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Posted: 8 years ago
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😊seriously ishwariji..shayad aap apne bete ko badoo se bath karne ki tameez nahi sekhayi..

dev apne sasur se ese bath kartha hai...i am so dissapointed with this character...dev the matter may be about your mom..but you cant speak to bijoy that way..

aur jab teri mami sona ko tana mar rahi thi thab tho teri zubaan bilkul bandh rehtha hai...jab bijoy sona ko support karna aye tho teri zuban chalne lagi...seriously teri maa tho kabhi galat hohi nahi sakthi chahe oo kitne bhi stupid childish harkate kare hena...seriously har bar tuje sabith kyun karna
ki tum apni maa ki ladle jo apni maa ke khilaf kuch nahi sunsaktha...we all know that you are a mammas boy prove karne ki zaroorat nahi hai...

and when he ignored sona guilt after knowing his mom location seriously kitne logon ko lagtha hai dev would stand up for sona...

asha maa aapka analysis galat sabith honewale bhahut jaldh..i feel so pity for sona..seriously sona tume dev se pyar hona hi nahi chaiye tha aur shadi tho bilkul nahi karni chaiye tha..

kal dekhna tumara dev mammas boy banke ayega..dev you are so impossible

positive and negative views both are welcome..plz hurry

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sadly these type of cheap guys do exist a lot.


It's been just 3 days I watched a movie by Pan Nalin - Angry Indian Goddess. Co-incidentally the character was also a nutritionist and she decides to finally divorce her spouse since her MIL had been taking her to doctors for different treatment for wanting a grandchild and her husband doesnt object to it.


Awesome decision by the girl to divorce that guy 👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Friday - dev said you complete me and we dont need any kids .. am i not enough for you ms. Bose?

Tuesday - he will come and tell her to go thru treatments as maa wants grandkids... i am not against getting treatments if it is because dev and sona want kids... but dev is going to change his stand that he wants kids as maa wants them now...

I really want to see a super pissed off sona and bijoy..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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before i post anything , i want to ask something. How many of you have been in a situation where there is a lot of emotional turmoil going on in your head??
Dev is worried for his maa, he suddenly came to know that she knew the truth last night and he recollects his talks with him, her repeatedly asking him for truth and he trying to brush her off.
she is missing and lo and behold, his steamy FIL comes in charging, calling her names, childish blah,,,blah... blah , you think Dev will entertain Bijoy??? This is not the time for right or wrong, who is being blamed and all .Everything has a place and time, and bijoy is the last person to understand this.

what Dev said is right, bijoy has every right to shout at Dev but he has no right whatsoever to call Ishwari names. neither sona nor Dev are seeking for his advise or support at the minute, Sona is not only his daughter now, she is Dev's wife too.

I understand the parents concern about the kids future, their safety and all that. I understand Bijoy is worried, but on a serious note, lets not forget of all relations, the relation between the spouses is the most delicate and no third party intervention is needed until sought after.

here the focus is on finding Ishwari and bringing her home not on who lied or who is at fault.

I am not sure how many of them are hindus here, but i would like to quote something here " During mahabharat war, when bheema challenges that he is invincible, Krishna is enraged and he says, if i desired, i could end this war right now, but alas, neeyati has to take its turn".

Same here, if Dev wished he could shout/ scream and shut everybody who mistreats sona, but will that solve the issue?
will it help in Ishwari realising the worth of sona and giving her the love and affection she deserves?
will it help in Sona gaining back her self esteem, will it stop her from being competitive to become a good DIL?
Will it raise the worth of Sona in the eyes of GKB?

Humiliation , embarrassment, anger , self pity these are states of our mind. If the mind is powerful, the person becomes invincible.

what Sona needs at this hour is not who lied, or what others think of her. she needs to realise there is no harm if Ishwari does not trust her. As long as Dev believes in her and understands her agony, they can fight all odds. There will be wagging tongues at every nook and corner in ones life, what is important is how much of this crap should we register. At times ignoring the crap is the best treatment.

coming to Dev not heeding to sona, yes it was neither the place nor the time when sona tries to justify herself to Ishwari. Ishwari is in a delusion, and no matter how much Dev and sona try explaining to her , she will never understand. It is a normal human behaviour. when we feel betrayed, nothing will matter to us. no amount of proof will make this feeling go away. Its only when our mind/heart are ready to see the truth, then we shall embrace it.

