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sowiee

@sowiee

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

Hi guys,

It's just a thought came into my mind ...once before when ishwari was against the relationship of devakshi dev and sonakshi broke up ...

The question is was Dev right in doing so ???

I mean if dev and Sona like Vicky and Elena eloped and married was that right???

In that situation, when ishwari was not accepting the change then I think dev was right in doing so ...

The scenario later is later ..

I mean they showed different situations like.

First Neha and ranveer's love got approval by all despite of all differences ... But Neha and ranveer could not adjust with the differences.

Second dev and Sona dint get approval from both the families (first by dixit family later Bose family) still they fought for their love and got half hearted approval by some and hearty approval from others. Happily married but yet have few differences but these dint give up and trying to solve them bravely by facing them.

Third Vicky and Elena ... Don't know really they love each other or not .?? (Serious doubt.) They claim to love each other.. they just made up their mind that no one will understand their love and eloped and got married..my doubt when they know that when no one in the family will not agree for he marriage then how did they expect that everyone will agree if they are married.

Few people in love , feel that if people getting married love each other that's enough .. few think that getting approval by parents is enough not understanding the real purpose of approval and few think that giving approval for the marriage tinking that in future a child may change due to the other partner .

But according to me all are wrong to some extent !! Love and marriage and all will work out only when relation basis is strong as foundation is laid on trust, understanding, adjustment ... And it's difficult for every couple to have a happily family and loving partner all the time . The person who got so is really lucky ...

P.s. just don't know what I wrote mixed up feeling...😉

Edited by sowiee - 8 years ago

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FLW70

@FLW70

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

Yeh kya thaaa...Vickey Elina ne sab ko confujan mein daal diya hai...🤣

Muze is situation per bas ek song gaane ka mann ho raha hai...

Ye kya hua...Kaise hua...kab hua...kyun hua...🤣

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Kamal kulshreshta

@srilotus

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

i already hate VELENA aur ab toh kuch zyada hi...
haan thoda confusing post hai...but points theek hain
Ranveer Neha ko koi khaas struggle nahi karna pada,Velena ko toh bilkul bhi nahi...Dev Sona ko hi itna struggle karna pada because of mata...pehle 2 ke samne mata jaisa koi hurdle nahi tha ,Dev ko mata kissi ke saath share nahi kar sakti thi isliye usne yeh sab drama kiya.
i dont know lekin main chahti hun mami bhi Ishwari ke jaise nikle aur Elena ko torture kare.No happy life for her too.

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pkbdas61

@pkbdas61

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

Good thoughts. It only exposes the double, trible standards of Ishwari. It looks like she does not have any standard at all apart from the only standard for Dev and Sonakshi.. Great!

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WeRockTheWorld

@WeRockTheWorld

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

Every one in Dixit house has problem with Sona and Dev's relationship...others are not that imp..because Sona has married the provider of the family ...so every one is insecure thinking that if the provider blindly falls in love with his wife ...there are chances that each of them will loose the luxuries that they are benefiting because of him...that is why they hate this relationship...I think Nikki is the only one who genuinely likes Dev.

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

There are two aspects here.

1. Family - If you can't be loyal to your family, you can't be loyal to anyone else. That doesn't mean you should break up with your love if your family commands. God, no. Love is as important as family. But running away, eloping are disrespectful not only to the family but also to the so-called love which needs deceit to survive. Sorry in my opinion, eloping is an insult to love. But what is even bigger insult is to elope and coming back to live under the same family's charity whom you betrayed. The least you can do is stand on your own feet.

2. Love - Even when Dev broke up with Sonakshi, I never wanted them to elope. Instead I wanted them to stand beside each other with or without marriage license. You don't need a piece of paper to prove your commitment to each other. But if you stand beside each other without being married, the people opposing your pairing will figure out eventually that regardless of a marriage license, you are married in your heart and accept your togetherness with full respect and dignity.

That is a win for your love and the family's upbringing. Eloping is a coward's way out. That means that the person who is eloping didn't have the guts to fight for their love, so tried to force family's hands by presenting them as inevitable.

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sowiee

@sowiee

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: tia.o
There are two aspects here.
1. Family - If you can't be loyal to your family, you can't be loyal to anyone else. That doesn't mean you should break up with your love if your family commands. God, no. Love is as important as family. But running away, eloping are disrespectful not only to the family but also to the so-called love which needs deceit to survive. Sorry in my opinion, eloping is an insult to love. But what is even bigger insult is to elope and coming back to live under the same family's charity whom you betrayed. The least you can do is stand on your own feet.

2. Love - Even when Dev broke up with Sonakshi, I never wanted them to elope. Instead I wanted them to stand beside each other with or without marriage license. You don't need a piece of paper to prove your commitment to each other. But if you stand beside each other without being married, the people opposing your pairing will figure out eventually that regardless of a marriage license, you are married in your heart and accept your togetherness with full respect and dignity.

