sona is still sona not a doormat

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sona is not a doormat...she has not change much she is trying to fit in her new home and abide by the house rules...it really don't make her a doormat...her character us as such she will not disrespect her elders cause it is what she was taught and it is a reflection of her parents and her upbringing... Yes radharani taunts her a lot but as sons told her father she has gotten use to it...ishwari is treating her like an outsider but still she respects ishwari as her maa and gives her that due respect... She has never been rude to her elders...dev is her peer so she can battle with him because she knows him the best and understands him...she is seeing how his family treats him and she will only love him more...when you get married you don't go picking fights with your hubby family... They have not tortured her physically or mentally...they have only thrown their rude comments and blame towards her thus far...all of which she can handle... And yes her prince still needs to be rescued which she us slowly but surely doing...as for all his promises he never kept as married people we do make promises and try not to break them but sometimes in the heat of the moment we forget everything and all promises are broken with new ones to follow...but that is how life is...there are two heart wrenching tracks to com and that is the prenup and infertility... And he will have to be strong enough to see her through these two tracks cause both tracks are going to break her in a very bad way...he will have to be there whether sona wants him or not ...and this is why these two track should be as one instead of individual tracks...
My logic for this is that the prenup should be shown first with all the drama followed by the infertility because she will understand that maybe he really did not intentionally sign it and fully knowing her situation with the infertility he still wanted her...and here no one will be able to separate them because he loves her more than anything... And that was just one doctors opinion so maybe they will get another and see if she can conceive... Or what will be the options... Divorce of one child has already been shown so for ishwari she may suggest to dev to divorce sons and her all hell might break loose...we might see the wrath of Dev...

All in all I really love the show especially dev and sona I mean I have looked at other serial's but I am hooked on this one...there is something about this show that us captivating and the leads just puts the icing on the cake...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agree with you that Sona is right in giving respect to her elders as she has been learning same from her family since childhood. 👍🏼
Most of us are like that only in any given normal situation.😛
But here things are definitely not normal and Sona can't constantly deny the feeling of unreasonable dislike that Ishwari and GKB has for her. This feeling they have for her is generic and not in any given situation.

So is it worth losing our own self respect just to be respectful for others when you certainly can park yourself aside for sometime ?

If you cannot argue or take stand for yourself out of respect for other person and the only man in your life(Dev, in this case) is deaf,blind and mute when it comes to protecting your self esteem and dignity,,then I guess it is THE TIME you should withdraw yourself from such situations and take a break..

Coming to Sona's attitude for Ishwari.. I wanna scream it to her ears

you need to give a break or a temporary pause to your ties with certain people that aren't good with you no matter whatsoever. The love or connection will not get lost, but since the communication is certainly not healthy and favorable ..So you move on today so as to to resume with a better and approving future . Need to be a bit patient as of now.
People are often unreasonable around us so its better to leave them at their own.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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There is a say kill them with kindness..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ASHREENA

Sona is not a doormat...she has not change much she is trying to fit in her new home and abide by the house rules...it really don't make her a doormat...her character us as such she will not disrespect her elders cause it is what she was taught and it is a reflection of her parents and her upbringing... Yes radharani taunts her a lot but as sons told her father she has gotten use to it...ishwari is treating her like an outsider but still she respects ishwari as her maa and gives her that due respect... She has never been rude to her elders...dev is her peer so she can battle with him because she knows him the best and understands him...she is seeing how his family treats him and she will only love him more...when you get married you don't go picking fights with your hubby family... They have not tortured her physically or mentally...they have only thrown their rude comments and blame towards her thus far...all of which she can handle... And yes her prince still needs to be rescued which she us slowly but surely doing...as for all his promises he never kept as married people we do make promises and try not to break them but sometimes in the heat of the moment we forget everything and all promises are broken with new ones to follow...but that is how life is...there are two heart wrenching tracks to com and that is the prenup and infertility... And he will have to be strong enough to see her through these two tracks cause both tracks are going to break her in a very bad way...he will have to be there whether sona wants him or not ...and this is why these two track should be as one instead of individual tracks...

My logic for this is that the prenup should be shown first with all the drama followed by the infertility because she will understand that maybe he really did not intentionally sign it and fully knowing her situation with the infertility he still wanted her...and here no one will be able to separate them because he loves her more than anything... And that was just one doctors opinion so maybe they will get another and see if she can conceive... Or what will be the options... Divorce of one child has already been shown so for ishwari she may suggest to dev to divorce sons and her all hell might break loose...we might see the wrath of Dev...

All in all I really love the show especially dev and sona I mean I have looked at other serial's but I am hooked on this one...there is something about this show that us captivating and the leads just puts the icing on the cake...


Yes She respects her elders and she is trying to gel with her new family agreed and accepted. But I would like to differ on one point that is she is not mentally harassed. I believe she is mentally harassed by GKB and her MIL..The way Ishwari and GKB behaves is causing her a lot of pain ...now to add to them we have Neha...even her husband going mute in front of his family elders is also causing pain...just because she doesnt speak up doesnt mean , she doesnt feel bad and I personally believe it is harassment.

Regarding Prenup and Infertility ...one doubt I have is what if Sona thinks that Dev decided to sign the prenup after getting to know her health condition...know that there is a very slim chance of her conceiving...and that she is not going to have their child...in future if she decides to leave him why should he share his wealth with her...if they had a child it would have made sense now that she is not going to have one...why share if she leaves him?? She can think this way as well rt ??

Ppl can think in many ways and when they are mentally hurt and trust is broken...then mind takes you to places that we can never think of ...

He should have told abt her health , she had the right to know and if she was not willing to marry him then he could have convinced her...now its going to be a mess , she is going to feel hurt and dejected...because now when ppl get to know of her health she will be treated even worse at his house and him being mute in front of his family is not going to be any help to her ...he will bring in lot of pain to her ...in short the happiness he promised her will not happen...even that promise will be broken...

I personally feel Sona should mind her own business and not act like a doormat...She has understood that they dont want to share any info abt what is happening in the house then why bother...yesterday that dinning table scene , it was very evident that they didnt tell her and also made her feel like an outsider by not answering to what she said ...so why bother asking more question on that topic...??

It is their loss in front of their so called new in laws of Riya's future family if they dont involve their ONLY son's wife...it is their image that is going to be at stake...

I really want Dixit family to go thru what Boss family went thru during this marriage ...so that Dev understands the mistakes that he and his family made and is making...probably this marriage will bring in some sense in Dev and he rise from his forced slumber.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't agree on that sona is not mentally harrassed by her inlaws. All the taunts and disrespectfull comments are indeed harressment! And Sona does respect elders, but respecting elders does not mean to accept such wrong behavoir and to forget about your own self respect. Does respecting elders means to forget about yourself and ur self respect? If Sona keeps quit because she things dev will one day see thats ishwari is wrong, she can admit herself into mental assylum. Because unless sona will not take a stand for her self and let Dev see the truth, ishwari and gkb will keep on taunting, dev will keep quit and jeep his eyes closed and sona will also forget about her self respect. She indeed has become a doormat. No respect from mil gkb neha and even dev does not care about Sona's self respect by keeping quit each and evry single time his family insults her!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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feel afraid for sona. the upcoming tracks are gonna be really hurtful

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