And most importantly, sona ko maa mili thi, so rationally there is no way Ishwari will believe anything she tells her. isse accha hota woh dev to ek call karlethi and let Dev handle Ishwari before even she tries to get involved.

Apne maa ko handle karne ki zimmedari Dev ki hai, Jooth Dev ne kaha hai toh consequences bhi Dev ko hi sahi karni honge.

From personal experiences i will say, when there are issues of trust, before heading to go head on , wait, ponder and then act.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev is responsible for the mess in his life.He need to clear it.He cannot keep shouting on Sona N Bijoy.For his mistake.Bijoy asked right question.If for Dev it hurts when some one bad mouth his mom.For Bijoy also it hurts to see some blaming her daughter without any mistake.Instead of Dev saying.Baba it also hurts me.I will not allow any one to humiliate my wife.But no.When his mom in picture.Nothing matters to him.Some said.Dev respect elders that's why he don't shut GKB mouth.So this how Dev respect elders by humiliating his FIL.He never said to Mam gi take GKB away.When she was insulting Sona.Whatever may be the situation.When comes to his Own family.He ignores all the taunts directed towards to Sona n keep mum.When comes to his PesudoGod.Even she is wrong.He will blast others.

For me whatever Bijoy did is right.Dixit understand this kind of language.They can taunt any one n treat their own DIL bad.But some one question them.They insult others.When the mistake his from their side.

No one is asking Dev to shout at GKB N Ish.He can use a firm tone to stop them.He failed it.I don't believe in waiting that Destiny will take it's call.I work towards to change the situation as much as I can.Dev failed in it.

Always CV's cannot try to cover up inability of Dev to stand up for Sona due to situation.Vicky matter he is tensed.So ignored the Black Shadow taunt of GKB,Neha issue ignored the Scorpion taunt by GKB.Now Mom issue again he ignore the taunt Sona gets.Whatever may be the situation he will not ignore his mom's taunts.But can ignore Wife's taunts.Wah what a great Husband Dev is 👏👏. Can't he shut GKB mouth.Instead of walking silently.I will not buy theory.GKB is not imp.She does not exit.For me it's opposite for Dev .Sona is not that imp.So he does not make any effort to stop GKB.See Vicky opposed GKB calling Elena bangalan.She does not call Elena like that.Dev cannot do that.Show has completed 220 episode.Still we cannot keep saying Dev is like that,situation is like that.He can't react.It's getting irritated to seeing the same stuff.What Dev did with Bijoy was wrong.What Bijoy told about Ish is true.Dev whatever his mom does is always right.He is just a blind Mama's boy.He shouted at Bijoy saying.Sona is my wife.I will take her responsibility.Honestly I could not laugh at the dialogue.Dev when comes to his sis,mom,GKB ,Mama N Vicky.He takes their responsibility seriously.He take Sona's responsibility for granted.Yes his mom is missing.His Wife came in distressed way.Can't he take 1 min to make her sit inside the home.Give water.Assure her.Don't worry.I will make everything fine.In bedroom n when they r alone.He said Sona's tears hurt him.But as soon as mom comes to picture Sona's tears does not hold any importance to him.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Same way Dev could have ignored what Bijoy said about his mom.Could have walked off .To find out his PesudoGod.But he felt the need to stand for his mom.When he cannot hear anything against her.Same thought is missing for Sona.Saying rosy stuff in Bedroom is not big deal.Dev need to stand by it n prove it by action.He has failed in it.

