Found my subject line weird ?? Because the situation is also weird ...I just cant understand the relationship betwn Sona and Dev...what are they for each other, lovers ?? or husband and wife?? Or Boss and employee ?? or god and devotee or a mixture of all of this??
Dev professes to be madly in love with her but is ok to cut his birthday cake without her and never even asks ppl to wait for his wife to come?? What kind of love is that ?? Is she not imp to you ??
Sona , after seeing what happened she doesn't say anything because her mom gives some crappy gyan?? Does she really consider herself as his wife ...not even question him on why he couldn't wait for her to come to cut the cake? Is he not imp to you ??
Few questions to the CV team
1) 1) Why are you showing Sona like an angel, trust me guys there are no angels among us. Why hesitate to show the true colour of a wife ? Why hesitate to bring out the true woman in her? OR is that dedicated ONLY to Mataji , Neha and GKB. Common , Sona is not from 18th cen. Patriarchal household...she from a very liberal "Bengali " house...whose dad is a communist .So we would love to see shades of a beautiful , strong , independent Bengali woman too.
2) 2) Now coming to Dev, ...seriously !! he doesn't have the guts to say that he will wait till his wife reaches to start the celebration. Is he that spineless?? OR is he still trying to hide her from the family . OR is that she is more of a toy that he needs when he feels emotionally drained ?? OR Someone whom he needs to warm his bed?? ( Well we know for the rest of the things you guys have seen to that his mom is there for him)
No wonder the rest of the family treats Sona like a dirt ...its because of their own behavior - Dev lacks the spine to showcase to the family that Sona is his wife and she imp to him . Sona lacks the spine to voice her concerns even to Dev ...above all she is acting like she doesn't care what they do to her as long as she gets to stay in that house as his wife...self-respect is getting lost ...I personally believe they don't trust each other and are in an insecure relationship.
Husband and wife are one unit . All the other relationships including ur parents and ur kids come outside that one unit zone. Not in betwn that unit. It is the responsibility of the couple to see to that no one comes betwn them.
I am not even going talk abt the rest of the characters . Because each of those characters got connected to Dev and Sona is because of their marriage . If Dev and Sona feels insecure in their own relationship and are not confident . Why blame others of the family.??
I have no sympathy for Dev or Sona...they both got what they deserved today. No one to blame other than themselves.
PS: I know a lot of people felt bad for Sona , for me she is responsible too because every time , she gets hurt ...she gives in ...there are times when a woman has to be adamant and give that silent treatment to her man and get his attention or your own man will take you for granted and will be treated like a doormat in his house. Its just my POV...don't mean to offend any one here.