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Posted: 8 years ago
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Can anyone please analyze this Nauseous Neha character for me!!!
Cannot understand why this woman is so venomous towards Sona???

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Let me give it a try...

1. She is delusional- ishwari never told her not to marry ranveer..infact she was in a hurry to get rid of neha. So when she said "i did not listen to maa and thats why i am in this condition "... I was totally 🤔 .. She probably got confused mami with maa.. Gkb was the one warning her against that marriage
2. She clearly knows maa runs the dixit house and if u say anything aginst her she will find a way to send her back to ranveer.. So she very carefully picked her side and joined ishus devotee list .. Started maa bhajan
3. After a few days she started noticing that dev actually started taking sonas side and sona sometimes goes against maa beta and neha is shocked that sona still survived it 😲
4. She saw that sona has the potential to gradually take over ishwaris place in the house and neha got worried that she chose a wrong party.. But what can she do now... She is trying to make her maa win by continuously taunting sona for every single thing
5. Also i feel she saw how sona is getting away with her wishes (again neha is delusional.. Sona is actually not getting any of her wishes fulfilled) and is jeolous that sona os better than her and happier than her and is richer than her etc etc
Ishwari taunts sona because sona makes her insecure
Neha taunts her becuase sona makes her jeolous
Gkb taunts her because sona scares her and she knows one day if she has to leave that house it will be becuase of sona

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Neha is good person at heart but is also the one who has lost her way. In her childhood she was forced to sacrifice her happiness, her chance at education and even her childhood to make way for Dev. She also never got the love and attention that Dev got. When they were out of poverty, Ishwari always praised Dev, appreciated and acknowledged his sacrifices in public. She never really paid much attention to Neha's sacrifices. Ishwari always tried to make Neha feel that what she did is an ordinary thing rather that something special. Neha constantly looked for this appreciation and acknowledgement from Ishwari.

When Ranveer expressed his love for her, Neha felt special for the first time in her life. She felt that she got something that was only hers something her brother did not get. But she was also scared of not having the comforts that she got in her house. Hence she asked Dev to make Ranveer rich. But Ranveer is someone with self-respect and believes in pursuing happiness in his life. When Ranveer accepted the job offer suggested by Dev, she thought that Ranveer would do anything to make her happy.

Neha thought that when she agreed to marry Ranveer that she was sacrificing her comfortable life. She thought that seeing this Ranveer would feel grateful and indebted towards her. That she will finally get the appreciation that she deserved. She also thought that Ranveer would accept every demand of hers and will do exactly as she says.

What Neha saw as sacrifice, Ranveer saw it as compromise. He appreciated it, but did not feel grateful or indebted to Neha because of that. She wanted to be the center of Ranveers attention, but she was not. She came back.

Neha was fine with Sona till the HM fiasco. Neha does not know that her mother is the one who used her to stop Dev from going to his HM. But when she heard Sonakshi make that comment to her parents, she automatically assumed that Sonakshi was holding her responsible for cancelling their HM. When she created the drama, she thought Dev would stand by her and scold Sonakshi. But instead Dev supported Sonakshi. Not only that the very next day, she saw Dev and Sonakshi having fun in the garden. Dev did not stop or feel guilty at all when he saw Neha watching them.

Neha then got irked when Sonakshi tried to make her talk to Ranveer. If Ranveer had come and agreed to everything she said, she would have been very happy with Sonakshi, but instead he came and told that she is immature and needs to be mature like Sonakshi. To top that she saw that Dev did not really shout at his wife for doing all this. He simply stood by her. He also does not miss any single time to praise his wife. He keeps saying that he is lucky to have Sonakshi as his wife, that he is proud of her all the time and that too in public.

Neha feels she had to make sacrifices to marry the person she loved, but Sonakshi actually got to marry a very rich guy and without making any sacrifices. She was not praised by Ranveer, but Sonakshi is constantly praised by Dev even when she did not do anything. Neha sees that her brother cannot stay without her, that he listens to her and is vocal about his love to her.

Neha wants what Sonakshi has. From Neha's viewpoint, not only is Sonakshii smart, beautiful, educated, she is also very well-liked by her own family which Neha never got. Sonakshi is also very much loved by her husband who is ready to go behind her when she leaves him and convince her to come back which Ranveer did not do.

Neha wants to feel important in Ishwari, Dev or Ranveer's life. But unfortunately, for Ishwari, Dev is the top priority. For Dev, it is Ishwari and Sonakshi and for Ranveer, his family. She feels that after all her sacrifices she deserves every happiness there is in the world...

This has caused Neha to become blindly jealous of Sonakshi... Just my POV...

