Annoyingly Hesitant Dev :(

Why Dev is always hesitant to speak in favor of his wife when its necessary...??😡 He boasts of being proud of her, but when its time to support his wife, he backs off or stays silent, most of the time if not always. That awkward silence he gives, always irks me to the core.😡

OK, I agree, Dev respects elders(mom and gkb) and won't speak against them. Fine... Even I don't want him to argue with his elders, but at least some positive silent gestures towards Sonakshi in front of all would do. The silent assurances are a must in these kind of situations. She may not feel left out. He may sort out things with Sonakshi in their room later.

Yesterday, when Ishwari used the word "mamma's boy" in her speech, it was direct hit to Sonakshi. Sonakshi may have felt bad. If not all, only Dev understood what was Ishwari saying, he could've just looked at Sonakshi with the expression of giving her assurance, like "not to worry" or "just ignore" kind of... This would've assured Sonakshi that Dev is there for her no matter what. But he was too much engrossed in admiring his mom.😡

Again, when Ishwari said, when one is not yet has become a mother, will not understand the mother-son relationship... it was again a slap to Sonakshi... but at present without knowing her condition, Sonakshi may not feel offended by this as it is the truth. But, At that moment, I felt Dev would panic and feel guilty reminding himself of Sonakshi's medical reports. But, again he didn't feel anything of that sort. I was so disappointed. I thought at least, he will talk to Sonakshi about these two topics in their room like saying a simple sorry to her, or saying not to feel bad, but he didn't discuss.👎🏼 His fever was the main highlight.

Today, during photo session, Dev completely forgot Sonakshi for the family photo.😲 I was so annoyed, Does he really respects his wife? Is he really proud of his wife? I can hardly see that, he is so negligent, seriously.😡 Is he the same Dev, who once wanted to force fit Sonakshi in the family photo when she was an outsider for real? Now, she is his wife, but it hardly matters to him.😲 She was standing behind like an outsider, he didn't even look at her. I guess, at that moment, he didn't even think of her.😕 She would've remained there if Baba had not intervened, thanks to Bijoy Baba, he handled the situation and showed everyone where Sonakshi's actual place is.👏 Thank God, now Dev remembered his wife and cuddled her... for me Dev's affection and care in front of all looks very artificial and forced... Why does he act as if he is embarrassed to be with his wife or feels awkward to stand with his wife in front of all?😕 That's why, when only DevAkshi photo was clicked, it didn't bring smile on my face.😵

I wished, Baba should've taunted Dev lightly at that moment, when he made Sonakshi to stand next to Dev, like, "arey Dev beta, apne patni ko hi bhool gaye?"😆😡

OR

Any suitable one liners????😉 Give your suggestions please...😃

Edited... 😊

My thoughts and views are reflected perfectly and in a better way in this article by Fuzions.

http://www.fuzionproductions.com/kuch-rang-pyar-ke-aise-bhi-love-isnt-always-lovely-just-sky-isnt-always-blue/

I can only think of this song for him "Shaadi Karke Phas Gaya Yaar acha khasa tha Kuwara " .The moment I say anything in his favor I am immature teenager who is watching the serial for drooling over the dreamy looking male lead so let me not waste my energy on discussing

Originally posted by: gemini54

You have written everything beautifully and all the questions you ask are very valid.

I am going to give my two cents worth here😉

1. People who ask these questions are termed negative
2. if we want the Husband to stand up for his wife that is not reality
3. If we ask why he lets people insult Sona in public it is because that is how he was brought up it is because of his PAST!
4. Dev has done so many MAHAAN things for Sona so you cannot ask him to do all these menial stuff
5. Sona is equally at fault , how come we dont highlight her faults she wanted jhoola, she wanted Dev to be independent, she wanted Dev to celebrate with her on his birthday when he should be celebrating with his family,...the list goes on

So in a nutshell the makers will dish out only this because the so called Hero is hot and good looking and if you want something else that is NOT REALITY so we better get with the program😆

👏👏

Originally posted by: yyy

I can only think of this song for him "Shaadi Karke Phas Gaya Yaar acha khasa tha Kuwara " .The moment I say anything in his favor I am immature teenager who is watching the serial for drooling over the dreamy looking male lead so let me not waste my energy on discussing

Common u can say😊

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

The kuwara Dev Dixit would have had a cardiac arrest at 45 had he not met sona. The lover Dev Dixit couldn't wait to end his kuwarapan.

His bukhar comes down when he sees these two loving women in his life. What else does he need?

Wish vicky or the driver would just drive him to the hospital and they could run some bloodwork to check what if any infections was he fighting. Nah, that would be too logical

Agreed.😃

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

<font color="#ff00ff">The kuwara Dev Dixit would have had a cardiac arrest at 45 had he not met sona. The lover Dev Dixit couldn't wait to end his kuwarapan.</font>

<font color="#ff00ff">His bukhar comes down when he sees these two loving women in his life. What else does he need?</font>

<font color="#ff00ff">Wish vicky or the driver would just drive him to the hospital and they could run some bloodwork to check what if any infections was he fighting. Nah, that would be too logical</font>

😆 He just turned 9 so he doesn't realize the reason for this fever yet .Its not the ice cream that caused fever but the fear of balancing between his wife and mom .its hard to impress Ishwari and no matter what he does he cannot fulfill public's expectation .

His life was boring before marriage but suddenly it has become So eventful that I am not sure if 9 year old can handle it .

I would anyday talk to my doctor in such situation but where is the scope of drama If doctor treats him