treatment or wanting to have own baby is fine n very much normal but here it is nt abt sona's desires or needs ...its abt ishwari n dere dey went wrong ..ishwari has literally blackmailed dev n sona for sona's treatment

Yes Sona wud hv gone for the treatment even risky n painful procedure, with or without Ish's condition...coz tht wud be d most normal n rationale thing to do if they want to hav a child. N I hope Sona says d same to Ish n Dev...tht she wud undergo any treatment but its nt bcoz of Ish's tantrums but bcoz Sona wants to do it on her own or bcoz Sona knws hw Dev wants to hv kids.

Taking treatment...it is perfectly fine...But taking treatment as condition applied by Mother...That is wrong...

There is nothing wrong in going for a treatment.Infact many bashed Dev for not getting her treated after truth was out .Its simple when you are sick or have some issues you always take medical help .Even pregnancy is painful and delivery is the most painful thing a women goes through yet women go through the pain as they want to have a child of their own when they have option of adopting .

Eventually Dev and Sona would have their kids even if Ishwari was against it or for it as they always wanted to have their own baby .Before marriage both had dreams of having their own kid .So even if Ishwari had not suggested for treatment one of them would have suggested.Nothing wrong in trying for your own kid when there is a chance .Its painful yes but as Asha said in the end it's worth all the pain .It would have been unfair if Sona didn't want a biological kid but here she wants one .

Whether it was formality or whatever people want to call it Sona was given a choice to go ahead with the treatment .If she wanted she could have said no but she agreed because deep down she wants to give birth to Dev's kid .

Since it was suggested by Ishwari it is made to look like some punishment.Usually in such situations elders advise younger ones to take medical help .I don't see anything wrong here .But problem with Ishwari is the way she behaved like a stubborn kid .It was irritating to see her blackmailing her son .She could have been more mature.

Coming Dev , he still supports his wife and even in his dream he won't think of leaving Sona .If he wanted to leave her he would not have married her ,lied to her and would not suffered so much for her .In yesterday's episode his focus was to bring his mom home and he did not find anything wrong with suggestion so he wanted to get Ish home and then think about the success n failure .I would say typical men behavior.They always want to solve problem at hand first but we women are far more sensible in understanding the situation.Thats why Sona asked right questions

Since it's Dev no one wants to understand his situation and they have free pass to bash him .Many are disappointed because they expect him to have a Ak47 and guard Sona all the time from all of taunts she is subjected to .They think Dev supporting her would shut everyone's mouth .How I wish this was true in real life .Let me tell you no one can help Sona but herself .She needs to learn to ignore certain comments and give a damn to people .Ignoring and silent treatment are more powerful than indulging in petty fights with people like RR whose only job is to poke their nose in others business .

Coz nobody is takin her concent for the treatment...
It's looks inhuman coz it should b Sona's choice to get the treatment not Ishwari's.

@sargesh...agree with you completely...now-a-days due to lifestyle, mood swings and eating disorders many are facing infertility...it's not considered as a curse but as a normal situation and people go for treatment..all treatments are painful so too is infertility...the way it was portrayed by Bijoy it looked as if sona is asked to undergo the treatment on a gunpoint...agreed the way Ishwari demanded it looked very pettish and creepy..but you can't expect anything from her...I have failed to understand her and left it longback...no expectations so not heartbreak...unfortunately we do have such MILs all over the world...I hate when people say Indian MILs...MILs are MILs where ever they are...Queen Elizabeth had a tainted strained relation with Diana...same goes now with Camilla and Catherin...kitchen potilics led to the disintegration of many business empires in the world/India..so what we can say about Dixit house hold????