Edited by Shaavi - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yeah big mistake there. Neha says if only she had listened to Ishwari she wouldn't be in this position today. But Ish never warned her not to marry Ranveer. On the contrary she was all for Neha marrying him because love and fresh air are enough to survive on etc etc

Let me give it a try...

1. She is delusional- ishwari never told her not to marry ranveer..infact she was in a hurry to get rid of neha. So when she said "i did not listen to maa and thats why i am in this condition "... I was totally 🤔 .. She probably got confused mami with maa.. Gkb was the one warning her against that marriage

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shaavi

Neha is good person at heart but is also the one who has lost her way. In her childhood she was forced to sacrifice her happiness, her chance at education and even her childhood to make way for Dev. She also never got the love and attention that Dev got. When they were out of poverty, Ishwari always praised Dev, appreciated and acknowledged his sacrifices in public. She never really paid much attention to Neha's sacrifices. Ishwari always tried to make Neha feel that what she did is an ordinary thing rather that something special. Neha constantly looked for this appreciation and acknowledgement from Ishwari.

When Ranveer expressed his love for her, Neha felt special for the first time in her life. She felt that she got something that was only hers something her brother did not get. But she was also scared of not having the comforts that she got in her house. Hence she asked Dev to make Ranveer rich. But Ranveer is someone with self-respect and believes in pursuing happiness in his life. When Ranveer accepted the job offer suggested by Dev, she thought that Ranveer would do anything to make her happy.

Neha thought that when she agreed to marry Ranveer that she was sacrificing her comfortable life. She thought that seeing this Ranveer would feel grateful and indebted towards her. That she will finally get the appreciation that she deserved. She also thought that Ranveer would accept every demand of hers and will do exactly as she says.

What Neha saw as sacrifice, Ranveer saw it as compromise. He appreciated it, but did not feel grateful or indebted to Neha because of that. She wanted to be the center of Ranveers attention, but she was not. She came back.

Neha was fine with Sona till the HM fiasco. Neha does not know that her mother is the one who used her to stop Dev from going to his HM. But when she heard Sonakshi make that comment to her parents, she automatically assumed that Sonakshi was holding her responsible for cancelling their HM. When she created the drama, she thought Dev would stand by her and scold Sonakshi. But instead Dev supported Sonakshi. Not only that the very next day, she saw Dev and Sonakshi having fun in the garden. Dev did not stop or feel guilty at all when he saw Neha watching them.

Neha then got irked when Sonakshi tried to make her talk to Ranveer. If Ranveer had come and agreed to everything she said, she would have been very happy with Sonakshi, but instead he came and told that she is immature and needs to be mature like Sonakshi. To top that she saw that Dev did not really shout at his wife for doing all this. He simply stood by her. He also does not miss any single time to praise his wife. He keeps saying that he is lucky to have Sonakshi as his wife, that he is proud of her all the time and that too in public.

Neha feels she had to make sacrifices to marry the person she loved, but Sonakshi actually got to marry a very rich guy and without making any sacrifices. She was not praised by Ranveer, but Sonakshi is constantly praised by Dev even when she did not do anything. Neha sees that her brother cannot stay without her, that he listens to her and is vocal about his love to her.

Neha wants what Sonakshi has. From Neha's viewpoint, not only is Sonakshii smart, beautiful, educated, she is also very well-liked by her own family which Neha never got. Sonakshi is also very much loved by her husband who is ready to go behind her when she leaves him and convince her to come back which Ranveer did not do.

Neha wants to feel important in Ishwari, Dev or Ranveer's life. But unfortunately, for Ishwari, Dev is the top priority. For Dev, it is Ishwari and Sonakshi and for Ranveer, his family. She feels that after all her sacrifices she deserves every happiness there is in the world...

This has caused Neha to become blindly jealous of Sonakshi... Just my POV...


OMG ! @shaavi your character analysis is so awesome ! I just read your other post on big picture also. Love your writing and your balanced view of the characters. Would love to read your thoughts on Mamajee also.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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it"s an inborn quality for her
cant do anything about it
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shaavi

Neha is good person at heart but is also the one who has lost her way. In her childhood she was forced to sacrifice her happiness, her chance at education and even her childhood to make way for Dev. She also never got the love and attention that Dev got. When they were out of poverty, Ishwari always praised Dev, appreciated and acknowledged his sacrifices in public. She never really paid much attention to Neha's sacrifices. Ishwari always tried to make Neha feel that what she did is an ordinary thing rather that something special. Neha constantly looked for this appreciation and acknowledgement from Ishwari.

When Ranveer expressed his love for her, Neha felt special for the first time in her life. She felt that she got something that was only hers something her brother did not get. But she was also scared of not having the comforts that she got in her house. Hence she asked Dev to make Ranveer rich. But Ranveer is someone with self-respect and believes in pursuing happiness in his life. When Ranveer accepted the job offer suggested by Dev, she thought that Ranveer would do anything to make her happy.

