Originally posted by: desigirl987
Thats a beautiful write up Deepa , loved it !!! Agree to most of the points . Varmala was really magical !!! Two people madly in love with each other , after a long journey of pain n heart break, they were going to unite that day , they dreamed of this day , and it was finally happening , that happiness and content on their face was just infectious , my favorite moment of the ME !!!Thank you 🤗 Absolutely !! The most irresistible part of the episode is the Varmala sequence. Both Dev and Sona lived that present moment with pure joy ignoring anything about the past or future and that was such a delight to watch.Regrading lehenga issue I am not fully convinced !!! Yes Ishwari should have communicated clearly , but this is not an arrange marriage , nor a love marriage in which bride is not very close to groom's family. Because of Neha's marriage she is well aware of all the customs ,and the importance of wearing wedding dress gifted by groom's family ! If you remember how she convinced Dev that he was wrong by agreeing to Neha , she told him " you cannot just say the grooms family you respect them , but can only show by ur gestures , and wearing the wedding dress is that gesture " , then her "apna lagogi" speech was very convincing not only to Neha but for Dev too , that he bought something special for her to wear on that day, so that he would feel like she belonged to him , so Sona really knows how much that gesture means to Dev . Even if she had forgotten, our impatient Dev's video call, in the previous day, should have reminded her . He was so eager to see her in the attire , and was requesting her to dress up ( That was a bold move from Dev😉, and his words "its only for ur own good , if I got excited and did something in front of every one when I see you for the first time , dont complaint". Ohhh How much that got me excited , I expected at least a compliment for Sona in secret , during the ceremony , but they hardly talked 😭 ) He also told her , "Mom is also not revealing anything , said its a surprise " which clearly indicated he and his mom thought she would be wearing the one gifted by Ishwari !! So forget about oblivious to customs , she would have worn it for Dev if not as gesture of respect to grooms family, her own words !!!Frankly the legenga issue was clearly messed up by the CVs with unclear hidden messages left to the interpretation of the viewers. The whole issue was handed in a way to put bad light on Sona and make Dixit clan Mahaans for understanding😆.. That single scene can be debated many number of ways. Thats the reason I said Sona is at fault too but not entirely. For e.g.,Dev was impatient to see her in her bridal form just like during Neha's wedding but wasn't clear about seeing in their legenga. He said Mom got a surprise but not a hint about what it was..It could be many different things for Sona to guess it. Also while giving the Shagun, Ishwari could have hinted "I can't wait to see my Son's smile when he sees you in this legenga". Am sure Sona would have gone all out to wear that if she even had a minimum hint. And I guess that legenga's chunni is the one Dev should have placed on Sona after the "Sindhoor ceremony" which was unfortunately again rushed up to clearly view😳Yes it will be disappointing when we all expect one thing and the other happens, but I like to think that Dev and Sona have moved ahead of "apna lagogi" stage as she and her soul is already his let alone any pricey legengas😉😆Yes whats Vicky's real intention , anyway I dont really trust this guy 😉 . Such an obnoxious creep 😉 !! Elena is better off him , but that would be shock of her life for GKB 😉Every creep has a end date and am waiting to see when his pitai starts much to the shock of his mother either or not in the hands of Elena😆Kanyadaan - I loved Bijoy's words , he would have expected just a reassurance from Dev. But there a debate session started , I was wondering who would do a heated discussion than a "presidential debate " during a ceremony, 😆 . Dev was more brave in front of the camera it seems , he promised he would keep Sona happy always to the camera man during photo shoot ( hope you watched Sony 's lovely videos during DevAkshi wedding ) .Yes before he opens his mouth, the debate have started and he smartly decided to keep shut and just concentrate on taking the bride home soon😆Saw those lovely videos 😳 Sony really went all out for this wedding.!Veg-Non Veg drama , Fish fiasco , could have tolerated all this if there were enough DevAkshi moments to make up for it . TBH I was exhausted , and was relieved just like DevAkshi that finally its over , after the ME , At the end of the day they are married yaaayyy !!!Part of the promotion and spoilers are to blame for the high expectations the CVs had set among the forum members. I am really curious to know the general audience opinion about this ME who had no idea about the future tracks and segments😳 If they liked it, then CVs have passed the TRP test but if not, they clearly messed up big time😆 Lets wait and watch😉Thank you again for this wonderful write up, and bringing in the much needed positivity here !!!
You are very welcome and thanks for your honest feedback 🤗