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Posted: 9 years ago
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Such a different post.. being a malayalee I am not facing the problem because my mil doesnt know hindi and not interested to watch at all.. but whenever i am in my home I usually yranslate it for my mother and she is really liking it.. but one thing I should admit is that there are many many traces of dev in my husband, definitely some possessiveness of ishwari in my MIl( thank god not that extreme) and a sonakshi strongly lives in me also... so yes the show is very much emotionally connected with our lives..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: dikshat



To start with..I am still very much single and no Dev in my life yet and so no Ishu too 😆

Secondly, I have the same views which u shared here..and I had same explanations to give to my colleagues. I too watch this show with my family..and they know 9.30 - 10 is strict pin drop silence as I need to listen to That background music also without disturbance 😆
We watch , we discuss..we do it all.

I also agree that off late wenever I discussed the same things wid my relatives even they shared how they felt insecure wen their sons got married and accepted to the fact that they were immature in lot of things they did.

But yesterday's conversation was another kinda story..
I was left with my mouth open wen one of them even went out to say that ur a girl from Delhi and in city people are free and open to discuss and accept these things but "humare yaha" people dnt talk abt it in open. Jaisa hai waise chalne do..

I actually could not derive any connection between what was being discussed and frm where did this delhi and big city thing came in between...and so precisely I thought of brining this topic here.

There's always another side of things..strangely for me this other side came at a place where I thought people who come are independent and express their opinions freely.


Sorry if I have affended. I know there is lot of problem in North India compare to south. South Indians considerably better when it comes to daughter and DIL. Not much discrimination among gender. So it was purely my and family view.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thankfully,mine is a nuclear family...husshh...

but my mil is really cool...unhe to Dev naam hi bahut achha lagta hai...😆
whoever is having a nuclear family is watching this serial, that's wat i have observed .
My sis in law dont watch this show as she thinks one cant watch it wid family...though her daughters(both college gng) like this serial but watch it online...dey use to call me ki "maami ,mummy ko samjhao"..
my sis dont watch it as she says beton ke samne aisa serial (elder one college gng)& also according to her unki mil is no less than Ishwari😆 and says writers humein stalk kar rahe they kya ...meri sis hi mere liye SBS hai.😆
others have dinner time prob.
saare i think 17th century mein rah rahe hain


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pramila.harish



Sorry if I have affended. I know there is lot of problem in North India compare to south. South Indians considerably better when it comes to daughter and DIL. Not much discrimination among gender. So it was purely my and family view.



No dear m not at all offended.Dont worry..we are here for discussions and so all point of views shud b discussed without being partial towards one.
And yes, though I wudnt want to compare bt things like this we have to and so I agree that problem of this sought is acute and more prevalent in North.
By doing this, for once I want to concentrate on the better part and applaud for the one's who put themselves and their sons and daughters and daughter -in-law in better position
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ammuty

Such a different post.. being a malayalee I am not facing the problem because my mil doesnt know hindi and not interested to watch at all.. but whenever i am in my home I usually yranslate it for my mother and she is really liking it.. but one thing I should admit is that there are many many traces of dev in my husband, definitely some possessiveness of ishwari in my MIl( thank god not that extreme) and a sonakshi strongly lives in me also... so yes the show is very much emotionally connected with our lives..



I am not in this situation but Looking at the ones around me who ate ..I already feel so connected to each one of them
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: srilotus

Thankfully,mine is a nuclear family...husshh...

but my mil is really cool...unhe to Dev naam hi bahut achha lagta hai...😆
whoever is having a nuclear family is watching this serial, that's wat i have observed .
My sis in law dont watch this show as she thinks one cant watch it wid family...though her daughters(both college gng) like this serial but watch it online...dey use to call me ki "maami ,mummy ko samjhao"..
my sis dont watch it as she says beton ke samne aisa serial (elder one college gng)& also according to her unki mil is no less than Ishwari😆 and says writers humein stalk kar rahe they kya ...meri sis hi mere liye SBS hai.😆
others have dinner time prob.
saare i think 17th century mein rah rahe hain





My sis actually said the same..she was like..ye writers k khud k saath pakka ye sab asal life mein hua hai tabhi ye typical instance (like the halwa scene) chun chun k dikha rahe hai.. 😆 😆

Sadly many are living in 21st century with regressive thoughts ..unable to digest reality
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Its also about not wanting to damage a delicate relationship. May be by watching the show certain deep wounds are made fresh. May be in many homes the possessiveness is sorted hence dont want to mess anything. Some homes serial is not connecting because they have not faced anything like this so lost if such things are possible.
Like I am unable to take Ishwari's creepy behaviour, or Sonakshi's engagement fiasco, or Dev being so confused and spineless so I stopped watching till some progress.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: OmNaMaSteOm

Its also about not wanting to damage a delicate relationship. May be by watching the show certain deep wounds are made fresh. May be in many homes the possessiveness is sorted hence dont want to mess anything. Some homes serial is not connecting because they have not faced anything like this so lost if such things are possible.

