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Posted: 9 years ago
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i know today's episode has been disheartening for most of us. I did not want to open a separate post but then I had some thoughts and wanted to pen them.
This story is about three individuals Dev, Sona and Easwari. Mainly about how the two lovers overcome Easwari insecurity and how Easwari turns from an insecure mother to a contented mother . This is not me stating it but what the story promised.

In order for the story to progress there has to be a high point..there is one in every story and I think today was one of a series of high points in this story and many more will unfold in future episodes.

I know all of us are livid at Dev me included but think about this character from the beginning he has always swung from one extreme to another without much balance. We all want character growth in the characters depicted and we have barely seen glimpses of his but even then if he take 2 steps he regresses 10 but usually when you swing you always hit one extreme or other before finding a balance. I think that is where this story is headed.

Dev cannot bear to see Sona unhappy so he goes to her home and begs her to come back. He cannot bear for his mother to be unhappy so he tells his mother that she is most important person in his life. He is yet to connect the dots that the reason for his mothers unhappiness is Sona and the reason for Sona to be unhappy is because she does not feel part of his family..or wanted .

Once he connects these dots is when Dev the character will grow and I strongly believe that is where the story is heading. For him to grow he needs a jolt and face the reality of Easwari's insecurity and that he will..he may swing to an extreme like maybe move away from her just like he did during breakup by moving away from Sona but he will regain balance.

I am thinking only then Sona and he will work together to heal Easwari for she needs a lot of it..as I do think she is mentally not stable.

But in the meantime this story will be a roller coaster ride and maybe not for the faint hearted.

Thoughts welcome



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Posted: 9 years ago
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lot of hope and positivity in your post today... we are all sulking in the corner here. I hope dev stops uneven swinging and finds his balance soon...first he has to stop fire fighting and looking for quick fixes with out understanding the underlying problem.

He needs to start using his brain more instead of jumping into conclusions... i still cant believe what he said today... i seriously didnt understand how he came to the conclusion from the ganesha story that ishwari is sad because he called asha maa... he jumped right into that topic and tried to make ishwari happy so quickly... wow... if only he can use this super brain of his for all matters in dixit household ... it could become paradise for everyone soon...

ps: i am still pissed off...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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For a show whose tagline was : 'What happens when the decisions of the heart are made by mind?'
But, in the show, we are watching the reverse... Either we are watching a wrong show or has the tagline was made by an accident...

Hope that we will see the mind finally awakening... Soon.. Otherwise, this show is doomed..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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All of us are pissed off at Dev today..but when I got to think with a rational mind I am thinking if they don't show extreme lows how can they show extreme highs..and today was the start of the low for right now in the show things seem to be an even keel but with the Easwari problems just simmering..unless they bring it to the fore how can the story progress and that is why I think that this is an important turning point in the show and Dev growth..plus he is going to have his birthday soon😉


QUOTE=dlavanya]lot of hope and positivity in your post today... we are all sulking in the corner here. I hope dev stops uneven swinging and finds his balance soon...first he has to stop fire fighting and looking for quick fixes with out understanding the underlying problem.

He needs to start using his brain more instead of jumping into conclusions... i still cant believe what he said today... i seriously didnt understand how he came to the conclusion from the ganesha story that ishwari is sad because he called asha maa... he jumped right into that topic and tried to make ishwari happy so quickly... wow... if only he can use this super brain of his for all matters in dixit household ... it could become paradise for everyone soon...

ps: i am still pissed off...

Edited by gemini54 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hope does spring eternal and today I am putting my hope hat and my logical mind on high alert

QUOTE=Harryfan011]For a show whose tagline was : 'What happens when the decisions of the heart are made by mind?'
But, in the show, we are watching the reverse... Either we are watching a wrong show or has the tagline was made by an accident...

Hope that we will see the mind finally awakening... Soon.. Otherwise, this show is doomed..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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A superb post 👏 Thanks for this positive ray of hope!

I totally understood what you have mentioned in the post, infact Sam's post inside saumiee's highlighted something on same page.

Its not like I don't understood what Dev did because its a reality and I have seen husbands do this, but what pissed me is how easily he could see the reason for his mother's worry from a indirect mytho story but cannot fathom his wife's situation even after so many direct hints and taunts.

I was one of those who defended Dev because he genuinely balances both ladies and need both of them equally in his life. I will be equally pissed at Dev if he snears at his Mom to go behind Sona's pallu too..A very tough job for a husband in a joint family indeed😆


And the reaction is due to the extreme love for Dev of all Sona's of this forum..remember Sona saying " No one can hurt her except Dev"? well the theory is proved correct today😉😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thanks for liking the post. I really think that this is rock bottom and we can only go up from here. I wrote in Tia post that I just want Sona to up and go from this mad house and I think that may happen because like you mentioned only Dev has the power to hurt her and hurt her he will but now unlike the earlier time I am thinking he will take responsibility to rectify the hurt because if they don't go that route they simply cannot redeem him ever and I don't think the creatives would want that.

I also thought of something else when the pre nup was first discussed between Sona and Dev even then the topic of what to call their respective mothers came up..I think everything is coming full circle..maybe I am giving the makers too much credit but for today I just want to be hopeful

Originally posted by: deepsel

A superb post 👏 Thanks for this positive ray of hope!


I totally understood what you have mentioned in the post, infact Sam's post inside saumiee's highlighted something on same page.

Its not like I don't understood what Dev did because its a reality and I have seen husbands do this, but what pissed me is how easily he could see the reason for his mother's worry from a indirect mytho story but cannot fathom his wife's situation even after so many direct hints and taunts.

I was one of those who defended Dev because he genuinely balances both ladies and need both of them equally in his life. I will be equally pissed at Dev if he snears at his Mom to go behind Sona's pallu too..A very tough job for a husband in a joint family indeed😆


And the reaction is due to the extreme love for Dev of all Sona's of this forum..remember Sona saying " No one can hurt her except Dev"? well the theory is proved correct today😉😆

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think both Dev and Sona should just stop making hasty commitments. They just end up hurting other people trying to please someone else.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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This I totally agree on they have to use their heads atleast sometimes in making decisions maybe this trajectory where they are heading will teach them to..or I hope it will




Originally posted by: tia.o

I think both Dev and Sona should just stop making hasty commitments. They just end up hurting other people trying to please someone else.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I would strongly advise against this Devs birthday celebration as i am sure it would come with its own baggage... and some wierd expectations/paramparas from Mataji...like
1. who will wish Dev first ?
2. parampara of dev sleeping in Ishwari's lap all day during birthday
3. who will he feed the cake first.
blah blah

I am so scared of this birthday now ...after today's episode

Originally posted by: gemini54

All of us are pissed off at Dev today..but when I got to think with a rational mind I am thinking if they don't show extreme lows how can they show extreme highs..and today was the start of the low for right now in the show things seem to be an even keel but with the Easwari problems just simmering..unless they bring it to the fore how can the story progress and that is why I think that this is an important turning point in the show and Dev growth..plus he is going to have his birthday soon😉


QUOTE=dlavanya]lot of hope and positivity in your post today... we are all sulking in the corner here. I hope dev stops uneven swinging and finds his balance soon...first he has to stop fire fighting and looking for quick fixes with out understanding the underlying problem.

He needs to start using his brain more instead of jumping into conclusions... i still cant believe what he said today... i seriously didnt understand how he came to the conclusion from the ganesha story that ishwari is sad because he called asha maa... he jumped right into that topic and tried to make ishwari happy so quickly... wow... if only he can use this super brain of his for all matters in dixit household ... it could become paradise for everyone soon...

ps: i am still pissed off...


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