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I am not saying that it doesn't happen. But what I am saying is that it's normal for newly wed couple to want to spend time with each other. This is the time they really get to know each other. What is so unusual about this.
Secondly, there will be some changes after marriage. If Ishwari calls Dev, does he walk away from her? No. They have conversation. But we can't forget that Sona came to Dev's house leaving her family behind. So she has rights on his time as well.
Since time can't be extended and now another person has claim on his time, Dev needs to do Time Management and the first rule of it is Priorities.
Yesterday, Dev and Sona was lighting Diyas that got Ishwari upset. But what about her lighting Diya with rest of the family, should Dev and Sona get offended on that?
Also, when Sona injured her foot in precap, Dev took his injured wife inside which again Ishwari didn't like.
When Dev has no work and no other priorities, he can go to temple with Ishwari even though he doesn't believe in God. But when his wife is injured, the priority is his wife. Ishwari herself would expect Dev to forget temple and rush to office if a fire breaks out, but not if the priority is his wife.
Would Ishwari like it if she gets injured and Dev ignores her and takes Sona to her family's home?
Cv's are exaggerating things but ya I have actually seen these things in real life. My cousin brother who was newly married direclty go to his room after coming home from work. We all felt a little change and especially his mother complanied that he doesn't talk to her much after marriage. But she somehow accepted the things and we too because this happens after marriage. Later in out region it is a custom that during delivery time hubby can't sleep with wife for 1 month. MIL told them to get seprate but he didn't listened and do whatever he wants so what should a MIL will think gya beta haath Se. These things are common if u observe subtly. Ya but I am saying cv's are showing something OTT
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