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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agree Sonakshi shud hv told Dev about it bcoz it was related to Vicki too n Sona knows how Dev feels abt Vicki so Dev wud hv supported Sona's view. Moreover Vicki Elena relationship wud impact their marriage too as same families are involved. Knowing Vicki who doesn't shy away from inappropriate behavior, Sona shud hv been cautious abt it...but Elena lied to her face..so can't blame Sona for all this.
Not telling Ma Baba abt bad boyfriend is ok as Sona didn't want to create unpleasant situation for Elena n later she was convinced Elena broke up with Vicki. But am surprised Sona didn't tell Dada abt it...he is very understanding n he cud hv helped with this.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: randommusings

Agree Sonakshi shud hv told Dev about it bcoz it was related to Vicki too n Sona knows how Dev feels abt Vicki so Dev wud hv supported Sona's view. Moreover Vicki Elena relationship wud impact their marriage too as same families are involved. Knowing Vicki who doesn't shy away from inappropriate behavior, Sona shud hv been cautious abt it...but Elena lied to her face..so can't blame Sona for all this.

Not telling Ma Baba abt bad boyfriend is ok as Sona didn't want to create unpleasant situation for Elena n later she was convinced Elena broke up with Vicki. But am surprised Sona didn't tell Dada abt it...he is very understanding n he cud hv helped with this.


Very good point on not sharing with dada ... And ideally, Sona should have shared with Dev but then all this drama (today's) could not be written right 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The newlyweds hardly spend anytime together or call each other to talk about themselves. How on earth Sona will talk with him about Elena's old affair in the smallish amount of time they get with each other before falling asleep to an interupted sleep. (By odd hour knock on the door) . She should have discussed with her mother to talk with Elena on this though! She was taking care of her in Delhi and should have been informed about her because Sona does not live them any more and Elena is shown to be an impulsive and immature kid. She has had several flings before and Saurabh had openely discussed them with her. The odd thing was that Elena never mantioned this to any one in Bose family about her liking for Vicky to get their initial reaction even.
Edited by baijubavra - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Which brings me to my next point of the ridiculousness of Devakshi's married life. One of them had to binge drink to make his parent realise how much they love each other. They have their elope to consummate their marriage. They cannot spend a night out on their own. They cannot cook for each other. Their wardrobe isn't a private sanctuary. They don't text each other and they don't share important matters with each other. I hope they fix their problems. Because I for one am rooting for them
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree. Sonakshi should have told Dev about Vicky and Elena. They never share information with each other and boosts about being each other's best friends. Biggest bull ever. But I doubt even Dev could have done anything. After all he found out before Vicky got married but he married Elena anyway.
Edited by tia.o - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Precisely. He deserved to know.. nothing tit for tat in this.. I hope Sonakshi will learn a lesson and so will Dev


true. sona wants to be treated as a family member and as confederate by Dev. same hold true for Dev. She has to share the issues with Dev , i am not saying she needs his permission for anything, but letting him know is a must. In a relationship the flow has to be either side, she want Dev to involve her in all his problems/worries to be treated as an insider then she too must behave in the same way with him. here she fails miserably( i would have used a more stronger word , but forum you see>>>)

1. she doesn't tell about elina
2. she doesnt tell about sourav and her business venture plans
3. she is still suspicious about ayan, but keeps it to herself.

Is she really treating dev as a partner?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sonakshi should have told about the affair atleast to Dev. Why does she expect dev to share everything when she can't do the same.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Which brings me to my next point of the ridiculousness of Devakshi's married life. One of them had to binge drink to make his parent realise how much they love each other. They have their elope to consummate their marriage. They cannot spend a night out on their own. They cannot cook for each other. Their wardrobe isn't a private sanctuary. They don't text each other and they don't share important matters with each other. I hope they fix their problems. Because I for one am rooting for them


I personally believe Sona should have told Dev if not any one else. I am a person who believe that husband and wife should speak abt every personal aspect of life...but I can understand why Sona didnt tell him...I think she was scared if she told this to Dev he would scold Vicky and and Mami /Neha/Ishwari would scold her saying that she is again trying to create diff betwn brothers. So she controlled her sis and trusted her to keep her promise.

Vicky is too smart and was able to convince Ele. I dont think Ele is in love with Vicky . She keeps fallin in and out of love . We know because Sona had told Dev once "ek mahine mein atleast dho bar pyar hotah hain" ...so give time and we will know if its infatuation or if its true love...


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Posted: 8 years ago
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of Course, Sona erred big time about not telling her parents about Elena and Vicky. in most homes this is what happens. Siblings try to protect each other from their own parents (in homes that have "expectations") and in the process do more harm than good. This is a classic example.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#20
Disclosing it to Dev was a better option than the elders.

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