thank god my MIL is not like ishvari

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shythu

@shythu

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Posted: 8 years ago

I am a silent member. I got married on 9th of this month. I was wondering what if my sasuma turns out to be like ishvari!.he he. But she is so cool. She let us eat alone. 😆 she asks me if I ate nicely. She doesn't ask this to her son. Lol

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Jyoti Thakur

@JyotiBThakur

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Posted: 8 years ago

Lucky girl...😆

I wish nobody gets a MIL like Ish.

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shythu

@shythu

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Monu1602
Ye toh abhi trailer hain, Puri picture toh abhi baki hain mere dost. Okkk. This was not to frieghten u. Initially even my MIL was very sweet and didn't have problem in we spending time but slowly I got to know her true colours. She is equally possessive as Ishwari and that was the reason I started watching this show to see that such mothers actually do exist and she is not an exception. As Ishwari is supporting Sona regarding work and kitchen thing, she supports me too. But when it comes to we spending time together she just have a problem with it. Imagine she comes along with us everywhere. Uhhh. It's so irritating. Hope ur MIL remains like that. All the best.

Oh ! I also hope she remains like that.

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shythu

@shythu

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Monu1602
I have one 🥱

OMG really. That's so bad. I feel for you

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WeRockTheWorld

@WeRockTheWorld

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: shythu
I am a silent member. I got married on 9th of this month. I was wondering what if my sasuma turns out to be like ishvari!.he he. But she is so cool. She let us eat alone. 😆 she asks me if I ate nicely. She doesn't ask this to her son. Lol

Its nice you feel that way about your in laws. But every time the situation wont be the same. These are initial days, we cant judge any one nor ourselves till we are faced with a situation.

Only thing I can tell you is ...like most women do , dont try to change the practises of that house...just blindly follow even if you dont think it is rt...

Try to involve her to in ur tea time talks or while eating dinner /lunch etc...Once in a while take her out too...when she is there walk with her ..give her company...

Once she is confident that you will not take her son away from her , she will be your best friend !!

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suma

@suma74

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: shythu
I am a silent member. I got married on 9th of this month. I was wondering what if my sasuma turns out to be like ishvari!.he he. But she is so cool. She let us eat alone. 😆 she asks me if I ate nicely. She doesn't ask this to her son. Lol

Sorry to tell you! I didn't want to discourage your feelings, so I didn't reply you. After seeing others posts, I though of answering you.

1. Don't worry dear all MILs are Ishwari, some little or some more, everyone are the same.

2. Even this may happen when you become MIL.

3. Just ignore and go according to the flow.

4. MIL will not be possessive to their sons till they get married, once their son's get married they will be possessive.

5. Chear up dear - leave and live as it comes. - Be strong nothing to worry

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shythu

@shythu

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Its nice you feel that way about your in laws. But every time the situation wont be the same. These are initial days, we cant judge any one nor ourselves till we are faced with a situation.

Only thing I can tell you is ...like most women do , dont try to change the practises of that house...just blindly follow even if you dont think it is rt...
Try to involve her to in ur tea time talks or while eating dinner /lunch etc...Once in a while take her out too...when she is there walk with her ..give her company...

Once she is confident that you will not take her son away from her , she will be your best friend !!
That's so sweet . thank you for the advice. I will try

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WeRockTheWorld

@WeRockTheWorld

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: shythu

👍🏼 all the best !!

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srikala ganesh

@srikalaganesh

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Posted: 8 years ago

Your post heading is super ...thank God my mil is not like Eshwari...

U no earlier in the cinema industry Lalitha Pawar was considered as a v bad mil... and everyone use to tell like this ... No one should get a mil like her...now v all call can change the name to Eshwari...

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Just call me Sumi :)

@xsumi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#10

i have said from day 1 when i get married i am not going to live with my in laws my husband and I can buy our own house live peacefully and no mother in laws around

im 19 and already saving alot of money for my future house 😆 im sorry but i just cant live with in laws

and before i even say Yes to marrying someone i need to know whether he is a Mummys boy if yes then im declining

if he wants me to say in in laws house forever then its a No

i want to marry an independent man

when a girl gets married she has to become independent and leave her lovely family so i feel men should become independent aswell and move into a new house with their wife and start a new family together

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