why I support separation

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Niva1

@Niva1

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Posted: 8 years ago

JOLT - that is the only reason. A guy like Dev would never open his eyes unless he is forshaken to the core. He needs to receive the awakening with a shock. Dev for now is in no state of mind to see, feel and understand the wrongs being done to Sona. Little depressions here and there would never show him the magnanimity of the problem, most importantly because he is born and brought up emotionally blind.

So he needs to fall on his face - i.e. Sona leaves. Then he will ask - Why?? Why leave me?? Was I so bad?? And then he might start recouting past moments and has some flashbacks.

So I really support that Sona should leave him. Leave him, not accident or some mishap, but leave with her full cognizance and mind in place telling him the reasons for leaving him.

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Tulip06

@Tulip06

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Posted: 8 years ago

Yes u r right but my question is when , till when r CV going to torture us with this loop of insults broken promises and puppy face patch up . What CV should project is Divorse or separation is not bad especially in these kind of scenario. Plz marriage should only be continued when it's mutual give n take of love respect, .for marriage to work Respect of each other is paramount more than love. In this case it's Becomed toxic,suffocating and trapped. So I support separation. For Dev to realise his mistake and for Sona to regain Self respect and build self esteem.

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Niva1

@Niva1

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Tulip06
Yes u r right but my question is when , till when r CV going to torture us with this loop of insults broken promises and puppy face patch up . What CV should project is Divorse or separation is not bad especially in these kind of scenario. Plz marriage should only be continued when it's mutual give n take of love respect, .for marriage to work Respect of each other is paramount more than love. In this case it's Becomed toxic,suffocating and trapped. So I support separation. For Dev to realise his mistake and for Sona to regain Self respect and build self esteem.

True. The way they are showing it in circles is just irritating. I have not been watching for a month now. But I think CVs needed to show a lot of blatant negativity - you know because even after this much, there are still people supporting Dev ans Ishwari. Our treshhold for female respect is too low, and even as they keep showing sona's worth with new low each time, many still blame Sona and support Dev. So if they eant to buy more viewers for separation track, then they must show real bad stuff from Dev's side.

Sad that in that process, people like us are pulling our hair with frustration.

Edited by Niva1 - 8 years ago

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gmgi

@gmgi

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Posted: 8 years ago

Hi Niva

I was all for another separation until yesterday's episode played out. You know whom I was most frustrated at?😆 Not Dev, not Ishu, Neha,GKB or even mamaji. But Sona!!! Her reactions are all wrong or may be the way I understand her is wrong She is insecure for sure but more than that she have this need to project herself as the perfect person. It is actually preventing Dev from seeing how much hurt she is by his actions. I am in no way applauding Dev or his actions. I don't want to even think about him and his actions because I am not ready for that yet🤣

Sona knew atleast superficially what she was getting into. She did it with her eyes open. She cannot just leave without thinking what it will do it to her family. She is not being herself now. Both Dev and Sona have trust issues. I would say they have more problems amoung themselves to create a permanent rift between them than without any one else lifting their little finger. She needs to believe it herself that Dev loves her for who she is no matter what her faults are. If only she can be herself then she can confidently tackle their issues. The Infertility track might help her to come out of her insecurity and stand by him when the prenup comes. This might help Dev come out of his dependency on his mother and tackle her issues with Sona's help. Her leaving him will not achieve anything other than a repeat of the previous separation.

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Niva1

@Niva1

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Posted: 8 years ago

Thanks Geena, I agree on you with insecurity issue. However it would have really worked if Sona had behaved like her own self from the very beginning. That time is well passed now. Now even if Dev and Sona build their own relation and trust, they would still be circling on Ishwari issue. So for all their problems to be sorted out, Dev needs to go through a serious painful time, which can only come if Sona is not there to forgive him. Ishwari also needs to learn that Sona is not a toy- that cannot happen unless Dev is hurt enough to break all bounds and show some negativity towards Ishwari too, in his full sanity. This might be a repetition, but if CVs want they can show it in really mature and logical manner, which would also give us a strong FL back.

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gmgi

@gmgi

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Niva1
Thanks Geena, I agree on you with insecurity issue. However it would have really worked if Sona had behaved like her own self from the very beginning. That time is well passed now. Now even if Dev and Sona build their own relation and trust, they would still be circling on Ishwari issue. So for all their problems to be sorted out, Dev needs to go through a serious painful time, which can only come if Sona is not there to forgive him. Ishwari also needs to learn that Sona is not a toy- that cannot happen unless Dev is hurt enough to break all bounds and show some negativity towards Ishwari too, in his full sanity. This might be a repetition, but if CVs want they can show it in really mature and logical manner, which would also give us a strong FL back.

What I want is for her to react. Show him when she is hurt. Dev is sensitive to Ishu's moods because she shows him how hurt she is by her silence or by fastting or by punishing herself. And Sona keeps on smiling, I forgive you, I love you and now the coming Cheek kiss. I really want to ask, who does like that. Even watching it I feel like pulling my hairs and bang my head on the wall. Why she does that? She should learn something from Ishu and especially Neha😆. If she leaves Dev will go and show his puppy face, say he can't live even a moment without her and that he is willing to be her Ghar ki Tulsi😆 and she will be back. I don't have anymore patience to watch that again.😃

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varsha

@varshu_018

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Posted: 8 years ago

No use of seperation again same cycle will continue

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siddhi.d123

@siddhi.d123

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Posted: 8 years ago

I m in for separation but how many times a guy will do the same mistakes 😕 And y will Sona come back to him 😡 How many chances will this guy get??I really want to see a growth in his character without a separation otherwise last 50 episodes were a waste and they are still oblivious about Ishwar's insecurities 😡