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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rahulvats12

It's not going anywhere towards typical saas bahu show... They r showing only reality... Still in many house, these saas bahu drama chalta hai. And makers r showing this saas bahu drama in very well mannered. They r not showing like other saas bahu show where saas and bahu r fighting or compete with each other.Maybe u Haven't seen like...that's why u r saying this.

And why r u feeling there is not any son mother relation, and they r showing some other relation?
From today episode, it's clearly seen that ishwari is helping sonakshi just because she doesn't want to see dev get insulted in front of bau or any outsiders because of any sonakshi mistakes
She is mother, that's why she doesn't want to see her son get insult.


Sorry But it is becoming like saas bahu drama. where Saas doing all these things to impress his son so she can always remain number one in his son's life. if ishwari loves his son so much then whatever problems happened during marriage would have not happened.

Ishwari knew how are all their relatives in dixit family. N how to handle them. But she did nothing to handle the situation. N what she did...stand there n act like victim. So everyone can blame Boss's not her.



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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: vibg


"Hatke" to hai 😉

Ye hatke thought tumlogo ke mind mein h...pta nhi kaha SE mind mein tum logo ke mein aaya ki ishwari sauten jaisa behave kr rhi h...ohh, c'mon maa bete ka rishta ko aisa mat bolo...yes, she helped sonakshi today in kitchen not for herslef but for her son.
As a mother, she doesn't want to see her son get insulted by bua or any outsider just because of any sona's mistake.
Because sona koi bhi galti kregi, indirectly bua or bahar wale toh dev ki insult krenge ki kaisi biwi laya. U know how outsider, always wants to find some small mistake to say anything on marriage.
Isliye ishwari ne aisa kiya...wo apne bete ko insult hote nhi dekhna chahti.
Iss scene ko tumne dekh kr kha diya ki ishwari sauten jaisa behave kr rhi h...waah

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rahulvats12

It's not going anywhere towards typical saas bahu show... They r showing only reality... Still in many house, these saas bahu drama chalta hai. And makers r showing this saas bahu drama in very well mannered. They r not showing like other saas bahu show where saas and bahu r fighting or compete with each other.Maybe u Haven't seen like...that's why u r saying this.

And why r u feeling there is not any son mother relation, and they r showing some other relation?
From today episode, it's clearly seen that ishwari is helping sonakshi just because she doesn't want to see dev get insulted in front of bau or any outsiders because of any sonakshi mistakes
She is mother, that's why she doesn't want to see her son get insult.



Ha.. u have no idea what I have seen and lived! Ishwari is playing pure kitchen politics but with a smile and without the eerie background track.. thats the only difference.

There are all kinds of households. If they had to do this sas bahu competition, power of sasural thru rituals that are designed to humiliate bahus.. then how does it not make this show same as saas bahu types?
Ishwari is not helping sonakshi. This is same scenarios as halva begore. Ishwari at her manipulative best 👏 and no mother gets jealous of a wife in her son's life.. like Ishwari! Take sleeping pills cause the boy is getting married. Get anxiety attacks when son is with the girl. Spy on young lovers but not confeont the son. Which posessive mother not ask her son if he has a GF if she sees him with a girl? Instead act all jealous and competitive! It is unhealthy.

It looks like "kuch rang pyaar ke aise bhi" from ishwari POV 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sorry But it is becoming like saas bahu drama. where Saas doing all these things to impress his son so she can always remain number one in his son's life. if ishwari loves his son so much then whatever problems happened during marriage would have not happened.

Ishwari knew how are all their relatives in dixit family. N how to handle them. But she did nothing to handle the situation. N what she did...stand there n act like victim. So everyone can blame Boss's not her.



She is not doing anything to impress her son.
pta nhi kaha SE mind mein tum logo ke mein aaya ki ishwari sauten jaisa behave kr rhi h...ohh, c'mon maa bete ka rishta ko aisa mat bolo...yes, she helped sonakshi today in kitchen not for herslef but for her son.
As a mother, she doesn't want to see her son get insulted by bua or any outsider just because of any sona's mistake.
Because sona koi bhi galti kregi, indirectly bua or bahar wale toh dev ki insult krenge ki kaisi biwi laya. U know how outsider, always wants to find some small mistake to say anything on marriage.
Isliye ishwari ne aisa kiya...wo apne bete ko insult hote nhi dekhna chahti.
Iss scene ko tumne dekh kr kha diya ki ishwari sauten jaisa behave kr rhi h...waah
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rahulvats12

