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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: dlavanya



Exactly.. especially since Dadi bua and pretty much everyone in the house already knows that Sona cant cook.
After eating the delicious meal, i hope dadi bua doesnt ask Sona to cook for her every meal until she goes back to kanpur 🤣


with dadi bua i would not be surprised if this happens..,sona in kitchen wtith her pallu tucked in her waist and google baba on her phone😆😆

sona should simply serve her salads and fresh juice and explain the importance of fresh fruits and veggies to dadi bua forcing her to change her eating habit before she leaves for kanpur😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sun29


with dadi bua i would not be surprised if this happens..,sona in kitchen wtith her pallu tucked in her waist and google baba on her phone😆😆

sona should simply serve her salads and fresh juice and explain the importance of fresh fruits and veggies to dadi bua forcing her to change her eating habit before she leaves for kanpur😆


lol true... Sona should stop this chamchagiri and start Nutritiongiri on Dadi bua...
Along with this also should take some private lessons on self respect diginity lessons to Dadi bua's bahu -- fir kanpur jaake maza hi maza dadi bua ka
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: dlavanya

I had hoped sona would just make a simple sev ka kheer and served as pehli rasoi instead of letting Ishwari cook everything and lying to bua that sona cooked it all... i would have loved that ... but kya kare .. they want to show drama...

I hope this Bua returns by end of this week...

Yes.. And Sona had mentioned that she will try whatever she can. So what if she refers to google... As long as she doesn't alter the recipe she could have still tried it... 😉

Even in that they could have showed Sona's drama😆... No it had to be Ishu's drama...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sun29


exactly..this would have been really heartfelt and good to watch plus some positivity instead of this whole forced drama the end result of which is the same..even more humiliation of sona

there is no compulsion the girl has to cook a feast for pehli rasoi..usually it is a sweet dish she makes and serves to everyone...don't know why they have to make this whole drama so tasteless and tacky...

Isn't Sona new to this house as a bahu? Why isn't any of Dev's sisters curious and interested to know what's happening around the house after all a wedding function just got over?. Why is this house looking so deserted only with Ishu, the new entries and Sona??... Radharani anyway invisible to me... 😆 All the sisters can barge into the kitchen making a bigger drama out of all this? Why isn't CV thinking of that kind of drama?! 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: dlavanya



Exactly.. especially since Dadi bua and pretty much everyone in the house already knows that Sona cant cook.
After eating the delicious meal, i hope dadi bua doesnt ask Sona to cook for her every meal until she goes back to kanpur 🤣

Exactly what I want to happen too... Let her try her own hands at it...👏 And impress the guest or chase them away, that's upto her own smartness... 😆


I don't know about this rasam... This must be a way to check the interest of the new girl entering the house... Or to show her what the skill is all about.. Taking some help and trying it out isn't gonna harm anyone... If it interests she will continue or else she'll manage to find other ways around it.. Why make a big deal about it calling for kitchen politics from day one!!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shilky88

I agree with your thoughts on following rituals and traditions.👏👍🏼

Unfortunately these ladies have poor understanding of Rituals.They just crammed a rule book on rituals which they believe are nothing but an act of blind faith.😡
They miss the obvious fact that these rituals are designed to strengthen a relationship in pure harmony.Rituals are not designed to degrade anything or putting someone on shame or blame due to his/her lack of understanding/awareness of these traditions.
It make no sense to follow any tradition unless your intention is pure and sincere.
Dadi bua ,GKB and Ishwari are just making fun of their rituals with their evil intentions.
I would rather prefer being ignorant than making fun of anything.

Also I am totally against following something blindly and mercilessly ,be it traditions,rituals or a religion.There is something more than that like love and humanity.
You really cannot put relationships at stake in the name of rituals.

Traditions are a means to please and and pay tribute to our older people. They are never meant to degrade younger people.

what the point of following all these rituals if your way of following them is being a hard-liner and demeaning someone?

Sadly, This is a fanatic cruelty and nothing else.

👏 Very well said...

No ritual should be forced upon if they themselves don't understand the need for it... What would be this ritual be all about? I have just tried my attempt in my earlier comment... It could be a way to showcase the girl's skills what she has learnt from her home.. Or to get adapted to the new kitchen.. Or to get an idea about how and what sells in the new home... All of this if the girl is already aware of this skill.. If not, then this could be a way to introduce her to this new role... A way to guide her through the new system... Could be a way to connect with the people in the house... Not to be ridiculed definitely...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sun29


with dadi bua i would not be surprised if this happens..,sona in kitchen wtith her pallu tucked in her waist and google baba on her phone😆😆

sona should simply serve her salads and fresh juice and explain the importance of fresh fruits and veggies to dadi bua forcing her to change her eating habit before she leaves for kanpur😆

Exactly... They wanted drama right... They could have made this whole drama all about Sona... Why make all drama revolve around Ishu... The makers are so obsessed with Ishwari... 😆

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