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DarKnight123

@DarKnight123

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Posted: 8 years ago

I usually don't post on here just read what others think but lately I haven't been happy with what I have been reading.

This is just my opinion...

Many people bashing Dev for not doing anything and letting his mom go talk to Bose family.

1 - We all know Dev is clue less at times but if you notice one thing throughout the show so far is that he is the one to make most mistakes and one to apologise the most. So I am sure he will apologise for what he did.

2 - How do people know he won't apologise to Sona and the Bose family before marriage or even after the marriage. Like say a situation comes where he has to choose between his mother and Sona again after marriage and he chooses Sonas side?

3 - Sonas main issue with Dev was that he chose his mother and threw Sona away like she meant nothing. Sona knew he did this because of his mom and Sona told Ishwari this in one of the episodes where she is like you might have won but your son lost. Sona knew Dev didn't want to do what he did but he did because of his mother. If Ishwari convinces Sona for marriage means Sonas main issue which was Devs mother not Dev is solved.

4 - It will only take one chat between Sona and Dev for Dev to say the right words and make Sona believe that he won't do what he did again. Does that mean he will or won't do it again?

Yes, watching Dev trying to convince and ask for forgiveness from Bose family and Sona would have been fun to watch but they might still show this before or after marriage. But just because a show doesn't go the way you want it to doesn't mean you hate the show for it. The show is still showing what it promised. Mother coming between Son and his wife love.

That's just my opinion. Let me know what you guys think. Sorry that this is so long and all In English.

Edited by DarKnight123 - 8 years ago

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@404_NotFound

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Posted: 8 years ago

Very sensible post ..

Agtee with what you said and I would like to add one more point .

Dev silence is because he doesn't want to pester her when she had clearly said NO to his marriage proposal .He doesn't want to stalk her like he did before .He wants to give her space and maybe he is waiting for one signal from Sona that she is still interested in marrying him .He is not sure whether she is disinterested in their relationship or is angry on him .He is human after all ..he will have his own doubts ,insecurities .

I think tomorrow there is one scene where Dev will visit Bose family and after talking to him she will be convinced. There was segment where we saw Dev going out with Sona .

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DarKnight123

@DarKnight123

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: yyy
Very sensible post ..
Agtee with what you said and I would like to add one more point .

Dev silence is because he doesn't want to pester her when she had clearly said NO to his marriage proposal .He doesn't want to stalk her like he did before .He wants to give her space and maybe he is waiting for one signal from Sona that she is still interested in marrying him .He is not sure whether she is disinterested in their relationship or is angry on him .He is human after all ..he will have his own doubts ,insecurities .

I think tomorrow there is one scene where Dev will visit Bose family and after talking to him she will be convinced. There was segment where we saw Dev going out with Sona .

Yes...Another point, Dev didn't do what he did intetonally like breaking up with Sona (Mother made him do this against his will)

And he was drunk and fell unconscious at Sonas engagement. Yes it's still his mistakes but if you compare to Sona, she decided to move on from Dev, invited Dev to her engagement when no one except Dev told her to and Sona also chose to drop Dev home while leaving her engagement. Again, on her own. No one made her do any of these.

Also, unlike Sona Dev literally has no one to talk to or someone who can send him in the right direction.

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: DarKnight123

Yes...Another point, Dev didn't do what he did intetonally like breaking up with Sona (Mother made him do this against his will)
And he was drunk and fell unconscious at Sonas engagement. Yes it's still his mistakes but if you compare to Sona, she decided to move on from Dev, invited Dev to her engagement when no one except Dev told her to and Sona also chose to drop Dev home while leaving her engagement. Again, on her own. No one made her do any of these.

Also, unlike Sona Dev literally has no one to talk to or someone who can send him in the right direction.

The circumstances forced Dev to breakup with Sona.Seeing his mother on the death bed he lost his senses and did what he thought would fix problems.

Just like Dev even Sona will not marry without her parents approval.Yes it was Sona''s decision to move on when she was not ready .It was her call when she decided to invite him and later went to drop him home .She cannot hold anyone responsible for this .

If you think in a way things have changed ..Sona is in Dev's position where she has to balance her Baba and Dev.I think this will make her realise Dev''s dilemma .

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easyandbusy

@easyandbusy

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Posted: 8 years ago

Yesss well said !! Love it !!!
I am not in for bringing my partner to knees for a mistake he has made -- coz I love him and can forgive him zillion times !!!!

Sona may be angry but because of her suffering but bottom line is she loves dev and can't see him in pain and would not have any joy seeing him on his knees !!!

Thanks mate :) I feel lighter after reading ur post .

