Lovely analysis... I have to admit; yesterday's episode has left me thinking along similar lines... However, there is a tricky problem. Let me elaborate
Ishwari sent Sona off to her maika because Sona won't back off on the Neha front and it's getting tiresome for Ishwari and Dev. While Neha needs to open up, in this instance Sona's intentions are right, her approach is getting a bit in your face... The subtle self-respecting manner of helping dada isn't as much used here
Having said that, I don't know how long Ishwari will bury her head in the sand and keep sending sona to her maika or ask her to sleep with her SILs etc. to keep the her own ecosystem intact? You know who can change this... Dev and only Dev... It doesn't matter what Bijoy or Neha say to Ishwari... Only when Dev will speak to Ishwari (that even when he hasn't signed in after work, his love for Ishwari doesn't diminish) will she respond. He was going to go and bring his wife back (and bring balance back in the HIS ecosystem) the same night. Ishwari didn't let him go... (I get her reasons...). He made it loud and clear he won't return back the next day till he brings Sona back. Ishwari knew that. The whole household knew that. Ishwari knows what Dev is capable of doing in Sona-diwangi... She still chooses to disrupt the Bose-ecosystem at 2 AM. We need to remind ourselves this mother-son duo like waiting on each other (Dev did the same after the temple incident. However, in that instance Ishwari had walked off without saying a word to Dev). She keeps forgetting that her son doesn't only like Sona, he loves her... he craves for her
Why did Sona throw Dev out of her room...? Wasn't it the same as Dev walking out on her and working in the courtyard and then sleeping on the sofa in full view of the joint family...? In my honest opinion... NO... why? A, Everyone at Bose's knew there was an argument on between Dev-Sona... In case of Dixits, when Dev slept on the sofa no one knew and no one was trying to dissipate the tension either. B, Dev was getting due respect from other family members and knew he won't get verbal abuse. Sona, on the other hand, gets confusion causing treatment from Ishwari and verbal abuse from Mamiji. Should Sona have thrown Dev out of her bedroom that night - I don't know. I think the situation was well under control. No one's temper was flailing and she knew her family were giving Dev enough love and respect for her to show a bit of attitute. It was all amicable as against to him sat in the courtyard and not even speaking to her properly when she came down to check on him. However, some viewers may not agree, and I respect that
Bijoy throwing the pair of them out vs Ishwari throwing them out - That to me is like comparing apples to ceiling fans... again, Bijoy was very clear - He reprimanded his daughter for not responding to Dev's advances. Ishwari on the other hand had a jibe at Sona that Duserra morning, saying Sona doesn't even know when Dev came home...
All these incidents need to be looked at within context to see how much of this is fair and how much isn't. Sona needs to back off on the Neha issue. Its been stretched like a chewing gum now and if her husband's family want to dig their own happiness' grave she sometimes needs to pick her battles. If that makes Dev unhappy in the long run that would have to be dealt with later.
We still have a problem - Ishwari wants to see a happy Dev... For A Happy Dev we need Sona around Dev... But Sona may sometimes bring up uncomfortable topics... How will Dev deal with that? Unless that puzzle is resolved, this JIGJAW is incomplete... We have a problem Houston
Edited by thedramaqueen - 8 years ago
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