The Battle where everyone is losing!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Today's episode was like a subtle battlefield, where everyone is losing!!

Dev has already given up.
Ishwari wants to win the battle, of getting back the prince's happiness ar all costs. In the process, she is losing, Can you imagine Ishwari actually took so much of insult by Bose Family with such serenity. Unbelievable, but that is how a mother is. Once she decides to do something for her child, she goes all out.
Obviously, will a son want her to go all out? No! No child in this world would want to see his parents lowering their heads down, for them.
Dev's refusal to Ishwari is so understandable.
They edited out the 'atmasamman' dialogue for the good. Now, his giving up is primarily for two reasons,
One he does not want Ishwari, his god's head to be lowered for him.
Two, Sona clearly said she doesn't want to go ahead with the relationship. Either he respects her decision and wants to give her the space, accepting his defeat that the damage he has done is irreparable. Or He knows Ishwari's coaxing won't convince Sonakshi, because he knows that the rift is because of Dev's decision and not Ishwari being the driving force about the breakup.

I am good with either of them😃😆

Bijoy is losing out on her own child's happiness. Did he see Sonakshi's face when he insulted Ishwari? Hope he realises this soon, and tones down his demeaning language. Glad Asha stopped her on the sharabi word,

Sonakshi is the one who is losing the most. In the battle of pride and Families, she is losing her love. She knows he loves her, she loves her too. Ishwari has agreed. But, she wont marry him because her family is hurt. That is it.
She feels guilty of hurting her parents, of letting them down.
She trusts Dev even now, she did earlier too. Blind faith, But that faith wasn't enough to assure her parents who were proved right, Even now, that faith isn't enough to reinstate her parent's pride and happiness.
So she also decides to give up.
I am so happy Sona is clear about Ishwari. Still is respectful for her. .and stops Dada and Elena to bad-mouth her. Also, she knows the problem is between Dev and her!👏

BTW, now we know from where does Dev get this 'I can wait till infinity till I meet you' trait from😆 Like Mother, Like Son😆

Ishwari needs to know that all decisions are not irreversible, the damage she has done can't be repaired without deformity in the piece. She can't control everything.
'Sath hone ka faisla tum logo ne kiya, alag hone ka faisla bhi tum log karoge?'

Yes, Ishwari it is only Dev Sona who can mend this bridge broken by egos, broken hearts are not mended so easily. Unless Dev-Sona talk it out, focusing away from their families, they can't get back together.

In this battle, the prince and princess have resigned, waved the white flag, but the army behind them is fighting. .


P.S A big thank you to those who take out the time to read and comment on my posts everyday! I apologize for not being able to comment to each one of individually sometimes. What to do, these days I am stuck with college work. But I read your amazing insights, every single one of them, I will dig out my posts from the week, this weekend😃🤗
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Posted: 8 years ago
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That's so true...everyone is losing...But the irony is they are still trying to win the losing battle in their respective ways...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I havent seen the episode..but I was so unexcited for it and now after reading update I am so freaking irritated 😡😡

Though I like you post as always..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Very aptly said, Ishwari is trying to win a lost battle whereas Sona and Dev are already lost.
I really want Dev to take some step regarding this situation. As you mentioned either he has respect for Sona's decision or is giving time. Whatever the scenario is he should introspect and do something. Honestly what Ishwari is doing right now is a kind of emotional atyachar on Sonakshi. But she will not rest until she has won the battle. Like mother like son.
In all this Dev's role should not be sidelined. I really want him to think, introspect and try to win his lost love and trust. Instead of Ishwari he should be on the front foot to get Sona's love n trust back.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Its the battle of broken hearts , the battle of sore insults
All of the just going into battle blindly .
I wish there could just be one person to suggest that Dev and Sona must talk see what they both want because now it's about Dev once again pleasing his mother first while Sona have to tag along .
The families now not realizing their losing the essence of their kids happiness
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Bang on ! Agree with you...They all are losing the battle..
But one thing which hurted me was that Dev didn't even try i mean its only dev who can convince sona. He has to do something to win her trust, her respect.. May be he is still not realizing as to why sona refused to marry him, now that his mom has agreed. Today he asked sona 'Maa itna keh rahi hai toh tum kyu shaadi nai karna chahti?' to which sona said that she has told him the reason many times.
Dev take that first step.. I don't want Ishwari to convince sona.
Sona ko mana lo pehle because sasurji ko mana na is not gonna be easy for you Dev 😆 😆 Bijoy ki tape ab tak sharaabi (He called him drunkard twice today) pe hi atki hai 😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Episode was normal, predictable & thanks to SBS segments. We didn't get to see anything new today. Just an elongated segment!

