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Posted: 8 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: ...Doctor...



This is bang on!
I don't know why but Sona is so invested in this relationship that she lost her true self just to adjust with Dev and his family and Dev is so detached that he made no adjustments, even though he got Sona without much hard work.



That's exactly why I say that Dev's notion of wife is gf plus the benefits. There is no partnership no investment at all. We weren't mad when we screamed that no he can't just get Sona without serious introspection and redemption but he got it .. And who helped him - his mahaan Maa! Sona is lost like a puppy , trying to fit in finding ways to accommodate and make her self wanted. Her core moral values are such that she hasn't ever accepted defeat and it explains why the need for constant fitting in by her despite the negatives all around. But let me say this war is declared and if Sona doesn't become the tigress she was she will be stomped forever!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Actually, before any of us, Payal already called it. She said that Dev treats Sona like his plaything that he can play with. He doesn't treat Sona like his wife who deserves his respect. She was right.

Dev and Ishwari are selfish and have a disturbing relationship. They behave more like husband and wife than most couple minus sex.

And you are absolutely right. Love is more than butterfly and romance and sex. Love is respect for each other and thoughtfulness for everyone you and your spouse care about.

But for Dev, he doesn't give two hoots about anyone other than his mom.

He doesn't even have the guts to tell on Asha's face what he has done. What a coward.

Originally posted by: SaloniVats

everytime I think that this is it- a new low is created. The way Dev chooses to behave especially with how he promptly said no it's my mistake to call Asha Maa speaks so much about him not treating Sona anywhere equivalent to being his wife. She is just his gf plus benefits. Initially I still wanted to give Dev the benefit f doubt that okay it's his conditioning that makes him go blind and a complete meek type person but now with the promptness of his dialogue and no inkling of what serious ramifications ot holds he is just as selfish as ishwari and doesn't give an iota to anyone and anything beyond what she wants. She was okay with sona, sona came and he is happy for himself!

Love between a couple is so much more than just butterflies and romance , it's the respect and thoughtfulness you have for each other which translates into everything and onto every other relationship making it complete . The foundation is cracked here- there is no thoughtfulness and respect. Which explains why Dev never reacts , just lets it slip like water on his back as if nothing happened when his own family members speak ill about Sona.

The manipulativeness of ish needs an applause though- wow she does things without leaving fingerprints!

PS : don't have high hopes wrt any major confrontation between Dev and sona when she hears Aunty!

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Posted: 8 years ago
#23
I felt slapping both of them so hard their ears would ring for a decade. What a disgusting pair. Yuck thoo... 🤢

Originally posted by: ...Doctor...

If you want to cringe for the whole day, watch the episode. It has an amazing scene where Ishwari is ecstatic when Dev says he won't address Asha as Maa. She keeps hugging and kissing. BEST SCENE EVER! LAU.

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Posted: 8 years ago
#24
just to add - I don't want a separation where Sona just goes back leaving the dixits bask in their glory. I want her to give each and everyone including Mamaji( whose dichotomy is applaud worthy) a good piece of their own medicine. As @dlavanya had stated in another post let Dev suffer bankruptcy, let Sona flourish and show that if you mess with me or my family once she will will mess eight times harder. I know relationships work in a balance and no one wants to take revenge but what I am implying is to show them the mirror. walk out like a tigress and let them realise what and how wrong their thinking and actions have been!
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Posted: 8 years ago
#25
Ishwari contradicts herself and I can't figure out what she wants.
But Dev... no.. guilt free sex isn't the only advantage of being married.

That whole aunty precap is a silly teaser. I don't think it will lead you anything substantial. Knowing sona, dev and asha
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Posted: 8 years ago
#26
Tia you know what saddens me even more is - today I cannot put my bet on Sonakshi Dixit to voice her opinion against this. She might or she might on.


With this marriage I feel like the existence of Sonakshi itself has been lost. Dixits dont accept her and she herself has changed so much and allows Dixits to insult her parental family so much that it's now a shame to call her Bose. When we have Dev rooting his existence more firmly in his family and is not ready for any damn change the girl has killed her own. Story of many Indian brides.


Let's hope for the best from this woman.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#27
starting to dislike dev more than ishwari these days
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Posted: 8 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: tia.o

<font size="3" color="#003399">Actually, before any of us, Payal already called it. She said that Dev treats Sona like his plaything that he can play with. He doesn't treat Sona like his wife who deserves his respect. She was right.</font>

<font size="3" color="#003399">Dev and Ishwari are selfish and have a disturbing relationship. They behave more like husband and wife than most couple minus sex.</font>

<font size="3" color="#003399">And you are absolutely right. Love is more than butterfly and romance and sex. Love is respect for each other and thoughtfulness for everyone you and your spouse care about.</font>

<font size="3" color="#003399">But for Dev, he doesn't give two hoots about anyone other than his mom.</font>

<font size="3" color="#003399">He doesn't even have the guts to tell on Asha's face what he has done. What a coward.</font>


I got a headache just by reading the WU. I am up for drama if it's dealt with sensitivity but what they are showing is crass and unapologetic!
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Posted: 8 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Tia you know what saddens me even more is - today I cannot put my bet on Sonakshi Dixit to voice her opinion against this. She might or she might on.


With this marriage I feel like the existence of Sonakshi itself has been lost. Dixits dont accept her and she herself has changed so much and allows Dixits to insult her parental family so much that it's now a shame to call her Bose. When we have Dev rooting his existence more firmly in his family and is not ready for any damn change the girl has killed her own. Story of many Indian brides.


Let's hope for the best from this woman.


Hugs Girl I am still hopeful that Sonakshi Dixit will rise . I am quite ok at this point if it is not with Dev and hope it is not with Dev because that is a lesson all young woman have to learn to walk away with head held high.

In my opinion in this show there are only 2 ways the creatives can go with the plot. REDEEM DEV BIG TIME OR REDEEM SONA BIG TIME


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Posted: 8 years ago
#30
Well then Dev will show infertility report and tell Sona what a great man he is for marrying her by hiding her own medical condition and Sona will tuck her tail and walk back.

Originally posted by: Shaavi


Dev has already made it clear to Ishwari that he does not want to sign prenup. There is no way he is going to say she is correct.

I think very soon Sonakshi will come upon the document accidentally and will confront Dev. After that she will walk out of that house leading to the promo where Dev asks are you still mad at mom.

Prenup will be the last straw for Sonakshi. She might take crap till then, but not after that.. I am very sure of it.

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