I will be annoyed if they drag this any longer I think they should quickly kiss and make up now Bahut ho Gaya :) 😛

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libran13

@libran13

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Posted: 8 years ago

Well said my friend. 😊

I have been reading a lot of negative comments on the show based on a few spoiler scenes from segments.

What amazed me is that the viewers have decided that the show has lost its charm and that it is progressing way too soon and so on.

GUYS FIRST LET THE EPISODE AIR.

First let the makers commit a mistake before blaming them for it.

Yes we know the patch up is coming up soon. But before we assume and blame Sona for easily giving in to Dev again, let us at the least wait and watch the reason behind her going back to Dev. I am sure the CV's will show us some justification. So far they haven't disappointed us.

And regarding the scenes shown in the segments. It looked like they were shooting many scenes with different clothes. This could mean that it might be aired later. I still remember watching a set of segments from this show which was eventually aired only a week later.

So guys have some patience and please stop jumping the gun.

So far the CV's have done a good job in entertaining us with an amazing show for the past 6 months. So have some faith in them.

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libran13

@libran13

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: easyandbusy
Yesss well said !! Love it !!!
I am not in for bringing my partner to knees for a mistake he has made -- coz I love him and can forgive him zillion times !!!!

Sona may be angry but because of her suffering but bottom line is she loves dev and can't see him in pain and would not have any joy seeing him on his knees !!!

Thanks mate :) I feel lighter after reading ur post .

I will be annoyed if they drag this any longer I think they should quickly kiss and make up now Bahut ho Gaya :) 😛

Exactly. The main reason i like this show is because of its pace. They try moving ahead with each story line rather than drag it.

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Silambu

@Silambu

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Posted: 8 years ago

A much needed post for the forum. It makes lots of sense. We need to be patient .

At times reading too many posts , spoilers sort of confuses one's mindset and then realize if they show all the things we want, show will go off air too soon and they need to make the necessary twist and turn.

Aside from this, again I am asking this question to myself why would such a brilliant team of creatives would want to make Dev a very complex character to understand...there must be a reason behind this...or our expectations are just too high? He just doesn't do the thingsthe way we want..and the reason is simple...he is just a human being. Not a perfect guy but with many flaws! A real man who we can easily identify with ...

Bottom line is I just love this show...cant stay away from it.

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amaypranay

@amaypranay

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Posted: 8 years ago

Thank you for this post!!!

Much needed... All I'm saying is let's wait and watch!

I'm sure Dev will make amends.. Give him a break guys...

I see Ishwari using a lot of her agenda to bring Sona back into Dev's life.. But the irony is that Dev and Sona need no one but themselves to understand each other's love!

One eg: Ishwari intentionally arranges Sona's marriage... When she was seperating them, Dev unintentionally breaks the engagement ... So as I said Ishawi can do what ever she wants.. Dev and Sona are two steps ahead 👏 let's see what happens in their patch up as well!

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Mana90

@Manasi90

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: DarKnight123
I usually don't post on here just read what others think but lately I haven't been happy with what I have been reading.
This is just my opinion...

Many people bashing Dev for not doing anything and letting his mom go talk to Bose family.

1 - We all know Dev is clue less at times but if you notice one thing throughout the show so far is that he is the one to make most mistakes and one to apologise the most. So I am sure he will apologise for what he did.

2 - How do people know he won't apologise to Sona and the Bose family before marriage or even after the marriage. Like say a situation comes where he has to choose between his mother and Sona again after marriage and he chooses Sonas side?

3 - Sonas main issue with Dev was that he chose his mother and threw Sona away like she meant nothing. Sonas knew he did this because of his mom and Sona told Ishwari this in one of the episodes where she is like you might have won but your son lost. Sonas knew Dev didn't want to do what he did but he did because of his mother. If Ishwari convinces Sona for marriage means Sonas main issue which his mother not Dev is solved.

4 - It will only take one chat between Sona and Dev for Dev to say the right words and make Sona believe that he won't do what he did again. Does that mean he will or won't do it again?

Yes, watching Dev trying to convince and ask for forgiveness from Bose family and Sona would have been fun to watch but they might still show thisome before or after marriage. But just because a show doesn't go the way you want it to doesn't mean you hate the show for it. The show is still showing what it promised. Mother coming between Son and his wife love.

That's just my opinion. Let me know what you guys think. Sorry that this is so long and all In English.

That's what is the core about this show. Dev who considers his mother above everything thinks he understands the unsaid of his mother's but at the same time a passionate lover accepts the words of his lover literally and accepts them. Ishwari didn't say anything but expressed clearly that she is not happy with their relation but still he says she didn't say anything. On the other hand, Sonakshi says You and I are over, I don't wanna marry you but her actions portray the opposite and he accepts it just coz she says it loudly.

It's all about unsaid things ..

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