Am the only one who want sona divorce from Dev as soon as possible? - Page 2

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Divorce is NOT the answer for issues which can be talked out , expressed and fixed.
Agree Devakshi have issues and so does Iswari, but it does not mean it needs to be amputated -( Divorcee) that's permanent disability and shows the immaturity level , of married couple, taking the easy way out without resolving it sensibly.Agree, its Not an easy task to sit down and talk...but it can be done , not impossible!





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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: SanaSarwar

I am with you ...I hate sad endings but this is the only show where I want leads to go their separate ways...I want this show be on lines that if a girl gets married it doesn't mean that she needs to be treated like garbage..she is not a beautiful frame to be hanged on a wall ..she is a living breathing person...men like dev never change ...never ...so if they show that her in-laws n husband turned a new leaf then it's not realistic ...it doesn't happen...they should show Sona choosing to move forward instead...even accepting the divorce stigma .. everything will be better for her than the mental torture daily she is facing...let Sona free herself n let dev be left alone with his mother

Not just for this incident but in general I didn't find Sona fitting into The Dixits' household.. If she can stop being nice and live there with an attitude showing her true personality (not being emotional and fighting to know whose share of Dev is more 😆) then great.. Else I would love to see a separation.. Not waiting for a bigger drama to happen where Dev will loudly stand by Sona making everything forgotten. It's not about one fine day but it's an everyday affair that touches the human instincts which says things are fine even though on the outside it doesn't look like.. But here inside out everything feels so so wrong...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am with you TM.. 👏
Killing the girl's confidence and not willing to accommodate any new changes - It takes years in real life to change such inbuilt mindset.. Even after years the change don't happen just because they wanted to accommodate the changes, the focus has been deviated to other things and whatever once were big concerns no more appear to be one.. By then the damage is done to the intended targets... Strong personalities can survive without getting much damaged to their inner self but weak ones get suppressed with such constant pressure and loses energy to stand for what they believe in.. They wouldn't even realize what they had lost and because they would have learnt to be ha ppy with whatever they have gained.. And wouldn't know whether the gain was even worth all the effort?!🤔
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I dont want them to divorce...I want the old Sona back and teach Dev and his family few life lessons which they missed learning years back...and she should do this staying in Dixit house .
But yeah our CV team doesnt seem to have the intention to do that because if they do the typical DIL image will be lost for Sona and that will affect their TRP...so you see , we will continue to get to see this.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Divorce is not the solution to this. Dev leaving his house and moving into the Boses is the solution. Until he is in that crazy mansion where his Mamaji keeps giving gyan and his mother keeps pulling him back into the past, he is going to be stuck.
I want Sona to have a nervous breakdown because of all that is happening plus infertility which will then force Dev to care for her without her being in his house.. Divorce should never be a solution for something that can be fixed. I dont think Dev is realising what he is doing to Sona,.. so many of us fail to understand how emotionally vulnerable men are and that they are mostly clueless in handling emotional issues with a practical approach.

PS: I am really done with Mamaji and Neha.. one is giving half gyan and the other just needs to get back to Ranveer and spare us! Lets not even go to that Ishwari .. she just drives my BP up everytime she smiles!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think she should not have married him in first place. When he had decided to leave her for his mother rather than convincing his mother, that was it for me. I was like if this man cant stand for her right now before marriage, I doubt he will stand for her post marriage...And that is exactly is what is happening. I agreed with Sona's father, I know people thought he was over reacting, but I think he was absolutely right...The other guy was better for Sona, and he would have respected her and her wishes more than this Dev...
Even that guy had family but, he stood up for her when Dev and Sona thing came out. He also loved his family alot too...I hate DEV, he is a sissy...

And even in real life, man are hard to change...something that you have learnt from childhood to adulthood, its really hard to unlearn lol...So if someone thinks I can change this guy with my love and all that BS, that person is dillusional 😆

Marry someone who knows how to lead a balanced life, not someone like Dev ...think with your brains, not with your hormones and heart hahahahha 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Divorce is not the solution of such an issue.
Nahi toh abhi tak hum sab divorse leke baithe hote.
Dev ko wife aur mother ke beech balance karna zaroori hai.Else woh kissi ek ko kho dega.
In this serial the main character is Dev kyonki ussi ke liye maa aur biwi mari jaa rahi hain.
sisters jealous feel karti hain by saying maa sabse zyada bhai ko pyar karti hain.
Sona ko nahi,balki Dev ko sabko saath leke chalna hoga.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

I am rooting for them to talk and express their expectations...

Sona may talk but what's the use, Dev will again say sorry, and promise things he will never stand upon. End result remains the same, unless Sona leaves Dev though temporarily it may be, Dev will keep taking Sonakshi for granted.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nope you are not alone. Sona needs to dump his ass and move on with her life. Dev is too precious for his momma and vice versa. So they are never going to come out of their disgustingly extreme obsessive possessive creepy cloying abnormal "love". Dixits are happy on their own and they don't appreciate an intruder even if it is someone as precious as Sona. Sona needs to go back to her family for they know her true worth.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Divorce is nothe solution. Someone needs to fix their loose screw. Sonakshi needs to give them taste of their own medicine.
Mother-son act like world does not exist beyond each other


I wonder why do men who are badly obsessed with maa ka pallu even think about marriage? Be happy with your feeder and diaper. Why do they bring others daughter at their place to make her feel like an outsider?

Both mother-son expect from Ranveer to be jhoru ka ghulam, but they cant treat their bahu like a part of a family. Bunch of hypocrites

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