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whom should Dev now value more ? Whom should he support more?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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What do you all think?

At this juncture where all build up is for the sequence we all know how it is gonna shape in the show..
Whom do you think Dev will stand upto?

Dev has said many dialogues which has been unfruitful umpteen number of times.

But can we have some hope this time?

will Dev stand up to his most inspiring and captivating promise :

I LOVE YOU AS A MAN LOVES A WOMAN?

A real man is strong but we have seen Dev weak when it comes to handling his mothers emotional blackmail, otherwise we all know how much he loves Sona.

I would wish you all genuinely participate in this poll...

Grandmother dream vs Mother dream

Whom should Dev stand with? and how?
Is there a middle way this time?

What if like every wife.. she walk away..
Ishwari will be happy. But will Dev let her go?

Looking forward to all your responses & definitely the poll results

Lots of love..
Sajini

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Definitely Sona...Dev married Sona knowing about her issue so why will he not be by her side now ❤️
Edited by Vancity_Ca - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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He should stand by sonakshi... As he married her knowing abt her condition...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev shud support sona always bcoz she's his wife, with whom he took satphere & promised to b together, during ups n downs. Sona wud b more shattered than maataji, I feel so. ( bcoz usually evil maatajis can opt for dusri shaadi for beta but i don think ish maa is that type )
Even if he's nt aware of her medical condition, he shud b her support system bcoz in dealing with such a fragile issue, one shud always need the companionship n encouragement of one's partner . Hre Dev knew the medical condition of sona n willingly married her .

I want dev to stand for sona in all circumstances, @ least from now onwards n prove that he's a man in all sense , nt a mama's boy( btw, after that mama's boy speech by maataji, dev has shown improvement , maataji also changed a bit..no more emotional athyachar so far ) Is it calm b4 the storm ?? Lets c..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sonakshi. Without a doubt.

Because this is going to be the most difficult and heartbreaking phase of her life.

And at this point he should stand like a strong pillar of support for her.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Defo sona
Afterall he dared to marry her even after knowing her truth
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I voted for Sona reason being god blessed Ishwari with 4 kids , being a grandma is more like season 2...where as Sona who has always wanted to be a mother will be shattered when she knows that her chances of naturally conceiving a child is less. So Dev as her husband and Ishwari as her mother in law should stand by her , encouraging her to look at life in a more healthy and progressive way ...helping her and guiding her to take right steps for future and above all giving her hope saying that motherhood is not about giving birth but about bring up a child ...which means if she cant conceive naturally then she should think of assisted reproduction or adoption...that is when ever she is mentally and physically prepared to do so...and that they are with her what ever her decision may be.
Edited by WeRockTheWorld - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev n Sona should support each other. Even though Dev came to know about this early on he just closed himself up and didn't share it with anyone. But now Sona needs him because she is going to be at her most vulnerable and won't be able to hide behind her facade of strength. But she will also need some space because this is going to be a shock for her. Ishu will be shattered to know Dev hid this and intentionally overlooked her dreams. Dev is going to have a hard time managing them both. So it is important that Sona come out of her 'I have been wronged ' mode and understand Dev needs her too for he won't be able to mourn their lose otherwise. I want this to bring them more closer and make them realise that they are lucky to have each other. The rest they can decide later on.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

I voted for Sona reason being god blessed Ishwari with 4 kids , being a grandma is more like season 2...where as Sona who has always wanted to be a mother will be shattered when she knows that her chances of naturally conceiving a child is less. So Dev as her husband and Ishwari as her mother in law should stand by her , encouraging her to look at life in a more healthy and progressive way ...helping her and guiding her to take right steps for future and above all giving her hope saying that motherhood is not about giving birth but about bring up a child ...which means if she cant conceive naturally then she should think of assisted reproduction or adoption...that is when ever she is mentally and physically prepared to do so...and that they are with her what ever her decision may be.


Ishwari has been enchroaching on Sona's haq for a long time now and still able to insert herself as the primary person in this track. I am just sick of her! Seriously! I hope Dev does not repeat his past mistakes this time. Bahut ho gaya ye maa bete ka amar prem. Now take care of your wife's emotional needs too! Ishwari should take a backseat in this and actually should support both Dev and Sona while they go through this pain.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: baijubavra


Ishwari has been enchroaching on Sona's haq for a long time now and still able to insert herself as the primary person in this track. I am just sick of her! Seriously! I hope Dev does not repeat his past mistakes this time. Bahut ho gaya ye maa bete ka amar prem. Now take care of your wife's emotional needs too! Ishwari should take a backseat in this and actually should support both Dev and Sona while they go through this pain.


At the moment I feel Sona will be the most vulnerable as she will be in a state of shock - 1) Dev hid the truth from her 2 ) chances of being a mother is less 3) guilt that she cant give birth to their child 4) Not being able to live up to families expectation etc...where as Dev is mentally prepared of the fact that he may not become a father and he has kind of accepted it.

I am not even thinking of Ishwari not being able to be a grandmother because she has 3 other children who can help her be a grandma in later stages of life...and besides she had accepted her elder daughter's wish of not wanting to be a mother...So now that her DIL has a medical issue then she should stand by her son and her DIL ...and help them thru this tough stage of their life.

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