Statement from Ishwari - I became a mother from a MIL

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WeRockTheWorld

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Posted: 8 years ago

Have doubt with this statement... every one thinks that she became a mother from MIL for Sona ...but from where I am looking I see a diff perspective to it...I feel for Ishwari this child of Dev growing in Sona's womb is like being a able to live the journey of bringing up Dev 2nd time in a better situation ( with out hardship and with loads of wealth ) ...

For me ...her happiness is not of being a grandmother...its like being a mother for second time for Dev because of Sona...in Sona's womb grows Dev ka ansh!! Hence the love and affection for Sona...

If my thought is right then Ishu is going to be more disappointed than Sona ...and the same time Sona is going to be treated very badly by her...because she would feel Sona is the reason for her to loose on that so called 2nd time Journey as Dev's mom !!

I just hope I am not right...

Any thought on this one friends ??

Edited by WeRockTheWorld - 8 years ago

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siddhi.d123

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Posted: 8 years ago

Initially she might be disappointed or even cold towards Sona but I think she will come around the CV's will not maker so heartless I hope so.Though I didn't like the execution of the infertility track one thing is clear that Dev's knows about Ishu's insecurities but never addresses it this track will force him to choose and act and standing up for himself I think this track will also shape Ishwari's character in a positive way 😊

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Sajini Cherian

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld
Have doubt with this statement... every one thinks that she became a mother from MIL for Sona ...but from where I am looking I see a diff perspective to it...I feel for Ishwari this child of Dev growing in Sona's womb is like being a able to live the journey of bringing up Dev 2nd time in a better situation ( with out hardship and with loads of wealth ) ...

For me ...her happiness is not of being a grandmother...its like being a mother for second time for Dev because of Sona...in Sona's womb grows Dev ka ansh!! Hence the love and affection for Sona...

If my thought is right then Ishu is going to be more disappointed than Sona ...and the same time Sona is going to be treated very badly by her...because she would feel Sona is the reason for her to loose on that so called 2nd time Journey as Dev's mom !!

I just hope I am not right...

Any thought on this one friends ??

who is this EVERYONE????

CERTAINLY NOT THE AUDIENCE...

oH YA... SHE DOESNT GET TIRED OF THIS MOTHERHOOD... SOMEONE PLS SAY.. HUSBAND DIED GIVING SEMEN...😆 - JOKES APART...

DEV'S ANSH is the only reason for her change of attitude...rather again.. she feels Dev listened to her.. gave importance to her... silly Ishwari...

KYUN TAK RAHE HO...😆😉

YES YES... TU KABHI WRONG HAI..

KABHI NAHI...👏

Edited by sajinifaby - 8 years ago

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WeRockTheWorld

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: sajinifaby

who is this EVERYONE????
CERTAINLY NOT THE AUDIENCE...

oH YA... SHE DOESNT GET TIRED OF THIS MOTHERHOOD... SOMEONE PLS SAY.. HUSBAND DIED GIVING SEMEN...😆 - JOKES APART...

DEV'S ANSH is the only reason for her change of attitude...rather again.. she feels Dev listened to her.. gave importance to her... silly Ishwari...

KYUN TAK RAHE HO...😆😉
YES YES... TU KABHI WRONG HAI..
KABHI NAHI...👏

More than anything I am waiting for Dev's past or should I say Ishwari's past ...I want to know why she is so obsessed with this child Dev and everything to do with him...just cant figure out ...😕😲

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Sajini Cherian

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Posted: 8 years ago

ONLY MALE SHE CAN KEEP HUGGING...WHO WORSHIPS HER...😃😃😃

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

More than anything I am waiting for Dev's past or should I say Ishwari's past ...I want to know why she is so obsessed with this child Dev and everything to do with him...just cant figure out ...😕😲

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sona_naksh

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Posted: 8 years ago

hello ashwathy
m yet to see d week epis n m quite sure i ll b able to watch dem on sunday not bfr dat
but going by d written updates ..m sure of two things
dev exactly knew dat ishwari has not yet fully accepted sona but he never voiced it so everytym reassuring ishwari was his way of telling to ishwari dat she does not need to worry n he shud b grateful dat sona is his wife who hardly complains n i guess dis is d reason he at tyms chooses ishwari's whims n fancies over sona's. But by ignoring to directly address dis issue may b just to keep both ladies in his life he has nade some matters worse or rather complicated ..so now when dey hit him he ll b cornered n devastated . he alwaz knew wat he wants his mother to do n wat exactly is she doing but now after living his dream for however short period if his mother takes u turn he ll b hurt beyond measure ...kuch na mile to chalta hai ..but de ke cheen liya jaaye to hadh n bardaast se jyaada chubhta h

n i completely agree wid u on ishwari ...shez not pampering sona by any means shez pampering her beta's ansh which she believes is in sona ryt now so until hez born she ll have to transfer ler love thru sona hence all this ...in short ishwari has issues sharing dev ryt now n she ll have issues sharing his baby too ...sona is just required to produce dem ...baki sab ishwari ke hak ke daayre me h ..

i dunno wat cvs have planned but for now i want it to b false alarm ...den let dev fight n stand up for sona ..n den wid medical aid n dev's support sona gets pregnant ...

