i know many of you will not agree with me, but i did not find anything wrong with Dev asking Bijoy to back off for now.
When there are bigger problems to solve, people like bijoy who focus on smaller things will only complicate the matter more. I am not saying Bijoy is wrong, but the place and time to bring up things is not right.
of course this is the time when Sona will be targeted, she is the only outsider in the family. But will Bijoy shouting and calling names to Dev and his mother, make it any easy for Sona? will it aid her in being treated as a family? will it help Sona atleast , in overcoming her self pity? right now she is in the worst state of mind, she cannot get the love of MIL that she so craved for from day 1 of her relationship. her insecurities that Dev will leave her only got manifested 1000 folds as she lost her trump cards -- "having kids"
coming to Dev, he too is in same the state of mind . he was worried that the marriage would not have happened and his mom will not be able to bear the truth. his worst nightmares are being proved right with Ishwari leaving the house.
Sona is completely shattered, he is yet to figure out how to console her.
his biggest challenge is how to make Maa accept Sona is the way sona deserves without a baby.
Looking at the bigger picture is more important.
Walking out of a marriage may seem to be the right option for many of us looking at the current episodes. If we were to wait , and ponder , do we still feel this is the right decision for both of them? will all the issue get resolved by it?
KRPKAB now reminds me of these lyrics:
Whoever said that love is easy, must has never been in love;
Sometimes its a land mine, one wrong step and it blows up;
A word, a look, lights a hidden fuse.
It's hard to see just what you have, when you're seeing red;
And it's easy to do something that you know you both will regret;
Better stop, think, count to ten before I leave.
One, I still wanna hate you;
Two, three, I still wanna leave;
Four, searching for that door;
Five, then I look into your eyes;
Six, take a deep breathe;
Seven, take a step back;
Eight, nine, I don't know why, we even started this fight;
By the time I get to ten, I'm right back in your arms again.
Words thrown so carelessly like weapons when we fight;
But when they cut too deep, I wanna leave it all behind;
That I've to count to ten, before I cross that line.
One, I still wanna hate you;
Two, three, I still wanna leave;
Four, searching for that door;
Five, then I look into your eyes;
Six, take a deep breathe;
Seven, take a step back;
Eight, nine, I don't know why, we even started this fight;
By the time I get to ten, I'm right back in your arms again.
You can lose what you're not thankful for,
I don't want that to happen to you and me,
Better count my blessing.
One, you still move me;
Two, three, you send chills right through me;
Four, you keep me wanted more;
Five, when I look into your eye;
Six, you're my best friend;
Seven, that will never end;
Eight, nine, I don't know why, but thank God it happens every-time;
By the time I get to ten,
By the time I get to ten,
I can see how blessed I've been.
I'll chose you all over again...
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