Annoyingly Hesitant Dev :( - Page 3

Originally posted by: Jiyaaa...

Today, during photo session, Dev completely forgot Sonakshi for the family photo.

What I noticed, they were all gathering for photo session. Photo session was not done. How can we assume that Dev completely forgot Sona. I would have complained if photo shot was done till that moment Dev hasn't realized that Sona was not there.

p.s: During photo session, I did not get why Sona was standing behind. She would have just joined the group and stand next to Dev holding his hand 😆 After all, they are husband and wife 😉

Yesterday, when Ishwari used the word "mamma's boy" in her speech, it was direct hit to Sonakshi.

I don't think, Ishwari was taunting Sona, I do agree that speech was for Sona. She was directly/indirectly conveyed her message to Sona why/how her relationship with Dev is so special. Even Sona understood why Ishwari told that and understood her intention. Even Sona didn't feel bad. Just my POV.

Again, when Ishwari said, when one is not yet has become a mother, will not understand the mother-son relationship... it was again a slap to Sonakshi... but at present without knowing her condition, Sonakshi may not feel offended by this as it is the truth. But, At that moment, I felt Dev would panic and feel guilty reminding himself of Sonakshi's medical reports. But, again he didn't feel anything of that sort. I was so disappointed.

Common! During engagement, when Dev got upset for Sona on not becoming a mom, we complained "why he is whining/thinking about future!" In that case, whenever he sees small kids, he should feel bad. Does Ishawri knows that Sona can't be a mom? If she knew and taunted Sonakshi, then I would have bashed Dev for keeping quiet. I am glad, he has completely forgot about Sona not becoming a mom. Isn't that good thing? When time comes, he will handle these situation.

Let me talk about positive thing that Dev did in today's episode -

- Even though Ishwari asked him to not to eat ice cream, he ate that because Sonakshi made that just for him.

- Did we see how affectionately he had put hand over Sona when Dev was taking the photo with Sona and Ishwari.

- When Mami and Bijoy were taunting each other, I liked that he discussed with Sona that situation is going out of control and asked to her to take care.

- He waited for Sona in the room and wanted to give her the surprise

- When Sona said, he has fever, he didn't want to call any doctor, he said he wants just Dr Bose.

- when his mother again wanted to call doctor, he said he will be okay because his mom and wife, both are besides him

P.S:: I don't find Bijjoy one liners funny at all. He was wrong in calling Dev infront of everyone as "Nephew". I can't just support Bijjoy because Dev was wrong. Two wrongs don't make a Right. I just love Asha's maturity. Thank god, Asha is there to handle Bijoy. Again, just my POV.

P.P.S:: I also want to see Dev taking stand for Sona. Also, I am disappointed with the way they are shaping Dev's character. But I don't want criticize him for each and every action.

Originally posted by: gemini54

You have written everything beautifully and all the questions you ask are very valid.

I am going to give my two cents worth here😉

1. People who ask these questions are termed negative
2. if we want the Husband to stand up for his wife that is not reality
3. If we ask why he lets people insult Sona in public it is because that is how he was brought up it is because of his PAST!
4. Dev has done so many MAHAAN things for Sona so you cannot ask him to do all these menial stuff
5. Sona is equally at fault , how come we dont highlight her faults she wanted jhoola, she wanted Dev to be independent, she wanted Dev to celebrate with her on his birthday when he should be celebrating with his family,...the list goes on

So in a nutshell the makers will dish out only this because the so called Hero is hot and good looking and if you want something else that is NOT REALITY so we better get with the program😆

Originally posted by: Meera_Ka_Mohan

Why Dev is always hesitant to speak in favor of his wife when its necessary...??😡 He boasts of being proud of her, but when its time to support his wife, he backs off or stays silent, most of the time if not always. That awkward silence he gives, always irks me to the core.😡

OK, I agree, Dev respects elders(mom and gkb) and won't speak against them. Fine... Even I don't want him to argue with his elders, but at least some positive silent gestures towards Sonakshi in front of all would do. The silent assurances are a must in these kind of situations. She may not feel left out. He may sort out things with Sonakshi in their room later.

Yesterday, when Ishwari used the word "mamma's boy" in her speech, it was direct hit to Sonakshi. Sonakshi may have felt bad. If not all, only Dev understood what was Ishwari saying, he could've just looked at Sonakshi with the expression of giving her assurance, like "not to worry" or "just ignore" kind of... This would've assured Sonakshi that Dev is there for her no matter what. But he was too much engrossed in admiring his mom.😡

Again, when Ishwari said, when one is not yet has become a mother, will not understand the mother-son relationship... it was again a slap to Sonakshi... but at present without knowing her condition, Sonakshi may not feel offended by this as it is the truth. But, At that moment, I felt Dev would panic and feel guilty reminding himself of Sonakshi's medical reports. But, again he didn't feel anything of that sort. I was so disappointed. I thought at least, he will talk to Sonakshi about these two topics in their room like saying a simple sorry to her, or saying not to feel bad, but he didn't discuss.👎🏼 His fever was the main highlight.

Today, during photo session, Dev completely forgot Sonakshi for the family photo.😲 I was so annoyed, Does he really respects his wife? Is he really proud of his wife? I can hardly see that, he is so negligent, seriously.😡 Is he the same Dev, who once wanted to force fit Sonakshi in the family photo when she was an outsider for real? Now, she is his wife, but it hardly matters to him.😲 She was standing behind like an outsider, he didn't even look at her. I guess, at that moment, he didn't even think of her.😕 She would've remained there if Baba had not intervened, thanks to Bijoy Baba, he handled the situation and showed everyone where Sonakshi's actual place is.👏 Thank God, now Dev remembered his wife and cuddled her... for me Dev's affection and care in front of all looks very artificial and forced... Why does he act as if he is embarrassed to be with his wife or feels awkward to stand with his wife in front of all?😕 That's why, when only DevAkshi photo was clicked, it didn't bring smile on my face.😵

I wished, Baba should've taunted Dev lightly at that moment, when he made Sonakshi to stand next to Dev, like, "arey Dev beta, apne patni ko hi bhool gaye?"😆😡

OR

Any suitable one liners????😉 Give your suggestions please...

Bcoz he is Mama's boy ... I think all Mama's boys do the same ...

So v can't expect anything from them other than their Mother side ...