She is not doing anything to impress her son.
pta nhi kaha SE mind mein tum logo ke mein aaya ki ishwari sauten jaisa behave kr rhi h...ohh, c'mon maa bete ka rishta ko aisa mat bolo...yes, she helped sonakshi today in kitchen not for herslef but for her son.
As a mother, she doesn't want to see her son get insulted by bua or any outsider just because of any sona's mistake.
Because sona koi bhi galti kregi, indirectly bua or bahar wale toh dev ki insult krenge ki kaisi biwi laya. U know how outsider, always wants to find some small mistake to say anything on marriage.
Isliye ishwari ne aisa kiya...wo apne bete ko insult hote nhi dekhna chahti.
Iss scene ko tumne dekh kr kha diya ki ishwari sauten jaisa behave kr rhi h...waah


please read my answer before doing copy paste.

N its not about log its about how ishawari dealing with situation to become self victim. its all about what ishwari like n dislike.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rahulvats12


She is not doing anything to impress her son.
pta nhi kaha SE mind mein tum logo ke mein aaya ki ishwari sauten jaisa behave kr rhi h...ohh, c'mon maa bete ka rishta ko aisa mat bolo...yes, she helped sonakshi today in kitchen not for herslef but for her son.
As a mother, she doesn't want to see her son get insulted by bua or any outsider just because of any sona's mistake.
Because sona koi bhi galti kregi, indirectly bua or bahar wale toh dev ki insult krenge ki kaisi biwi laya. U know how outsider, always wants to find some small mistake to say anything on marriage.
Isliye ishwari ne aisa kiya...wo apne bete ko insult hote nhi dekhna chahti.
Iss scene ko tumne dekh kr kha diya ki ishwari sauten jaisa behave kr rhi h...waah




Sorry to bust your bubble but ishwari has done nothing but behave like a souten from moment she discovered their relation! Ishwari does nothing that doesnt make her mahaan in Dev's and her family's eyes. I respect your POV. But no loving mother.. dhoke se apne hi bete ke sign leti hai and clause hai ki Sona will be nothing for Dev.. even their child will be nothing to Dev... which loving mother who claims to do all for bete ki khushi does that? When she clearly has seen Dev gone literally mad, getting drunk and lost at losing Sona!!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: vibg



Ha.. u have no idea what I have seen and lived! Ishwari is playing pure kitchen politics but with a smile and without the eerie background track.. thats the only difference.

There are all kinds of households. If they had to do this sas bahu competition, power of sasural thru rituals that are designed to humiliate bahus.. then how does it not make this show same as saas bahu types?
Ishwari is not helping sonakshi. This is same scenarios as halva begore. Ishwari at her manipulative best 👏 and no mother gets jealous of a wife in her son's life.. like Ishwari! Take sleeping pills cause the boy is getting married. Get anxiety attacks when son is with the girl. Spy on young lovers but not confeont the son. Which posessive mother not ask her son if he has a GF if she sees him with a girl? Instead act all jealous and competitive! It is unhealthy.

It looks like "kuch rang pyaar ke aise bhi" from ishwari POV 😆

First of all, she doesn't take pill because he loves anyone.
She was tensed because of sonakshi, her son has started to hide or started lying to her because of sona.And other things, she is possessive and insecure mother for which dev is favourite to her and also due to that, she fears to lose him, and because of sudden changes in dev's behavior, she started thinking that dev have changed and after marriage, he maybe more...and will never listen to her or may leave her. It's clearly seen she is insecure.
So, don't think that she is jealous. She only fear to lose him.
Other things, marriage mein Jo bhi hua...usme ishwari ki kiya galti thi. Sab galti bua ki or sonakshi ke family ki thi...they didn't think about thier ritual and arranged marriage in thier tradition.
Most important thing is that agar marriage agar Bengali tradition SE ho rha h...toh Saadi SE phle unhe ladke walo ko sab information dena chahiya tha ki unke custom mein banarsi saari or alta use hota h...agar phle hi inform kiye hote toh, Saadi ke samay ye sab drama nhi hota.
And u r saying that bua ji ko rokna chahiye the drama create krne SE...toh bua toh ishwari ki bhi baat nhi sunti...agar kuch bhi tradition SE nhi hota h toh, wo ishwari ko bhi sunati h...infact Sabhi ko sunati h agar tradition follow nhi krta h toh.
And about today kitchen scene, i explained u in my above post that she only do that for her son so that he didn't get insulted by bua or outsider. Infact, usne toh sonakshi ko mna bhi kiya tha ki nhi aane ke liye.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: vibg




