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Posted: 8 years ago
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We all want to see a strong Sonakshi who is not a doormat but can give it back to Ishwari if her MIL is unreasonable but we don't want the Dev doing the same .Today we are questioning Dev for replying back to Bijoy who has always been unfair to Dev .About not replying to RR when she was accusing Sonakshi ..was Dev present during the entire scene ? He entered when Bijoy was calling his mom a nataunki. Is this how a mature person speaks about another adult ? If we see from Dev''s PoV he was not wrong as his mom was not wrong here ..it was him who created this mess and he was OK if Bijoy blamed him or held his collar in front of whole world but how could he listen to Bijoy blaming his mom who was equally hurt with Dev''s lies .Dev was already guilty of his actions and I am sorry any normal person wold not like to hear someone calling their mom as nautanki .Even if Ishwari was let's not forget she was not completely wrong this time .She was kept in dark and Dev did confess everything when he got a chance
This is why I always had a problem with Bijoy''s way of dealing with issues .If you always taunt and talk non sense no one would have patience to listen to your real problem and everyone would assume you as a bitter person who always cribs,whines and talk ill about others .

Before accusing of not respecting his FIL let's revisit some of the old scene

1.He respected his FIL so he was quiet when he threw Ishwari out of the house .Bijoy has come to Dixit mansion without invitation yet he was not thrown out by anyone but nothing justifies throwing a old women out of the home when all she wanted was to talk

2.He respected his FIL so he kept quiet when his FIL taunted his family members ,his culture during wedding ceremony or sang praises of his culture or insisted for complete Bengali wedding

3.He kept quiet when he was accused of forcing his wife to change when all he did was support his wife

4.He kept quiet when he was thrown out of the house at middle of night by his FIL

5.He kept quiet when he made a scene during his birthday .From the nephew drama to pushing Ishwari out of the photo when Sonakshi ,Dev and Ishwari were clicking pictures .

6.when he held his collar without knowing the complete truth or when he was talking I'll about him on phone to his daughter .

I found it strange that everything Dev did will be forgotten if he loses his temper .He is always expected to be understanding, sing praises of Sonakshi and her family .The moment he acts like human he not spared .

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Same here. I didn't find anything wrong with Dev's today when he was talking to Bijoy except the tone he used when Dev said he knows the responsibility how to take care of his wife. Dev is right. Sona is his wife. I don't think Bijoy needs to interfere every time. Sona is not a kid, neither is Dev. Let them manage the situation.

Bijoy is older and he should have understood that Dev's mom is missing. Bijoy was creating a scene there. I agree, any son would get angry when someone says that his mom is kiddish, especially when she is missing.

At the same time, I like the fact that Bijoy supports his daughter all the time. I told the same thing to my dad too. That is best part about Bijoy. But at the same time, supporting does not mean that he should start interfering with his daughters matter all the time. Sona clearly said that she and Dev can handle this mess themselves. If he can not trust his SIL, at least he should trust his daughter.

Who says their daughter that his SIL is not trustworthy and leave her if his Mom asks him to leave? Isn't that lowering the self esteem of his daughter especially when she is feeling low?

Asha is sensible, gets Bijoy on track when he behaves irrationally, otherwise I always find similiarities between Ishwari and Bijoy. Very possessive towards kids.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nope nothing to say much'
U said it all
Infact Bijoy needed that blast from Dev ...which was long awaiting... if we are talking here where Sona has to prove ishwari every time every situation then yes it's same thing for Dev too.. he was blamed by Bijoy every single time when some thing goes wrong
Everybody is right and wrong here...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi- FI Nisha,

I can't tolerate Bose 😡😡😡 . For me Bose is like - "Kejiriwal - Sab Modi ki galati hai" type personality 😆Sab Dev ki galati hai and his love for Vicky is muah- muah( omg since yesterday I am remembering that muah muah fake article 😕😕).

I can't support Bose behaviour in the name of modernity, in the name of MODERN WAY OF GIRLS" SIDE. Bose behaviour is needed to open the eyes of ISSUEWORRY- NAH its big no from my side , considering I don't like uncultured behavior from anyone side- whether it is boy or girl's side .