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varsha

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Posted: 8 years ago

If the child comes i dont think there wud be any differences

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WeRockTheWorld

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: sona_naksh
hello ashwathy
m yet to see d week epis n m quite sure i ll b able to watch dem on sunday not bfr dat
but going by d written updates ..m sure of two things
dev exactly knew dat ishwari has not yet fully accepted sona but he never voiced it so everytym reassuring ishwari was his way of telling to ishwari dat she does not need to worry n he shud b grateful dat sona is his wife who hardly complains n i guess dis is d reason he at tyms chooses ishwari's whims n fancies over sona's. But by ignoring to directly address dis issue may b just to keep both ladies in his life he has nade some matters worse or rather complicated ..so now when dey hit him he ll b cornered n devastated . he alwaz knew wat he wants his mother to do n wat exactly is she doing but now after living his dream for however short period if his mother takes u turn he ll b hurt beyond measure ...kuch na mile to chalta hai ..but de ke cheen liya jaaye to hadh n bardaast se jyaada chubhta h

n i completely agree wid u on ishwari ...shez not pampering sona by any means shez pampering her beta's ansh which she believes is in sona ryt now so until hez born she ll have to transfer ler love thru sona hence all this ...in short ishwari has issues sharing dev ryt now n she ll have issues sharing his baby too ...sona is just required to produce dem ...baki sab ishwari ke hak ke daayre me h ..

i dunno wat cvs have planned but for now i want it to b false alarm ...den let dev fight n stand up for sona ..n den wid medical aid n dev's support sona gets pregnant ...

@BOLD ...So true...even if she manages to give birth , Sona will not be able to take of the child the way she wants...that child is going to be with Ishwari...Sona is going to be ONLY a means for Ishwari to get Dev's ansh...thats what I felt reading the post...

PS : Even I didnt watch the episode just read the live updates ...I dont have the strength or courage to watch an infertility track...some fears dont leave you even after your life changes ...you just learn to live with it or avoid it...😔

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randommusings

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Posted: 8 years ago

She said I want to become Grandmother from MIL..right ??

Anyways in her scheme of things Sona is only providing her Dev's ansh...otherwise Sona is as usual good for nothing, outsider, interfering in Ish n Dev's personal world.

She is so happy to get another Dev that she is ready to tolerate Sona or to even share Dev with Sona...since she is going to get a new Dev.

Once she gets her grandchild ..the differences between Ish n Sona wud crop up again...coz then Ish wud hav difficulty accepting the fact that for the child Sona is more important. And even Dev wud spend more time with Sona or take care of her..which wud make Ishu insecure. Ishwari wants Dev's world to move around her...if she gives permission then Dev can spend time with his wife, take her out..n if Ish doesn't like it, Dev can break up with the outsider.

Bigger problem is now that Supriya has complained ..writers wud be in a pressure to show Ish in good light . .n hence all her past deeds forgotten n Ish will not be accountable for all her wrong behaviour with Sona. They wud again start with justifying Ish's obsession. Anyways they have taken a complete U-turn from 'wanting a grand child so that Sona wud get busy n leave Dev for Ish' to 'happy with Sona as she is giving her grandchild'.

Also wat bothers me if Dev knew abt Ish's non-acceptance of Sona why he didnt do anything about it..why he left Sona alone to handle Ish...wasn't it his responsibility to make sure Sona gets accepted by his family.

Edited by randommusings - 8 years ago

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Gayatri

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: sajinifaby

who is this EVERYONE????
CERTAINLY NOT THE AUDIENCE...


oH YA... SHE DOESNT GET TIRED OF THIS MOTHERHOOD... SOMEONE PLS SAY.. HUSBAND DIED GIVING SEMEN...😆-JOKES APART...

DEV'S ANSH is the only reason for her change of attitude...rather again.. she feels Dev listened to her.. gave importance to her... silly Ishwari...

KYUN TAK RAHE HO...😆😉
YES YES... TU KABHI WRONG HAI..
KABHI NAHI...👏