Sorry to bust your bubble but ishwari has done nothing but behave like a souten from moment she discovered their relation! Ishwari does nothing that doesnt make her mahaan in Dev's and her family's eyes. I respect your POV. But no loving mother.. dhoke se apne hi bete ke sign leti hai and clause hai ki Sona will be nothing for Dev.. even their child will be nothing to Dev... which loving mother who claims to do all for bete ki khushi does that? When she clearly has seen Dev gone literally mad, getting drunk and lost at losing Sona!!!

I can agree that by taking sign, it will not going to help dev but only create problems.
But sauten, I can't accept and yes sign liya ,wo galat kiya but first time wo apni daughter ke liye Sochi.
And most important thing that it doesn't means if her son loves someone ,so she also have to love her...she accepted sona as a bahu but to love her or accept wholeheartedly, it will takes time.
Because sona is not her choice, so it will take time and when story will progress, slowly and slowly, she will accept her one day.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: SAPU


please read my answer before doing copy paste.

N its not about log its about how ishawari dealing with situation to become self victim. its all about what ishwari like n dislike.

One thing, I want to say that marriage mein Jo bhi hua sirf ishwari ki galat nhi thi... Sab galti bua ki or sonakshi ke family ki thi...they didn't think about thier ritual and arranged marriage in thier tradition.
Most important thing is that agar marriage agar Bengali tradition SE ho rha h...toh Saadi SE phle unhe ladke walo ko sab information dena chahiya tha ki unke custom mein banarsi saari or alta use hota h...agar phle hi inform kiye hote toh, Saadi ke samay ye sab drama nhi hota.
And u r saying that bua ji ko rokna chahiye the drama create krne SE...toh bua toh ishwari ki bhi baat nhi sunti...agar kuch bhi tradition SE nhi hota h toh, wo ishwari ko bhi sunati h...infact Sabhi ko sunati h agar tradition follow nhi krta h toh.
And about today kitchen scene, i explained u in my above post that she only do that for her son so that he didn't get insulted by bua or outsider. Infact, usne toh sonakshi ko mna bhi kiya tha ki nhi aane ke liye.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rahulvats12

One thing, I want to say that marriage mein Jo bhi hua sirf ishwari ki galat nhi thi... Sab galti bua ki or sonakshi ke family ki thi...they didn't think about thier ritual and arranged marriage in thier tradition.
Most important thing is that agar marriage agar Bengali tradition SE ho rha h...toh Saadi SE phle unhe ladke walo ko sab information dena chahiya tha ki unke custom mein banarsi saari or alta use hota h...agar phle hi inform kiye hote toh, Saadi ke samay ye sab drama nhi hota.
And u r saying that bua ji ko rokna chahiye the drama create krne SE...toh bua toh ishwari ki bhi baat nhi sunti...agar kuch bhi tradition SE nhi hota h toh, wo ishwari ko bhi sunati h...infact Sabhi ko sunati h agar tradition follow nhi krta h toh.
And about today kitchen scene, i explained u in my above post that she only do that for her son so that he didn't get insulted by bua or outsider. Infact, usne toh sonakshi ko mna bhi kiya tha ki nhi aane ke liye.


okiee..i agree ke sari galti ishwari ki nahi thi but u cannt say k sari galti dadi bua aur Boss ki thi. Ishwari ko pata tha ki unke ghar me sab vegetarian khayege aur jaha Nonveg hoga vaha nahi khayege. to usne kyu yeh baat nahi batayi pehle.
Aur just coz Woh ladki wale hai isliye unhe sab information deni chahiye. Shadi to Sona ki ho rahi hai Dev ki thodi .henaa? So sari responsibility Boss ki hogi Ishawri thodi kuch bolegi k apne bete ki saadi thikh se ho.
N abou buaji...ishwari ko to pata hoga na ki woh kesi hai aur unhe kya chahiye to fir kyu nahi us trah se arrange kiya. aur woh sab to chodo saadi ho jane ke baat to Sona ko inform karna chahiye tha na ki kya kya tradition hote hai aur kya karna hai? bas victim banke bethna hai ki me kya karu yeh to bete ki pasand hai. Tab yaad nahi aaya bete ki izzat aur choice ke bare me. Thats called hypocrisy and double standard.

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