Finally watched Friday's episode..my take

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mena_k

@mena_k

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: sia.krpkab
You are entitled to your opinion.
But I am really surprised at this skewed take on the episode. How you did not notice some very evident points of insult and alienation towards Sona is beyond me.
Anyway that's entirely your call but you did not account for anything that happened the moment Dev entered the house or even before when ishwari went up marching to Sona's room.

Sona was an object of humiliation and neglect for ishwari and all others both in her room and when dev was being badgered in the living area. Dev should have expressed his position to Sona without yelling at her - he was respectful to that scumbag but not to his wife.
He could have at least pointed out to his mother not to drag Sona into this matter. Ishwari openly said you changed your decision upon speaking to your wife, that was a direct accusation. And right when Sona was standing there.
<font color="#333333" face="Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif">That is NOT how you treat a daughter in law.</font>

Well, Isn't it the truth, Dev did change his decision only after Sona said so or else his first decision was to appoint him as sales manager. So Ishwari is not wrong here.

Yes, Sona got insulted badly and no one is supporting that. But lets go back, Her first dialogue in the room was insulting to Ishwari "Koi kuch bhi bole (seriously n she clearly said that for Ishwari), but I am with you. so Ishwari is "Koi" really. If Ishwari behaved badly, Sona didn't start good as well. Like what she was trying to create a rift between Dev and Ishwari here. Would Sona use the same words "koi kuch bhi bole" for Asha, I don't think so. And then in the room she kept on pushing Dev even when he said let me think (harshly yes). She has to realise she has absolutely no clue what situation Dev went as a child, and neither she could ever understand even an ounce of it.

This is adjustment phase in KRPKAB, many DIL's have to go through this phase and same is true for MIL's.

Both Ishwari and Sona have faults and it clearly got highlighted in Friday's episode. Both have to work hard to build a relationship and I am looking forward to their journey in the coming weeks.

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Vimal M

@VIMAL.SM

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

The way Sona understand Dev no one understands him.If any other girl in Sona's place.Would have put Dev behind the bars of stalking.It was Sona who understand his plight.Did not take any harsh decision on him.Even when he tried to sabotage Ritwick career.She just shouted at him.Did not take any big decision to punish him.I did not wanted to drag the past.But Ur one-sided post made me drag the past.

Really a wife saying to her husband to make him feel good.By saying his decision was correct she suppourt him.That is inconsiderate and insensitive.Wow what a theory.The way Ish behaved with Sona when she came to know reg Vicky being Trainee.The way she questioned Dev.That was inconsiderate and insensitive.When a wife saw her husband is being questioned for his logical decision.Being made feel bad.As a wife she thought to suppourt him n make him feel good.What did she got in return he yelling at her.He could have said it in a nice way also.

Reg Sona understanding Dev reg his past Neha etc.,Pls watch the scene after Neha's wedding.How she comforted Dev.What all she said to him.She also understand Neha.Sona clearly understand what Dev has gone through.Her dialogue she understand Dev more in 3 months.But Sona is being seeing.How Dev's helping nature is being exploited.By wrong people.

If we talk about eshaan.Dev as done more than what mama ji has done.Ishwari was not angry on Dev.Because he did not give big post.She was angry on Dev.That he listened to his wife's advice.That's why she taunted indirectly saying.Don't forget old responsibility for new one.

Seriously Dev's decision does not affect Sona directly.I think we r watching diff episode.When Dev changed his decision to appoint Vicky in top position.GKB taunted Sona as Black Shadow.When Vicky saw Dev changed his decision n did not give imp to Sona's decision.Did U saw how badly he was speaking with Sona.Saying she trapped Dev n what not.So Dev's decision as affected Sona directly.

Dev can beg in front a scumbag.Speak with him respectfully.In-spite of the things he done in office n home.Because he is bro.But cannot speak calmly n respectfully to Sona.

Sona questioning Dev is not ego.When Dev said to Sona reg fast issue.She should have taken decision consulting him.Did any one said that as Male Ego.Now all r ready to jump n say it's Sona's ego.2 epi's back only he said he will suppourt her.Business is ours.But when a situation came to prove it.As usual he did not do it.Sona is right in questioning him.When both took a decision on a matter.Before changing it he could have consulted Sona or explained why he had to do it.

CV's have always shown Dev's struggle.So people think only he struggled.Sona is not born with Silver Spoon in her mouth.She born in a lower middle class family.She also faced her share of struggle n turmoil.She was the sole bread winner for her family.She also faced turmoils in her life.When Dev made Sona to get fired from her job.He closed all doors for her job.So that she has no choice to work for him.That time also her family faced problem.She also faced problem.We should not forgot that.Because Dev faced problem n indebted to Mama.He should not be given free pass for the mistakes he do.

Sona is not fighting for her position with Ishwari.She is fighting for the position as wife.When her husband does not feel the need to consult her before taking decision.Dev decision changes based on his mom's emotional blackmail.Sona has already suffered due to this.He broke up with her.She has that fear still now.What if again he take decision to separate with her.So try to understand Sona's POV.Were she is coming from.Instead of blaming her.

