Ishu at her best form?!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Originally posted by: mena_k

A parents duty is not only to fulfil the needs of a child in terms of food and shelter but also to provide them with the right developmental guidance which would help them as they grow older. It is also important to correct them when they mistakenly take a wrong path. The way a parent teaches a child is different when they are younger than when they grow old. It comes to a more sit and explain kind of technique when a child becomes an adult. Putting ones fault on someone else is definitely not good parenting. Finally love is above all the materialistic needs for a child what a parent gives as they are growing. A child deprived of basic need of love from his/her parent can never understand the true significance and value of love as an adult.

Ishwari had deprived that basic love to Neha as a child and continued the same as an adult. She was never seen close to any of her daughters. Certainly time was not a factor nor was she putting any struggle to help fulfil her family's need since they all are doing well due to Dev's hard work.

She put all her time, love, money in Dev as she considered him the saviour from poverty for her family (directly shows biased culture, value of son over daughters). Over time the love she had for her son (8 yr old) had slowly transformed into a obsession to control his life. Her emotional needs had grown so strong in all these years that she had created an illusional world around herself in which Dev's happiness lies only being with her. She had considered even her daughters as a threat to her imaginary world where she and Dev live happily ever after forever. Does she still love Dev, can't say for sure. But whatever she does or has been doing till date was pretty much her way of saving that imaginary world of hers, where she is the only love Dev has. Yes she needs professional help for her to reconnect with the real world that she lives in.

Agreeing to Neha's decision to divorce even without understanding the situation is yet another example of her bad parenting. She snatched away the love and care Neha needed as a child and now she is snatching her ability to rationally think for it all goes in her benefit to make a support team against Sona. Does she care for Neha, not at all.

Her coming and putting the blame on Dev of something which she only is responsible was her tactics to make Dev guilty. If only Dev had an logical thinking ability grown he would have understood, Ishwari is wrongly accusing him of what he had not right or control over.

I don't see why someone from a family would hesitate to talk to ones own family member and would rather go talk to the other person in order to solve a problem. The problem was never Ranveer, like he said, he didn't hide anything from Neha before marriage. She agreed knowing all, n now she is accusing him of snatching her luxurious life and taking her to a small home was absurd. Only dixit elders can hear and support such bullshit. Hypocrisy and double standard runs in the entire dixit family to its maximum.

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

PP - One of the best posts from you dearie. And this is exactly what I tried to ask here many times ! About the limitation of duties, expectations and affection between parents and children.

If we forget about Sona-Dev-Ishwari for a second, Neha's story would really move people. It's undoubtedly one of the most complex characters of the television, and hats off to CVs for having guts to show the dialogs mouthed from Neha. Yes, Neha's trauma is caused by Ishwari, Ishwari's crocodile tears don't move me AT ALL. A mother has to be REALLY cruel to snatch one kid of the opportunities and shower everything to another. Like I said earlier, instead of trying to have a middle-class balanced family, she was greedy enough to have an empire for herself. Neha and Dev's flawed characters are created by her obsession to have more and more money. She might come across as a simple woman in front of people like GKB, but she can afford to pretend that since she is filthy rich by now. I wonder had Dev not been able to fulfill her dreams, would she be happy ? I can't imagine her happy face with Dev and Neha going out for 9-to-5 jobs and coming back home with moderate income at the end of the month. She would still lament about her 20 yr old bankruptcy in that case.

She poisoned everyone's life for her own selfish greed. It's very unfortunate for both Dev and Neha to have taken birth from someone like Ishwari. Today's episode she says 'Till today, whatever I wanted, it happened'. And in the very next episode we will find her shit-scared of 'What if things don't happen the way I want'. Be it about money, be it about control, be it about insecurity, be it about Dev, she is NEVER happy and satisfied even though always she got what she wanted 😵. The moment she fears something is losing out of her way, she starts her cards of guilt-trips, faint-drama, old-stories, faking-gratitude games. But the bottomline is - she gets what she wants. And like a neat manipulative player, she doesn't do anything on her own to get those, she sends her trained dogs Dev and Neha in the market to get her the stuffs she wants. She is the MOST demanding and dangerous mother I have seen in Indian Tele world. And why most dangerous, because to learn her games, you have to really follow her for a significant amount of moves. The way she traps Dev in guilt and responsibility without giving him an option to choose to be in the receiving end of her so-called love and opportunities, is really nasty. And for Neha, she crosses all the limits of being the worst mother 👎🏼. Her life-struggle don't truly interest me now, I have seen my own old house-maid raising 2 kids all on her own and settling them happily, even they live in much more peaceful and balanced way than this filthy rich Dixits.