Neha thought that when she agreed to marry Ranveer that she was sacrificing her comfortable life. She thought that seeing this Ranveer would feel grateful and indebted towards her. That she will finally get the appreciation that she deserved. She also thought that Ranveer would accept every demand of hers and will do exactly as she says.

What Neha saw as sacrifice, Ranveer saw it as compromise. He appreciated it, but did not feel grateful or indebted to Neha because of that. She wanted to be the center of Ranveers attention, but she was not. She came back.

Neha was fine with Sona till the HM fiasco. Neha does not know that her mother is the one who used her to stop Dev from going to his HM. But when she heard Sonakshi make that comment to her parents, she automatically assumed that Sonakshi was holding her responsible for cancelling their HM. When she created the drama, she thought Dev would stand by her and scold Sonakshi. But instead Dev supported Sonakshi. Not only that the very next day, she saw Dev and Sonakshi having fun in the garden. Dev did not stop or feel guilty at all when he saw Neha watching them.

Neha then got irked when Sonakshi tried to make her talk to Ranveer. If Ranveer had come and agreed to everything she said, she would have been very happy with Sonakshi, but instead he came and told that she is immature and needs to be mature like Sonakshi. To top that she saw that Dev did not really shout at his wife for doing all this. He simply stood by her. He also does not miss any single time to praise his wife. He keeps saying that he is lucky to have Sonakshi as his wife, that he is proud of her all the time and that too in public.

Neha feels she had to make sacrifices to marry the person she loved, but Sonakshi actually got to marry a very rich guy and without making any sacrifices. She was not praised by Ranveer, but Sonakshi is constantly praised by Dev even when she did not do anything. Neha sees that her brother cannot stay without her, that he listens to her and is vocal about his love to her.

Neha wants what Sonakshi has. From Neha's viewpoint, not only is Sonakshii smart, beautiful, educated, she is also very well-liked by her own family which Neha never got. Sonakshi is also very much loved by her husband who is ready to go behind her when she leaves him and convince her to come back which Ranveer did not do.

Neha wants to feel important in Ishwari, Dev or Ranveer's life. But unfortunately, for Ishwari, Dev is the top priority. For Dev, it is Ishwari and Sonakshi and for Ranveer, his family. She feels that after all her sacrifices she deserves every happiness there is in the world...

This has caused Neha to become blindly jealous of Sonakshi... Just my POV...


This is simply a brillant analysis of Neha 👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Neha to me is the 'Forgotten Child' she does not need hate but understanding. I read this quote and feel it is apt for Neha
'everything we do is either an act of love or a cry for help' I have told it before and I am telling it again her actions are just a cry for help . What we see as a Jealous Rage is just stemming out of fear.

I feel the below description fits her perfectly as she has all these issues. She has faced abandonment in childhood, she has lost her love, she is about to be divorced so shame in the community ... and her anger though misguided and misdirected is against Sona

'Jealousy is about real or imagined fears--fear of abandonment, fear of loss of love, fear of being dishonored in the relationship, fear of being shamed in the community, unresolved issues from past relationships, lack issues, poor self esteem, cover or mask for things from the past that you haven't healed yet, vindictive or a desire for revenge that is misguided or misdirected toward someone else'.

When jealous feelings come up, it's usually because we're afraid that we won't get our needs of one kind or another met. And the child that cries the loudest does get the most attention I only hope her cries for help are not overpowered by Easwari and her Dev obsession and someone pays attention to it and soon. I think the reason she is veering towards mamiji is because she is listening to Neha at some level maybe guiding her wrong but still listening

She needs healing and not hate
Edited by gemini54 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I feel Neha needs to be in the company of right people.
24*7 she is either with GKB or Ishwari.

She is already extremely negative and jealous person and presence of GKB and Ishwari around her just instigates her more to develop a completely wrong thought process.

She is that one person in Dixit family who is stubborn but at the same time gets very easily influenced by people around her.
So company matters a lot for her.

We have seen Sona handling her in the past with patience and composure so I guess if she distances herself from GKB and ishwari and let other people enter in her comfort zone..everything will be alright.

She needs to be more with her sisters ,Mama ji,brother, bhabhi and some friends may be who can guide her for her betterment.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thank you all for your wonderful analysis on why Neha is what she is today. She needs positivity around her and all her lashing out is definitely 'Cry for attention'. Question is if she is so scarred for life due to her childhood, will it be wrong for her to see a therapist?? Doubt Indian Television is ready to show this reality yet...
But again thank you all for taking out time and breaking down Neha character to understand her better.

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