Like I am unable to take Ishwari's creepy behaviour, or Sonakshi's engagement fiasco, or Dev being so confused and spineless so I stopped watching till some progress.



Hmm... I remember my mom telling me the same..how certain situations reminded her of her times.. She added..things changed wen you kids in the family grew up and started questioning certain behaviour which many daughter in law especially in her times could not
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: dikshat

So yesterday it was last lunch of the week before weekend with friends at office. Our random usual discussions took a route and we landed up in discussing about our favourite show Kuch Rang Pyar Ke Aise Bhi.

We spoke a lot about the casts acting talent, the deep rooted emotions..

And then came a topic I thought I wanted to discuss here with you all. While discussing about the show, we reached a point, where many around me spoke how true this show is in the actual scenarios around us with almost everyone sharing one similar instance they faced in their life which was shown in the show too.

And then it was time to face the truth. Amongst all our discussions, almost everyone had one more thing common. And what was that?

We don't watch the show at its actual telecast time...hello? But why?

If you love the show then why not watch it @9.30pm, its actual telecast time.
Ahhh...coz 9.30 is usually dinner time and everyone in the family is together. So?? Is there anything being shown that a family cannot watch together.

Tap came the replies..

1. Nahi wo baat nahi hai...bt my Mother-in-law is also there, unke saath mein aisa sab nahi dekh sakte...aisa sab to khud ke saath hota hi hai ghar mein. She'll get more ideas..

2. When my mum-in-law watches, she justifies and empathises with Ishwari And I can't take it and I can't justify Sonakshi in front of her. Why to take sides when I know who is wrong? Isliye wo alag se dekhti hai aur main alag se.

3. I can't take out my frustration in front of my husband and my MIL. These scenes remind me of my story and so I can vent out my emotions watching it alone..

4. My husband is also there..after so many years of our marriage, he's improved a little. Else he was also Just like Dev. Better he doesn't watch this again. So whatever they show, better to watch alone...

5. Even if we watch it together, it has happened 2-3 times that there comes a scene where they speak things that It reminded us of a similar scene that happened to us in real and it made the situation very awkward...I could feel my Mom-in-law was thinking the same and so we had to deviate our attention to something else for those 2 minutes.

6. In continuation to 5...Exactly, when u have to skip all important parts in front of others, what's the use watching it together. So I watch it alone when it comes on repeat.

These answers were not surprising and again took me to the same question...where are we going as a society?

It's sad to see how we all Are very much ready to see all kind of regressive things being shown on television which are far from reality together but we are not ok to watch the reality and question ourselves or others of similar things going on in our own lives.

Do we have a part of Ishwari, Dev and Sonakshi in us? A side which we are not ready fo accept in open? A reality we are not ready to face in open?? Are we running from reality?
Or is it that we are tired of reality and want to watch something which doesn't show us the mirror?





Nice post Dikshat! I think there are so many families where MIL and DIL relation is not so cordial and loving,both of them always try to find a way to create problems even in small issues and it becomes very difficult to manage both the relations for a husband/son.I have actually seen all these things happening in my 3-4 friends home.I am really lucky to have a very understanding MIL and husband and I must say he balances both the relations very well.If my MIL is wrong some where he will say it and she also listens and try to understand the situation not like creating a big scene at home!What I am trying to say is everyone's upbringing is different and mother plays a very important part in it.Recently my parents were at my place and we all used to watch the show together,my mother was so annoyed because of Ishwari's behavior and said 'she got married and gave birth to 4-4 children and doesn't want her son to get married!😆 I asked her 'Do these kind of women really exist in our society so she said yes very much as mothers feels very insecure when son gets married but here Ishwari is an extreme case because of her past.

I am really happy that this show is showing mirror to the society,so may people feels connected to it ,see themselves in Ishwari ,Dev,Sonakshi and their journey will definitely help in making a good bond between MIL/DIL ,husband/wife and son/mother.😊

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