Did ishwari leave all the luxuries because Neha lacks them?

I did not understand the idea of bashing Dev for his HM plans. Ishwari said that it would make Neha feel bad because she could not go on HM with her husband. Neha made the choice to marry Ranveer herself knowing completely well about his financial condition and decided to leave him not because any one was troubling her in her sasural but because she could not live without the luxuries. Now, if Devakshi can't go on HM because it will make Neha feeel bad then Ishwari should also leave all luxruies because Neha does not have them at her in laws right!

why should she? she has slave Dev to sacrifice for sake of family 😉

if I was in Dev or Sona's place .. then I would not have planned honeymoon at this time.. going on HM is not wrong but the timing is definitely wrong. I know everyone has a right to live their lives the way they want and when they want. But unfortunately or fortunately we live in a society and we have family beyond husband-wife relationship.. So it would be insensitive to go on HM let alone plan a HM when your sister is sitting at home and is on verge of break up with her husband...mainly due to the reasons that he cant afford a luxurious lifestyle that she wanted..

we can not just ignore the feelings of ppl that are close to us and go on and live our life the way we want...

Originally posted by: dlavanya

if I was in Dev or Sona's place .. then I would
not have planned honeymoon at this time.. going on HM is not wrong but
the timing is definitely wrong. I know everyone has a right to live
their lives the way they want and when they want. But unfortunately or
fortunately we live in a society and we have family beyond husband-wife
relationship.. So it would be insensitive to go on HM let alone plan a
HM when your sister is sitting at home and is on verge of break up with
her husband...mainly due to the reasons that he cant afford a luxurious
lifestyle that she wanted..

we can not just ignore the feelings of ppl that are close to us and go on and live our life the way we want...

tell me.. what is mom doing to help her daughter? isnt it her job to talk toneha, her husband? why is thisexpected from newly wedded couple? plus we dont know whole story.. just a precqp.

Originally posted by: vibg

tell me.. what is mom doing to help her daughter? isnt it her job to talk toneha, her husband? why is thisexpected from newly wedded couple? plus we dont know whole story.. just a precqp.

trust me I am not saying Ishwari is right in taking Dev on a guilt trip. She is just using Neha's situation as a bait.. we all know Ishwari is all about I,ME, MYSELF

But i expected sona and Dev to be different and show some sensitivity before getting sucked into their own small world... after all we live in a family and a society... we can not say i will go have sex in public and i dont care what everyone thinks because I will do what i want to do and when i want to do it... this is a very extreme example i am giving... but you get the idea...

Ishwari, a master manipulator is just using Neha - victim card to make Dev feel guilty. If Neha wants to go HM with her husband I am sure Dev is more than happy to pay for their expenses, but the girl don't want to go back to her husband, then how is Dev at fault.

Well the problem is to show-off she can again pull out that Chullah and kill us in that roasted..

Its not about Ishwari leaving her happiness but making Dev leave his happiness (which she thinks does not exist without her being part of it), not for Neha but for her. I was literally thinking does she expects Dev to take her on his honeymoon trip instead of Sona when she was having flashbacks, you know like when kid Dev said next time he will take her with him on every trip he goes.
Ishwari achieves what she wants to by hook or crook, just waiting to see when this never ending cycle would break and we are sure it will break.

Copying my reply from another post because I am lazy.

Originally posted by: dlavanya

trust me I am not saying Ishwari is right in taking Dev on a guilt trip. She is just using Neha's situation as a bait.. we all know Ishwari is all about I,ME, MYSELF

But i expected sona and Dev to be different and show some sensitivity before getting sucked into their own small world... after all we live in a family and a society... we can not say i will go have sex in public and i dont care what everyone thinks because I will do what i want to do and when i want to do it... this is a very extreme example i am giving... but you get the idea...

seriously.. its not their job. and yes, you are comparing apples and oranges. ishwari should be working on this not Devakshi. and you forget.. ishari hass made it clear sona should mind her own business. so she is doing it now!