Originally posted by: ...Doctor...
This is bang on!I don't know why but Sona is so invested in this relationship that she lost her true self just to adjust with Dev and his family and Dev is so detached that he made no adjustments, even though he got Sona without much hard work.
That's exactly why I say that Dev's notion of wife is gf plus the benefits. There is no partnership no investment at all. We weren't mad when we screamed that no he can't just get Sona without serious introspection and redemption but he got it .. And who helped him - his mahaan Maa! Sona is lost like a puppy , trying to fit in finding ways to accommodate and make her self wanted. Her core moral values are such that she hasn't ever accepted defeat and it explains why the need for constant fitting in by her despite the negatives all around. But let me say this war is declared and if Sona doesn't become the tigress she was she will be stomped forever!