But loved your comparison - We want Sona to give back answer to Issueworry then Why Dev doesn't have this right as well?👏👏👏

When Bose papa said- Ishwari is not a kid and if she had any problem, then she could have sit and solved it .I was like 😲😲look who was saying this - The person who hold SIL collar in the middle of road , who compared him as terrorist, now giving gyan like sit and talk . This shows how much double standard Mr.Bose papa is.For Bose papa

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But today I felt - Dev was wrong- CHamatkar hua 😆😆😆 I said wrong to one of the most bashed character. Dev should have tone down his volume while speaking to Bose 😕 ( I can't believe it am saying this ) I am saying this because Bose was saying things in support of Sonakshi - she was not at fault in creating this mess of lies😕( yes there is alot of loopholes - in the name of friction, we have to digest fantasy 😆😆).

and He shld have said - something to GKB as well, considering she is equally nonsense and intolerable as Bose papaji


But Dev character was made for bashing 😆 I dont think any character has capacity to overcome Dev's character bashing points.

P.S. Bose Papa Haye Haye .. I hate this character more than GKB and Neha. For me because Neha and GKB is not that educated girls compare to BOSE . But still his actions and behavior is equal to illiterate people like Neha and GKB.

Issueworry is above all these people.😆😆😆






Edited by mayu1982 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mayu1982

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="3">Hi- FI Nisha,

I can't tolerate Bose 😡😡😡 . For me Bose is like - "Kejiriwal - Sab Modi ki galati hai" type personality 😆Sab Dev ki galati hai and his love for Vicky is muah- muah( omg since yesterday I am remembering that muah muah fake article 😕😕).

I can't support Bose behaviour in the name of modernity, in the name of MODERN WAY OF GIRLS" SIDE. Bose behaviour is need to open the eyes of ISSUEWORRY- NAH its big no from my side , considering I don't like uncultured behavior from anyone side- whether it is boy or girl's side .

But loved your comparison - We want Sona to give back answer to Issueworry then Why Dev doesn't have this right as well?👏👏👏

When Bose papa said- Ishwari is not a kid and if she had any problem, then she could have sit and solved it .I was like 😲😲look who was saying this - The person who hold SIL collar in the middle of road , who compared him as terrorist, now giving gyan like sit and talk. This shows how much double standard Mr.Bose papa is.For Bose papa

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But today I felt - Dev was wrong- CHamatkar hua 😆😆😆 I said wrong to one of the most bashed character. Dev should have tone down his volume while speaking to Bose😕 ( I can't believe it am saying this ) I am saying this because Bose was saying things in support of Sonakshi - she was not at fault in creating this mess of lies😕( yes there is alot of loopholes - in the name of friction, we have to digest fantasy 😆😆).

and He shld have said - something to GKB as well, considering she is equally nonsense and intolerable as Bose papaji


But Dev character was made for bashing 😆 I dont think any character has capacity to overcome Dev's character bashing points.

P.S. Bose Papa Haye Haye .. I hate this character more than GKB and Neha. For me because Neha and GKB is not that educated girls compare to BOSE . But still his actions and behavior is equal to illiterate people like Neha and GKB.

Issueworry is above all these people.😆😆😆


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Hahahahahaha...
I was laughing for the way u expressed your thoughts.
I loved the way u said it though
The last points u said about Bijoy were bang on!!
Yes!He's worse than Radha rani
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ifuser




Hahahahahaha...
I was laughing for the way u expressed your thoughts.
I loved the way u said it though

The last points u said about Bijoy were bang on!!
Yes!He's worse than Radha rani




@bold :
thank you 😳

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Edited by mayu1982 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi there is nothing wrong with dev behaviour except for his tone with bijoy. BT when sum one speak ill abt ishwari in a flash he is ready to defend her BT same is not the case with sona. Mamiji was continuously bashg sona BT he kept quite. He didn't for once defend her once just kept quite and ultimately walked off.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I want him to understand the simple fact that his mother is insecure and that is the root cause of every problem in his married life
I want him to deal with his mother to help her reduce her insecurities and not tell lies to mend everyones relationships with her...

I understand he wants his mother to love sona but whats the use...if that love is based on conditions...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Awesome post...loved everything that you said...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Main iss baat ko manti hun ki Jo aadmi apni maa ka nahi hua woh biwi ka kya hoga.
Agar dev blindly apni maa ki Pooja karta hai yaa pyar karta hai ,woh iska MATLAB relations ko samajhta hai .
So,i think Dev Sona ke liye apne pyar ko Itni hi importance Deta hoga.
My POV.

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