Ishwari went to beg & she was shown the door. But she's very stubborn. By hook or crook she'll get what she wants & we've already seen that streak in her. I felt she genuinely wanted to give her son's happiness back. Whereas the promo showed something completely different. Surprise us makers. I'm not gonna think too much about this new promo. It's always the opposite that we get..

Bijoy has every right to be angry. But his anger was little too OTT. By insulting Dev, he was insulting his daughter's choice as well. He was insulting his daughter's love & who knows his future son-in-law as well. He needs to remember that this Sharabi once saved his daughters life as well... But yes, Ishwari deserved to hear all of this. She was the root cause of all the problems. You reap what you sow!

Sona is in a complete mess. She loves Dev very much, she can't deny that. She says something but her face gives out the opposite expressions. She's thinking about her parents & she's rejecting Dev now. She still isn't thinking about herself. Asha understood that she's making another blunder by rejecting Dev & approaches her but yet again she says no to her. How long is she gonna fool herself?

Dev was a little surprised when he got to know that Ish had gone to Sona's house. But he didn't feel like she was losing her dignity or anything...He was happy that his mother tried something for him. It's like he wanted to give her a chance to mend things the way she wanted to & he was okay with.

I feel as if Dev is tired now. In this cat & mouse chase. And like you mentioned, it is only Dev who can mend things now. Just go to her parents & apologize for every mistake that you've done & try to win her heart back. And I hope that you both have a sane conversation with each other in the future...

And as a viewer I'm tired too.
Edited by Buzzinnn... - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Everyone is losing bcoz the person who is responsible is still hiding behind the pallu of his mother. It was dev and only dev who spoilt everything and again he is putting his mother in front. He should have asked Ish to leave it to him to redeem his love.
A simple sentence that "maa has agreed for our marriage" is so humiliating for a girl as if he had no say even now. What a puppet ????😆😆😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev mother will bring his happiness.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am very very angry ..trust me ..koi samne aayega toh peet doon itni gussa aa raha hai😆

After watching promo..I am relating everything with it now..

Though I am trying to think rationally and sensibly..

Dev said ..Sona doesnt want to marry him so Ishwari madam ne socha oh no ..now I have to go and get his happiness..because she cant see him sad..like how a kid demands for something and mothr go to any lengths to get him that..now thats what is happening ..Its just about Ishwari trying to mend her guilt ..thats it ..how true the promo lines are ..Ishwari is making Dev crippled..she thinks bete ki khushi ke liye kisi bhi hadh tak she will go and will again get the same place in his eyes and life which she wants..how easy ..thats her ego ..bas she cant even feel their love ..its just that she cant see Dev suffering and thats why she is doing all this..

I am sorry ..but her getting insulted and listening everything quietly at Sona's house will make her realize atleast ..how it feels when u get rejected ..she needs it..its not about her son's happiness its about Sonakshi's happiness life and wishes too..I liked how subtly and respectfully Sona declined her ..she knows she is elder to her and cant be rude to her..

Where is Dev in this love story 😊 ..it looked more like Sona Ish love story..wow.."ek baar na bola hai toh agli bhi na bola zaroori nahi "..itna effort and itna Dev ne socha hota then ..probably Sona maan gayi hoti by now..but unfortunately..Dev is in silent mode..Dev and Sonakshi are freaking adults can they sit and talk ..or barging in to his office and shouting on him he standing listening..is this the only kinda conversations are left for them..UGHH

He said Ishwari came to convince toh why she is not agreeing for marriage..Really Dev??..thats it ..amazing..You dont move your ass or no do any effort to get her back in your life and u expect ki aap ki mtaji gayi and Sona ko le aayengi aapke liye

Well I m completely in support of Sona..let her say now and Dev needs to see ..its him who needs to make effort say "Sorry" from bottom of his heart ..and give her time and not pressurize her and also make his pujya mtaji understand..Sona is not her puppet..so dont expect her to dance on her tunes HMPHH

Oh I forgot to add one thing..it was lil upsetting to see Bijoy constantly calling Dev sharabi..it was hurting Sona too..sighh

Sorry for this rude rant ..I am quite displeased with this current situation of OVER INTERFERING Ishwari 😡


Edited by sjain - 8 years ago

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