Originally posted by: Malvika07
WORD. This is exactly what I'm saying latha. Dev took out his resentment on Ishwari whilst drunk. He drove the point home and now Ishwari will take steps to correct her mistakes. But it is necessary to have a sober conversation about their issues. Everytime there is a problem, we can't expect Dev to take refuge in alcohol to vent out his feelings. That's just wrong.Honestly speaking i never liked their OTT melodrama separation track and i was able to watch this track only because of the outstanding performances of Shaheer & Erica. Thank god this crap fest is over. Coming to the point, Sona is not any furniture or window curtain or bed sheet at Dixit's house which this mom-son duo can keep it when they like it or throw it when they doesn't like it. It cant be always about their happiness or their guilt.For Ishwari to understand the depth of Dev-Sona love, First Dev need to take stand & acknowledge his love before every one with respect. If Sona doesn't respect her value & her family before Dev then she cant expect the same from Dev. In the similar way, If Dev doesn't respect his love & their relation before every one including his GOD then he or us cant expect the same from others.I have been saying this from day one. If it wasn't for Shaheer, we wouldn't keep overlooking every blunder Dev makes. Some things even Shaheer can't salvage. My heart completely and utterly broke for Sona yesterday. I'm not saying she's not at fault. But I feel so so sorry for the state she's in. Feel equally bad for Ritwik.What she went through is heart wrenching but i believe in taking responsibility of our own actions and changing our destiny instead of playing victim card or looking for excuses to blame others. If Dev did a mistake with impulsive forced break-up then she did bigger mistake by jumping in to other relation without even gathering herself. One took decision out of guilt and other took decision out of anger.Coming to R & Natasha, Both are catalysts in Dev-Sona story & they came with a purpose and once its served they became history. They are good people and what ever happened is for their own good since they both deserve much better in their lives.Same here, I don't give two hoots about Ishwari- Bijoy's ego trips. I would much rather see Dev introspecting and making good on his promises to Sona. IF he manages to redeem himself and earn her trust back, with dignity, and she won't forgive easily. Not when her family is concerned. I hope. If he manages to do that, all will be forgiven.Falling in love is beautiful but staying in love is challenging since it requires trust, respect & communication in every step of your journey.