Edited by VIMAL.M - 8 years ago

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Shilky88

@Shilky88

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Thanks for sharing your POV and I totally respect that
With due respect to what you think of Sona I just wanna ask u one question -Do you really think that Sona's intentions were not good when she came in to express her support in Dev's decision? We have seen her character graph right from episode one to break up then to patch up and till these post marriage issues..She is never shown to hold any insecurity or competition or ego issues against anyone in Dixit house.Ego is d last thing I could relate to her character.. Dignity and self respect is different thing which is why she must have felt bad when Dev announced his decision without telling her. She might b hurt but can never b jealous or insecure.

What would you do if you were at her place? You can very well visualize that your husband is taking an extremely wrong decision under over hyped family pressure and obligations or may be due to ongoing insecurities within elder ladies in house.
Will you still allow your husband to put your family's financial security at risk?
I think that was Sona's responsibility to warn her husband of the repercussions of this decision.
Her way and timing of doing that may be wrong ..but I will not doubt her intentions.

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Hari73

@Hari73

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Hmm. .I think you are more on ehsaan point

Is it not providing trainee job also return for ehsaan..These days where you get even as trainee in big firms..you need to be capable , educated and more over good conduct. It was pure ishwari wants to hold on son and could not digest how her ATM son listened to his wife. So gave big lecture and emotional blackmail..

Now providing project head job, is ehsaan over. Here I don't want even talk about DIL and MIL relation. What humiliation Dev has to go thru, he had to plead Vicki to join. I really think what kind of mother she is. Mother gets hurt for slightest pain if child goes through. It is Dev who consider his obligation. She is not even allowing her son to breath a ounce of freedom. After eshwari lecture about ehsaan, did you realise how emotional termoil he was going thru...saath janamo thak ehsaan nahin chuka payenge etc..This is suffocating him.

When she cannot become good mother, it's least expectation from her to become good MIL.

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Vimal M

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Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: mena_k

Well, Isn't it the truth, Dev did change his decision only after Sona said so or else his first decision was to appoint him as sales manager. So Ishwari is not wrong here.

Yes, Sona got insulted badly and no one is supporting that. But lets go back, Her first dialogue in the room was insulting to Ishwari "Koi kuch bhi bole (seriously n she clearly said that for Ishwari), but I am with you. so Ishwari is "Koi" really. If Ishwari behaved badly, Sona didn't start good as well. Like what she was trying to create a rift between Dev and Ishwari here. Would Sona use the same words "koi kuch bhi bole" for Asha, I don't think so. And then in the room she kept on pushing Dev even when he said let me think (harshly yes). She has to realise she has absolutely no clue what situation Dev went as a child, and neither she could ever understand even an ounce of it.

This is adjustment phase in KRPKAB, many DIL's have to go through this phase and same is true for MIL's.

Both Ishwari and Sona have faults and it clearly got highlighted in Friday's episode. Both have to work hard to build a relationship and I am looking forward to their journey in the coming weeks.

Seriously Sona trying to create rift between Dev N Ish.That is the biggest joke.Sona's said one word Koi.Ishwari has said thousand words to insult Sona in many ways.U r comparing Ish n Sona.Ish the day she get to know Sona N Dev r in love she said many things to insult Sona.Sona is way better than Ishwari.It is Sona who still respect Ish.

Sona did not force Dev to change his decision.If U watch the epi.She was hesitant to give suggestion to Dev.Every wife wants n wish the best for their husband.Sona knew how Vicky is.She did not wanted her husband to suffer.But as a wife.She wanted to suggest him.But she was so hesitant.She started her talk by saying.I don't know I have right to speak in ur business matter.It was Dev who said what is this ur business it's our business.Then Sona gave her suggestion.Dev found that suggestion good.So he took it.Sona did not emotionally black mail him like Ishwari.To follow what she said.

She was the one who understand Dev can go depression.When she saw him taking sleeping pills.She was the one to made him understand.Sharing things can reduce the pain.She understand Dev more than his mom.She knew Dev struggled a lot.Lost his childhood.Because he had responsibility of his family.Time n again.She made him feel better.Be it during Neha wedding also.She made him feel him better.That he done all the responsibility perfectly.No one understand Dev better than Sona.Not his family members also.Because she has seen the emotionally vulnerable side of him.Also seen how Vicky N GKB exploit him.Also how Ish emotionally black mail him.

It's not about Sona N Ish building their relation.It's all about Dev N Sona building their relation to.Their relation is not that strong.

Edited by VIMAL.M - 8 years ago

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Vimal M

@VIMAL.SM

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Posted: 8 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: Shilky88
Thanks for sharing your POV and I totally respect that
With due respect to what you think of Sona I just wanna ask u one question -Do you really think that Sona's intentions were not good when she came in to express her support in Dev's decision? We have seen her character graph right from episode one to break up then to patch up and till these post marriage issues..She is never shown to hold any insecurity or competition or ego issues against anyone in Dixit house.Ego is d last thing I could relate to her character.. Dignity and self respect is different thing which is why she must have felt bad when Dev announced his decision without telling her. She might b hurt but can never b jealous or insecure.

