Originally posted by: rahulvats12
Well lol...how can RAM mother can go with her because her husband is still alive and he is king and she is Queen of Kingdom...so ur logic to compare both situation is wrong...
I don't think she mentions vanvas for that reason which u mention..if u r saying about mama boy word then...this problem arises in present life also with some mil and dil. let me tell u...sona have both quality of her parents... Mixture of bijoy and asha...first react like bijoy and then understand everything like asha.
And there is no need to call mama boy again n again if he already apologize for that today.
That's why ishwari speak today...she is silent from last 2 days when she understood meaning of mama boy but she didn't say any single word to sona but today maybe she doesn't feel good after hearing again n agian.
CVS r Really doing great work in storyline because also in today life, when son follow or close to her mother, then wife have tendency to say mama boy similarly, goes with mother for whom her son is life for her...she feels happy to help her children in any work until she is alive... And this circle between milf and dil will continue forever in real life also
1. If ram's mother did not go with him because of her husband she never said that the actual vanvaas was to her. It is Ishwari who is twisting the facts here and saying that the actual vanvaas was to ram's mom. That lady knew her priorities clearly unlike Iswari who is hogging all the time and the attention from her son and then justifying it using her name.
2. No body has the right to eavesdrop on a husband and wife's conversation. The first time, they were talking in their bedroom and the second time although they were talking in the kitchen, it was still a private conversation that Ishwari heard without announcing her presence. Even if one overhears a private conversation between a husband and wife, she should have stayed away from making a reference to it.
3. Do you think it is alright for a mother to open the closet of her married son that he shared with his wife ? If so, what's wrong in giving him a bath or cleaning his number 2 as well? The point is, although she wants to do all the things for him but as he is growing older, somethings should become private. A good example of this is from Mahabharata where mata Gandhari does not see her son's groin area and bhim attacks that area to kill him. there are other ways to be part of your kid's life.
4. Sona has been very understanding throughout with several situations ( jhula, date cancellation etc.). She also talked with both of them privately about it but they both tried to lie and manipulate to make her call Ishwari Maa while Dev calling Asha as aunty. Dev only understood the impact of his bahavior when Bijoy called him bhatija in front of everyone. Although , a more mature person would have avoided that but Bijoy is Bijoy and these two Laton ke bhoot baton se nahin maan rahe thay.
5 why did Ishwari need to show how much she loves Dev infront of everyone? There were several women and mothers in the audience . They love their children equally. Ishwari is the only one who is partial to one child and brags about her love infront of a child who is going through divorce and the one who never got any attention from Ishwari. If Ishwari was so keen on cancelling the hm that Neha could not go, why brag how much you love your son when you don't give any attention to her?
Edited: sorry I had said Kunti but dlavnya pointed out that it was actually Gandhari ! I changed it in the main text now. Thanks Dlavnya!
Edited by baijubavra - 8 years ago