That is a win for your love and the family's upbringing. Eloping is a coward's way out. That means that the person who is eloping didn't have the guts to fight for their love, so tried to force family's hands by presenting them as inevitable.

I agree

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monika

@M.soni

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: tia.o
There are two aspects here.
1. Family - If you can't be loyal to your family, you can't be loyal to anyone else. That doesn't mean you should break up with your love if your family commands. God, no. Love is as important as family. But running away, eloping are disrespectful not only to the family but also to the so-called love which needs deceit to survive. Sorry in my opinion, eloping is an insult to love. But what is even bigger insult is to elope and coming back to live under the same family's charity whom you betrayed. The least you can do is stand on your own feet.

2. Love - Even when Dev broke up with Sonakshi, I never wanted them to elope. Instead I wanted them to stand beside each other with or without marriage license. You don't need a piece of paper to prove your commitment to each other. But if you stand beside each other without being married, the people opposing your pairing will figure out eventually that regardless of a marriage license, you are married in your heart and accept your togetherness with full respect and dignity.

That is a win for your love and the family's upbringing. Eloping is a coward's way out. That means that the person who is eloping didn't have the guts to fight for their love, so tried to force family's hands by presenting them as inevitable.

Agree with u...👏

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independent

@independent

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: tia.o
There are two aspects here.
1. Family - If you can't be loyal to your family, you can't be loyal to anyone else. That doesn't mean you should break up with your love if your family commands. God, no. Love is as important as family. But running away, eloping are disrespectful not only to the family but also to the so-called love which needs deceit to survive. Sorry in my opinion, eloping is an insult to love. But what is even bigger insult is to elope and coming back to live under the same family's charity whom you betrayed. The least you can do is stand on your own feet.

2. Love - Even when Dev broke up with Sonakshi, I never wanted them to elope. Instead I wanted them to stand beside each other with or without marriage license. You don't need a piece of paper to prove your commitment to each other. But if you stand beside each other without being married, the people opposing your pairing will figure out eventually that regardless of a marriage license, you are married in your heart and accept your togetherness with full respect and dignity.

That is a win for your love and the family's upbringing. Eloping is a coward's way out. That means that the person who is eloping didn't have the guts to fight for their love, so tried to force family's hands by presenting them as inevitable.

Completely agree with you 👏

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WeRockTheWorld

@WeRockTheWorld

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: tia.o
There are two aspects here.
1. Family - If you can't be loyal to your family, you can't be loyal to anyone else. That doesn't mean you should break up with your love if your family commands. God, no. Love is as important as family. But running away, eloping are disrespectful not only to the family but also to the so-called love which needs deceit to survive. Sorry in my opinion, eloping is an insult to love. But what is even bigger insult is to elope and coming back to live under the same family's charity whom you betrayed. The least you can do is stand on your own feet.

2. Love - Even when Dev broke up with Sonakshi, I never wanted them to elope. Instead I wanted them to stand beside each other with or without marriage license. You don't need a piece of paper to prove your commitment to each other. But if you stand beside each other without being married, the people opposing your pairing will figure out eventually that regardless of a marriage license, you are married in your heart and accept your togetherness with full respect and dignity.

That is a win for your love and the family's upbringing. Eloping is a coward's way out. That means that the person who is eloping didn't have the guts to fight for their love, so tried to force family's hands by presenting them as inevitable.

Agreed ...I had asked a question to my grandmother abt ppl eloping is that when they can leave parents who took care of them for so many years in a matter of few mins for someone whom they met few months or years back...how long will they stay in marriage when an issue arises...

( She had a court marriage nearly 56 years back when both their parents decided not to support their marriage and then after few months parents accepted ...their nearly 55 yrs of marriage ended when my grandpa left this world)

Her answer ..what to do when you try to convince ur parents abt love and they are bend upon looking at culture and religion...so we take a decision to live with a person whom we love ...but there is one thing that you should not do...never hide and get married...meaning if you are going to get married against their will then have the guts to tell them that you will marry this person...right in front of them hold his hand and walk to your new life...if not they will keep searching for you worrying if something wrong has happened to you ...which is not rt...

Yesterday when every one was frantically searching for Elina this is the first thing that came to my mind ...how true she was...if Elina was bend upon marrying Vicky then she should have openly told every one about it and got married ...but what she did is so wrong and a selfish act ...and I am sure she is going to pay for this soon...

PS: I have this feeling she is going to trouble for Sona and Dev. And is going to add more MU betwn them...She is Vicky's best bet to destroy Sona and Dev's relationship...I hope DevAkshi is able to withstand the storm that is going to come against them...and not get separated and destroyed :(

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