CV team , I am not able understand them

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Found my subject line weird ?? Because the situation is also weird ...I just cant understand the relationship betwn Sona and Dev...what are they for each other, lovers ?? or husband and wife?? Or Boss and employee ?? or god and devotee or a mixture of all of this??

Dev professes to be madly in love with her but is ok to cut his birthday cake without her and never even asks ppl to wait for his wife to come?? What kind of love is that ?? Is she not imp to you ??

Sona , after seeing what happened she doesn't say anything because her mom gives some crappy gyan?? Does she really consider herself as his wife ...not even question him on why he couldn't wait for her to come to cut the cake? Is he not imp to you ??

Few questions to the CV team

1) 1) Why are you showing Sona like an angel, trust me guys there are no angels among us. Why hesitate to show the true colour of a wife ? Why hesitate to bring out the true woman in her? OR is that dedicated ONLY to Mataji , Neha and GKB. Common , Sona is not from 18th cen. Patriarchal household...she from a very liberal "Bengali " house...whose dad is a communist .So we would love to see shades of a beautiful , strong , independent Bengali woman too.

2) 2) Now coming to Dev, ...seriously !! he doesn't have the guts to say that he will wait till his wife reaches to start the celebration. Is he that spineless?? OR is he still trying to hide her from the family . OR is that she is more of a toy that he needs when he feels emotionally drained ?? OR Someone whom he needs to warm his bed?? ( Well we know for the rest of the things you guys have seen to that his mom is there for him)

No wonder the rest of the family treats Sona like a dirt ...its because of their own behavior - Dev lacks the spine to showcase to the family that Sona is his wife and she imp to him . Sona lacks the spine to voice her concerns even to Dev ...above all she is acting like she doesn't care what they do to her as long as she gets to stay in that house as his wife...self-respect is getting lost ...I personally believe they don't trust each other and are in an insecure relationship.

Husband and wife are one unit . All the other relationships including ur parents and ur kids come outside that one unit zone. Not in betwn that unit. It is the responsibility of the couple to see to that no one comes betwn them.

I am not even going talk abt the rest of the characters . Because each of those characters got connected to Dev and Sona is because of their marriage . If Dev and Sona feels insecure in their own relationship and are not confident . Why blame others of the family.??

I have no sympathy for Dev or Sona...they both got what they deserved today. No one to blame other than themselves.

PS: I know a lot of people felt bad for Sona , for me she is responsible too because every time , she gets hurt ...she gives in ...there are times when a woman has to be adamant and give that silent treatment to her man and get his attention or your own man will take you for granted and will be treated like a doormat in his house. Its just my POV...don't mean to offend any one here.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Exactly..you spoke my mind...
There are many ppl who are bashing Nikki and Riya as to why they didn't call Sona and bla...bla..
But when Dev isn't bothered, why would they??
JAB APNA HI SIKKA KHOTA HO, TOH DUSRON KO KYA DOSH DENA??
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I really feel that the cvs have lost it! It is drama for dramas sake. Where is the logic & now they are taking the viewers for a ride.
When Dev said he will not call ashamed Maa I was ok with that as it was in character. Today it was so out of character that he would not / could not go to pick up his wife or even waiting for her to cut the cake. This is ridiculous.
Today was the stupidest episode ever!


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Posted: 8 years ago
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They are making us all pity sona in this track as the track that follows this one will be - sona beating the shit out of dev and all dixits..

They need to justify why sona will rebel ...I am sure it is coming... Dev is sitting on a time bomb called asha maa ... That will be it..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Based on today's written update I feel whatever reaction Sona gonna give The Dixits' are not worth it.. They are not even worthy of her anger..
They are in a celebration mood in their own world with no bother of anything else.. Sona showing her disappointment- do you think it will affect them in anyway?! They are so self-centered that they will see her as the spoilsport😆 and jealous of their happiness..😆

Like Ishu possessive flashbacks and traditions with 'Dev' thing , Sona should start her flashforwards and traditions not to do for Dev thing.. 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I so agree with you,

Sonakshi lets Dev take her for granted, Dev allows Ishwari to treat Sonakshi like a toy, even GKB for that matter, Sonakshi and Dev are insecure in their relationship they just do not admit to it. If both are secure even 10 Ishwaris cannot do anything to DevAkshi.

DevAkshi are allowing 3rd member parties to interfere and trace the course of their marriage.

I dont get what is so different in this show, though I stopped watching it, come to the forum to check reaction - I am still keeping track to see when will - Ishwari "transform" when will Sonakshi "flip" and when will the 8 year old son Dev turn into a man then husband. I will watch that episode.

Why show selective reality ? There is positive and negative - show some positivity for a change.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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it was a rocking episode.. it literally rocked me out of my normal state and put me in a very foul mood.

Just leave aside Sona for a moment.. You will see how Dev becomes so tongue tied in front of his family, including his own little sisters. He has got all his priorities wrong..

Honestly, i could not see anyone but Dev today.. and i was literally aghast...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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No dearu hv not offended anyone
U hv just put across what many of us feel
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Posted: 8 years ago
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They can make us pity Sona but do it in an intelligent way! Dev was the one who sent a driver after to make sure she reached safely when she was working for her.
Today he cannot excuse himself for some time to pick her up? At least wait till she comes to cut the cake.
The cvs think we are fools? What is the difference between this show & the rest?

Very very disappointed with cvs for a fan who loved it even Dev says no asha Maa. It was in character today was 😡
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Posted: 8 years ago
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yes sona too is to be blamed although I did feel very bad for her. but she
is also equally responsible. never let anyone take u for granted not even
ur own parents. bcos every relationship has its own importance. mom cant be
a wife & wife cant be a mom. dev feels sorry that he let sona down. really??
I mean there was no need to let her down today. anyway I have said the same in
other posts too & so don't want to repeat here. I am damn sure dev will DO NOTHING
to spend time with sona atleast during the day on his birthday & sona will still
be behind him wagging her tail like a dog behind her master. but atleast the dog gets
respect from the master gets nice pattings from the master but sona is worse than
a dog.😡

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