Understanding!!! EDITED - Page 3

Originally posted by: tia.o

The way Dev was behaving as if his mistress is waiting for him to have secret rendezvous and called him in front of his wife. I have not seen him that guilty when he fell down drunk at Sona's engagement with another man.

Originally posted by: Juhi.m

After today's episode all I can say is I am hell scared of marriage😆 monster in law, spineless husband, sadistic and crass family members. So basically you are in a hell hole on this earth! What has Sona gotten herself into. No one deserves people like these in their lives. But then again this was due for toying with ritik' life. You reap what you sow. The only thing is Dev is getting away with all this😡 he is disappointment personified. What a disgusting character and an even more disgusting relation between mother and son.

Originally posted by: gemini54

This show for some time has had no Hero so to speak and today there is no Heroine. I read about the segment of the 'kiss' and forgive by Sona and wanted to share a true story here.

I once met a woman at a battered women's shelter where I volunteer she was beaten black and blue by her husband we counseled her and helped her find a place in a homeless shelter and we even had trained counsellors come and speak to her. She stayed in the shelter for a couple of days but then went back to her husband she would then come back again bruised black and blue after some days this cycle continued with her always going back then she got pregnant and came back beaten black and blue I asked the counsellor how can she even think of lovemaking with her husband let alone bring a child into the world for which the counselor said that the woman in question believed that making love to her husband will make him love her more..I was shocked to say the least and asked the counsellor how was that even possible for that the counsellor said when you have a very low self esteem, when you crave for attention even a little attention or attention in this form can make the person feel that everything was alright.

In my opinion that is what is being portrayed about Sona a character I absolutely adored and thought she was strong..But she has been decimated along with the non existent hero I don't know for what maybe to build up the great MAA because after all we growing up were taught that pati is 'DEV' pun intended.

I just wish the makers had some social responsibility in what they are portraying. I have watched American shows which had promiscuous relationships but the same show maybe even taught about HIV awareness where is the balance in this show? Or am I asking too much?

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Dharm shankat my @$$.. Just asking his mommy dearest to wait for 5 mins versus the lifetime memory of the pain you cause to your wife for the first bday after your marriage is not even a shankat. Dev acted like a Moron and using such wise 'shaastra' words for this cheap act is in fact a tauheen of the use. But Mamaji has always been referencing wrong words to a dumbhead person like Dev.


I dont know what education he has received from the enormous struggle of Ishwari depriving everyone else of everything, but personally speaking I have never seen more an uneducated gawaar like Dev in my life. A man who cannot protect the honor of his wife is not a man enough 👎🏼 Bang on post Tia though ! 😛

Originally posted by: mena_k

What has the show become. If what's wrong with the Indian society is what makers wanted to portray, they are doing an excellent job. But please, don't dare refer Dev as he is trying to balance things between his mother and wife, damn he is behaving as If he has to balance between his mother and illegal woman in his life about whom no one should know in his family or it will be a disgrace to his image. Ishwari is not an fault here.
For Asha, why do I feel even If Asha was to know everything happening or have had happened with Sona now or before marriage, her advice would still be the same. Like a typical Indian mother she would not want her daughters home to break and ask her to still understand Dev's point of view. She might even take the side of Ishwari and support her in a way like a girls mother.
I don't care about any Devakshi romance at this point. done with that.

Originally posted by: asha2012

I don't think Sona has become docile and pati grata - my feeling is that she is trying her best to make the marriage work because she knows her father, whom she looks up to never liked and trusted Dev. My feeling is that the Dhamaka about pre nup, medical reports and all these incidents are just around the corner - there is another separation due - am quite sure. We all know what happens when Sona is angry...😊😊