Did ishwari leave all the luxuries because Neha lacks them? - Page 3

Originally posted by: baijubavra

You cracked me up ! I dont think Ishwari would be ok if Dev goes to Rishikesh even for a day. Remember all her drama when he went to Sona's mamaji's house ? Ishwari kept calling them and then called her parents even when she thought that they had gone to Mamajee.

Originally posted by: fanktlk

This would work if you had your chocolate with your brother. The issue here is your brother finished the task first had his chocolate and when it was time for you to have yours he starts eyeing yours and expect you to share.

Neha lived happily with her husband na when Dev was upset. Did we see her or any of the sisters make an attempt to even comfort Dev. Today he has his love he wants to spend some time with her. The problem here is Neha is upset they are going to Paris. If they had chosen Manali or Rishikesh, Neha wouldn't be upset. Ishwari is upset because it is 15 days. 1 day s( well she would still be upset)

Originally posted by: dlavanya

i just gave an example... because my mom is 1000% sure that me or my brother will never eat it alone and it is not that I used to win all the time... no matter who wins the choclate will be shared between both siblings. There were times when my brother wins and he shares it with me. Again each family is different and obviously our mom knows how to find tasks where me and my brother both win..and she definitely knows what we would do with the prize and she is nurturing the bond between me my brother...one may fail in life due to shortcomings or bad decisions or just bad luck - it is always important for the other sibling to be around to share the pain and help out if needed.

This should be mutual among siblings..it is the responsibility of the parents to nurture the sibling relationship that way. this is where ishwari failed.. she gave more opportunities to Dev and that is understandable as she needed some one strong to pull them through the tough times... but she should have compensated this by giving extra love to Neha... which she didnt...
since Dev got all that Ishwari had to offer her kids, the entire responsibility has been placed on his shoulders indefinitely... even though they are rich now.. Dev will never be free from this responsiblities... anytime he starts living for himself , ishwari will take him on guilt trip.

Neha has been deprived of love, affection, opportunities and even the appreciation that it was not just Dev and Ishwari who suffered and pulled the family through... Neha was equally responsible. now Neha is in a state of insecurity and have zero confidence that she can ever be happy in life... She loves Ranveer but it has strings attached... the only way neha's issue can be sorted is not by making her understand the meaning of love and family but by making her stand on herr feet and be independent... I hope to see how they will take this track fwd..

At this time, I have zero expectations from ishwari... She will continue to play victim card for every single time to get what she wants.. but eventually Sona and Dev will realize..Only then we can see an upward movement in ishwari's character.

Originally posted by: vibg

dev is 8. he cant b for so long with a girl 😆

Originally posted by: baijubavra

I agree with dlavnya's post ! Neha should have received the same amount of love and importance from Ishwari as Dev. Although, she could not give her equal opportunities to study as She chose Dev to get them out of the poverty ( there is dialogue where she says that Dev was chosen because he was brighter in studies) , but she could have showered equal motherly love to Neha. Then she continues with her PDA with Dev even when Neha has mentioned several times that she is jealous of that mother-son PDA!

I also agree with your solution to Neha's situation. Dev can help her eastablish a business (home decoration, fashion designing, child care , packaged food etc.) and make her financially independent. She has been shown to admire Sona's independence and working outside of home. She was the one who encouraged Rhea to get a job and has been shown to be a bright person. She learnt English and was conversing with Natasha fluently with a short training. This will not only help with their financial situation, it will also give a positive message to the community that both husband and wife can contribute to the family income . I don't think either Ranveer or his family will have an issue if Neha works outside of home and helps with the financial situation.

Ishwari's solution is to make the newlyweds just mourn Neha's situation although she herself is not leaving any luxuries behind. she can lead by example and atleast stop competing with the wife like a sautan and pay some attention to the daugters!