Bijoy is a great father.Every girl deserve a dad like Bijoy.Who does not get intimidated by the power of Dev's money n does not follow the old tradition.If I am girls father.I need to be silent n should not open mouth.If U watch the episode.Bijoy N Asha were sitting in Hall.They normally enquired reg Ish.It was GKB who started n accusing their daughter.A father will react.If some one accuse his daughter.He will not take the accusation silently.What Bijoy said is true.Ish is doing drama.She could have talked to solve the problem.Bijoy did not used any derogatory words against Ish.As the say Truth hurts more than lie.Same happened with Dev.Dev knew what Bijoy said is truth.That's why to defend his god.He disrespected Bijoy.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I badly wish Sona leaves Dixit house n go stay in her home.She needs some mental peace n also to vent out her feelings.Which is not possible in Dixit house.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

Dev is responsible for the mess in his life.He need to clear it.He cannot keep shouting on Sona N Bijoy.For his mistake.Bijoy asked right question.If for Dev it hurts when some one bad mouth his mom.For Bijoy also it hurts to see some blaming her daughter without any mistake.Instead of Dev saying.Baba it also hurts me.I will not allow any one to humiliate my wife.But no.When his mom in picture.Nothing matters to him.Some said.Dev respect elders that's why he don't shut GKB mouth.So this how Dev respect elders by humiliating his FIL.He never said to Mam gi take GKB away.When she was insulting Sona.Whatever may be the situation.When comes to his Own family.He ignores all the taunts directed towards to Sona n keep mum.When comes to his PesudoGod.Even she is wrong.He will blast others.

For me whatever Bijoy did is right.Dixit understand this kind of language.They can taunt any one n treat their own DIL bad.But some one question them.They insult others.When the mistake his from their side.

No one is asking Dev to shout at GKB N Ish.He can use a firm tone to stop them.He failed it.I don't believe in waiting that Destiny will take it's call.I work towards to change the situation as much as I can.Dev failed in it.

Always CV's cannot try to cover up inability of Dev to stand up for Sona due to situation.Vicky matter he is tensed.So ignored the Black Shadow taunt of GKB,Neha issue ignored the Scorpion taunt by GKB.Now Mom issue again he ignore the taunt Sona gets.Whatever may be the situation he will not ignore his mom's taunts.But can ignore Wife's taunts.Wah what a great Husband Dev is 👏👏. Can't he shut GKB mouth.Instead of walking silently.I will not buy theory.GKB is not imp.She does not exit.For me it's opposite for Dev .Sona is not that imp.So he does not make any effort to stop GKB.See Vicky opposed GKB calling Elena bangalan.She does not call Elena like that.Dev cannot do that.Show has completed 220 episode.Still we cannot keep saying Dev is like that,situation is like that.He can't react.It's getting irritated to seeing the same stuff.What Dev did with Bijoy was wrong.What Bijoy told about Ish is true.Dev whatever his mom does is always right.He is just a blind Mama's boy.He shouted at Bijoy saying.Sona is my wife.I will take her responsibility.Honestly I could not laugh at the dialogue.Dev when comes to his sis,mom,GKB ,Mama N Vicky.He takes their responsibility seriously.He take Sona's responsibility for granted.Yes his mom is missing.His Wife came in distressed way.Can't he take 1 min to make her sit inside the home.Give water.Assure her.Don't worry.I will make everything fine.In bedroom n when they r alone.He said Sona's tears hurt him.But as soon as mom comes to picture Sona's tears does not hold any importance to him.


vimal , i can understand your frustration at the character of Dev. As i have often said a couple of times in this forum, i was raised by a single mother, and I too had this sense of devotion towards my mom. I never would agree that she too may be wrong, and if ever anyone spoke a word against her, i would try to become her shield and give it back to the person, and i was quite irrational at times too. At times i ended up fighting terribly with my spouse over the issue of "Respecting my Mom". But today when i reflect back on all the situations, i feel i was not mature enough, that's why i insist , standing up for ones respect is not only about giving back to others. it is about understanding your worth. same with relations, it does not mean that you vouch for each other, get back at those that use hurtful words, and defend each other. This is done by comrades, for spouses you don't need the assurances. You already know that he/she will watch your back no matter what . This might be a blind faith, but i feel that's what sums up the relationship.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@ Vimal - you said everything I wanted to say about Dev not speaking against Sona's humiliation but reacting to every humiliation his mother receives that also rightfully !! Hypocrite is thy name !!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The character of Dev Dixit is not a role model but a JHOL model. A Weak person who can only threaten n bribe people. In all other matters he is a dumb rat who talks big but his actions are phusss...

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