What would you do if you were at her place? You can very well visualize that your husband is taking an extremely wrong decision under over hyped family pressure and obligations or may be due to ongoing insecurities within elder ladies in house.
Will you still allow your husband to put your family's financial security at risk?
I think that was Sona's responsibility to warn her husband of the repercussions of this decision.
Her way and timing of doing that may be wrong ..but I will not doubt her intentions.

Well said.

When Dev face issue in business.Then only both Ish N Dev will understand.Sona's POV.

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Vimal M

@VIMAL.SM

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Posted: 8 years ago

#17

When Dev said to Sona she is second most imp Women in his life.That time also she did not make any scene.She said relation should complete n not compete.She never had any intention to compete with Ish n also had ego clash with Ish.It was always been opposite.Ish has more ego.

During break up also.When Elena blamed Ish. Sona said it was Dev decision to break up with her.She did not blame Ish.

When Ish was in hospital.When Sona came to give her medical file.Ish said good relationship is over.Some relation r not that strong.A girl who has gone trough break up.But Ish was so insensitive towards her.Yet Sona maintained her dignity.When Ish taunted Sona N Dev love as 2 mins noodle etc.,. Then also she Sona maintained her dignity.

If Sona wanted to create rift between Ish N Dev.She could have said these things to Dev. Sona never ever tried to create rift between Dev N Ish.She in comforting her husband used a word Koi.So she is trying to create rift between Ish N Dev.What a wonderful theory.I am amazed.

Sona never ever had any ego.She always valued her dignity n self respect.Now she is compromising on that also.To become a part of Dev's family.Taking taunt from Bua,Ish ,Vicky N GKB.All for Dev.What Dev doing.He could not stand firmly for her.When matter is serious.He will be mute spectator.When is wife being taunted ,blamed that she is making Dev deviate from his responsibility n also called as Kala Saiya.Yet Sona need to be clam n composed.Because Dev suffered a lot in past.What about Sona suffering in present.No one thinks from that POV.

Edited by VIMAL.M - 8 years ago

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Vimal M

@VIMAL.SM

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Posted: 8 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: Pramila.harish
Hmm. .I think you are more on ehsaan point
Is it not providing trainee job also return for ehsaan..These days where you get even as trainee in big firms..you need to be capable , educated and more over good conduct. It was pure ishwari wants to hold on son and could not digest how her ATM son listened to his wife. So gave big lecture and emotional blackmail..

Now providing project head job, is ehsaan over. Here I don't want even talk about DIL and MIL relation. What humiliation Dev has to go thru, he had to plead Vicki to join. I really think what kind of mother she is. Mother gets hurt for slightest pain if child goes through. It is Dev who consider his obligation. She is not even allowing her son to breath a ounce of freedom. After eshwari lecture about ehsaan, did you realise how emotional termoil he was going thru...saath janamo thak ehsaan nahin chuka payenge etc..This is suffocating him.

When she cannot become good mother, it's least expectation from her to become good MIL.

Ish can see her son plead n beg.What kind of mom she is.

If Ehsaan is about money.Dev has paid more money than what Mama paid.But yet he is taking responsibility of his family.

@Bold - Very well said.

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Hari73

@Hari73

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

Ish can see her son plead n beg.What kind of mom she is.

If Ehsaan is about money.Dev has paid more money than what Mama paid.But yet he is taking responsibility of his family.

@Bold - Very well said.

Here TM claims sona's ego...poor lady struggling to get even wife position, how can someone think like that. I wish if Dev had listen to sona when she came to console..It would have been one way to open his eyes to see what is correct and wrong which is above obligation. . Now once again back to guilt world.

Now I want some top people including Tina resigning. .so that even Dev will learn consequences. ..He should realise his duties not just blindly following when someone emotionally blackmail

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Vimal M

@VIMAL.SM

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Posted: 8 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: Pramila.harish

Here TM claims sona's ego...poor lady struggling to get even wife position, how can someone think like that. I wish if Dev had listen to sona when she came to console..It would have been one way to open his eyes to see what is correct and wrong which is above obligation. . Now once again back to guilt world.

Now I want some top people including Tina resigning. .so that even Dev will learn consequences. ..He should realise his duties not just blindly following when someone emotionally blackmail

Dev when comes to momy n her complaints.He does not use his brain.He shouts without thinking.He did not learn any lesson from break up.He is still the same.Blind in mom's love.He does not know no one other Sona will not understand his situation better.If he spoke wit her in calm n composed way instead of yelling.Saying she will not understand.I wish Sona just go to her house for few days.She need some good environment.Also need to think of going to her job back.

CV's made Vicky create drama in office.He misbehaved with Tina.Yet no one complained to Dev.If it is happened in real world.Tina could have complained to HR n then to police.No reality at all .

@Bold - I also wish the same.Not only people resign.His goodwill should be questioned.He should get loss in business.Then only he will understand.He should do things which is correct.Not do it because of Eshaan N emotionally blackmailed.Will learn to be firm on his decision.Which is good for the business.

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