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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

<font color="#ff00ff">The lesson in all this is that make sure you communicate with your partner and only take the next step when you both feel confident. He rushed into trying to integrate her in his family, they rushed into the wedding and now are rushing to have the baby for wrong reasons. </font>

<font color="#ff00ff">Ishwari, dev, sona, Bijoy, Asha, mamiji and the sisters all live in us. </font>



There are several of them ready to marry a dev like fellow in this forum so no worries there.

I agree that sona has to respect herself first most things will be taken care of from then. I feel she's to far in this game of pleasing everyone in the dixit house.

Communication is so important for all relationships that is lesson we can take away from this track especially. Hope like the past 2 days they as in sona & dev communicate with each other else we'll be going around in circles.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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What is wrong if Iswari had gone to Mandir? She is upset. She is angry. She felt cheated. When she is in such state will she tell and go? She told GKB what she felt honestly. She did not eavesdrop. She happened to hear their conversation by chance. Did they close the door?

Iswari sulks suffers by herself. She chooses that way. She knew Dev will get effected. But she is human. I feel she has every right to behave as she likes. After all her dreams had been shattered mercilessly by fate. Period.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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More than Dev i want Sona to respect her individuality now. Her fear of losing Dev bcz of Ishwari had made her like this. She should understand that Dev loved Sonakshi Bose and has accepted her the way she is.



@Red - Sona know this from the day they both fallen in love with each other.But after break up.How Dev picked up his mom over her.Blamed their love.Said I was blind in love that I cannot do my Son's responsibility.When Sona marriage was fixed.Instead of confronting his mom n saying I can't live without Sona.I will marry only her.Dev restored to stalking,sabotaging Ritwick career .Thinking Sona will not marry him,creating scene in Ritwick N Sona date,engagement.He could not man up n confront his mom when was in senses.He cannot confront his mom n also did not wanted Sona to move on.In drunken state only he could confront his mom.Sona as seen it.So she has the fear.That once again if it is a choice between Mom N her.Dev will pick mom.Also when Ish gave green singnal only Dev agreed for Marriage.Because during their dating period Dev as made big promises n he did not fulfill it.Now also in private he make big promises.The day Dev fulfill it.Sona will not have the fear n will not try to please Ish.Loosing her individuality.

On a second though Sona want please Ish N make her happy.So that Dev can be happy n he never face a situation like break-up were he have to choose between her n his mom.If Ish is happy.Sona can be in Dev's life for long.I think Sona think like this also.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ltelidevara

What is wrong if Iswari had gone to Mandir? She is upset. She is angry. She felt cheated. When she is in such state will she tell and go? She told GKB what she felt honestly. She did not eavesdrop. She happened to hear their conversation by chance. Did they close the door?


Iswari sulks suffers by herself. She chooses that way. She knew Dev will get effected. But she is human. I feel she has every right to behave as she likes. After all her dreams had been shattered mercilessly by fate. Period.



Nothing wrong in going Mandir.Ishwari action is a well planned one.She wanted to prove a point to Sona.If a Mom thinks she can do anything.That's the main issue.Did U see how she said to GKB.Sona does not know what Mom can do.I will show in morning.She thinks Sona is controlling Dev n Dev is sad.So she have to save her Son.Her intention is so wrong.She very well knew Dev will get affected.That's why use the trump card emotional blackmail.Ish can become grand mom eventually.She has 3 daughters.Sona N Dev cannot become parents .So their dreams are shattered mercilessly n not Ish's dreams.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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There is nothing wrong in ish going to mandir. She could have informed somebody before going. Will people not be worried if she is missing. Setting aside the news Mami conveys it is still worrisome to people if she disappears without informing anybody. She was supposedly sick the previous day. What is her son supposed to think?

This is just ishs way of bringing attention to herself. I'm sorry I feel by leaving the house she only made her son immensely guilty & now both dev & sona will bend over backwards to get her home. That is exactly what she set out to achieve.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: preethik

There is nothing wrong in ish going to mandir. She could have informed somebody before going. Will people not be worried if she is missing. Setting aside the news Mami conveys it is still worrisome to people if she disappears without informing anybody. She was supposedly sick the previous day. What is her son supposed to think?

This is just ishs way of bringing attention to herself. I'm sorry I feel by leaving the house she only made her son immensely guilty & now both dev & sona will bend over backwards to get her home. That is exactly what she set out to achieve.



@Bold - Well Said.That's her main motive.She want all the attention on her.Make Dev N Sona do whatever she wants.She wants them to dance on her tune.Ish move to go to mandir without informing others is well calculated plan to make things work in her favor.

Parents always help children to speak truth.If children hesitate .They voluntarily start it.Ish could have done the same.She could have confronted Dev.When they were alone in Hall.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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what is your opinion about ish if she says sonakshi to divorce to dev as she has knew truth
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ditto preethi.
I can't see anything but a self centred agenda here.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ishwari has every right to ask anyone she wants to divorce her son. I hope the decision however remains her son's and his wife's

Originally posted by: sangeeta_helios

what is your opinion about ish if she says sonakshi to divorce to dev as she has knew truth

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Posted: 8 years ago
#30
Ishwari can never think abt anyone other dan herself ...all her rant abt maa ka aanchal n mamta r all just words to emotionally torture n manipulate people

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