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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Malvika07

WORD. This is exactly what I'm saying latha. Dev took out his resentment on Ishwari whilst drunk. He drove the point home and now Ishwari will take steps to correct her mistakes. But it is necessary to have a sober conversation about their issues. Everytime there is a problem, we can't expect Dev to take refuge in alcohol to vent out his feelings. That's just wrong.
Honestly speaking i never liked their OTT melodrama separation track and i was able to watch this track only because of the outstanding performances of Shaheer & Erica. Thank god this crap fest is over. Coming to the point, Sona is not any furniture or window curtain or bed sheet at Dixit's house which this mom-son duo can keep it when they like it or throw it when they doesn't like it. It cant be always about their happiness or their guilt.

For Ishwari to understand the depth of Dev-Sona love, First Dev need to take stand & acknowledge his love before every one with respect. If Sona doesn't respect her value & her family before Dev then she cant expect the same from Dev. In the similar way, If Dev doesn't respect his love & their relation before every one including his GOD then he or us cant expect the same from others.

I have been saying this from day one. If it wasn't for Shaheer, we wouldn't keep overlooking every blunder Dev makes. Some things even Shaheer can't salvage. My heart completely and utterly broke for Sona yesterday. I'm not saying she's not at fault. But I feel so so sorry for the state she's in. Feel equally bad for Ritwik.
What she went through is heart wrenching but i believe in taking responsibility of our own actions and changing our destiny instead of playing victim card or looking for excuses to blame others. If Dev did a mistake with impulsive forced break-up then she did bigger mistake by jumping in to other relation without even gathering herself. One took decision out of guilt and other took decision out of anger.

Coming to R & Natasha, Both are catalysts in Dev-Sona story & they came with a purpose and once its served they became history. They are good people and what ever happened is for their own good since they both deserve much better in their lives.

Same here, I don't give two hoots about Ishwari- Bijoy's ego trips. I would much rather see Dev introspecting and making good on his promises to Sona. IF he manages to redeem himself and earn her trust back, with dignity, and she won't forgive easily. Not when her family is concerned. I hope. If he manages to do that, all will be forgiven.
Falling in love is beautiful but staying in love is challenging since it requires trust, respect & communication in every step of your journey.


Edited by LiveLife321 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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You are absolutely right in saying that her silence would get to him. He wouldn't be able to take it. But I don't think this Sonakshi is the kind to stay silent / stay down for long. Her numbness doesn't last long. In Dev's words - She is strong. Stronger than him. She is the kind who channels her pain into anger rather than suppressing it in silence.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Suvika.

You are absolutely right in saying that her silence would get to him. He wouldn't be able to take it. But I don't think this Sonakshi is the kind to stay silent / stay down for long. Her numbness doesn't last long. In Dev's words - She is strong. Stronger than him. She is the kind who channels her pain into anger rather than suppressing it in silence.


Yaah Sujatha. She is stronger than Dev but she is also human na yaar. Let her give up & get tired. Let him put some efforts to win her back.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agree 100 % with everything you both said.
Copying a reply I made in another post.The most important thing will be for Dev to introspect and realise where he went wrong. Otherwise if Ishwari is upset with Sona after marriage or even on the day of marriage, he will still blindly follow her direction. In today's episode he realises he acted wrongly at her engagement but he still remains clueless as to how he wronged sonakshi during this whole break up.He needs to make her a priority and not an option which he will select if his mother allows him to.He needs to earn both her and her family's trust back.
He should address Ishwari's insecurity as well. It may not disappear before marriage but should be at least dealt with instead of forgetting that it exists.He should realize that the world does not revolve around him and his mom,he cannot get back Sonakshi just because his mom gave him permisssion.It does not work like that.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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That wud be the best way for to Dev to introspect...
Sona numb and Dev all intense wud be a treat to watch...
Hope CVs see this post and try to incorporate such scene...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sjain

It would be a lil silly to show ish approving thrir relationship in one scene nd in ne t dev would go nd happily spill this news to sona expecting her to accept it

So I really hope they give them time to calm down a bit relax a lil
let him try to reach her nd fail due to elena or saurabh stopping him
let her come out of that guilt figure out her emotions and firmly think of what to do next
I personally would love to see them missing each other's presense now..let them stay away for a while and realize the gravity of the things going around them and take their own decision nd not work according to their parents..let them sort out on their own nd not with help of their families..let them feel how much they want each other..khud bhi kuch karein ab 😆 and for once not think about anyone but each other nd maturely come to conclusion

ish is now accepting their relationship so they both shud b together when ish wanted them to broke thry broke up ..I just wont tolerate that nd I might sound stupid but atleast for now Dev should refuse nd says NO to Ishwari

let this marriage decision be theirs ..mutually decided one nd not instructed by ishwari or bijoy

I would also love to see them re building their relationship nd have a nice romantic courtship period ..shadi ke liye saari umar padi hai..jaldi kya hai 😆




Hahaa.. Like you said, it'll be silly if as soon as Ish approves Dev runs to Sona happily. But I have a feeling that is what happens. It's Sona's 'Get out' that jolts him. Till then, he will be elated coz Mommy has approved so everything is right in this world.

I agree, it's their life and they should be the one's deciding when to get married. Their relationship cannot function as per Ishwari's whims and fancies. Tomorrow again she'll decide Sonakshi is not right for Dev, so again Dev will throw her out of his life?
Dev has to work on gaining sonakshi's trust back. For that, he needs to introspect!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: randommusings


Yes it was sad to see Bijoy disappointed with Sona. He has always given her equal or even more importance than Sourav, he is so proud of her achievements, her samjhdaari, has always supported her career, her marriage plans. N Sona realising how she has broken her parent's trust, how she got so blinded in love, she didnt even think about her parents. Like she said, she hurt Bijoy n Ritwick in the same way Dev hurt her. 😭I am waiting for emotional father daughter scenes n also Asha Sona scenes

Asha is much more sensible than Bijoy. Bijoy is quite like Dev and Asha like Sonakshi in their relationship as well. Bijoy is emotional whereas Asha understands Sonakshi's inner conflict. I would love to see how she consoles Sonakshi and makes her understand.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rose4ever

🤗Oh my God, I so wish this happens exactly how you wrote it. Dev can not bear to see Sonakshi silent. She has always been his sunshine, his guiding light. Even in her anger, he can see her love. But when she is quiet, he won't be able to see her so lost.so hopeless and broken.He cannot see the girl so full of life become vacant and lifeless due to him. That will sure make him open his eyes and see how much pain and heartbreak he has caused her.

His romantic words mean nothing, his proposal, his marriage would mean nothing if he won't be able to live up to his promises, if he won't stand up for her.Otherwise in future if once again his mom disapproves Sonakshi. or is unhappy with her, he will repeat the same mistakes.
Also I sincerely hope that Sonakshi and her family does not agree for marriage when Ishwari pleads. As per segments she gets dizzy and Sona takes care of her. Her health should not sway or effect their decision. Dev should be the one to convince, to earn back the trust of Sona and her family.

Hahaha wishful thinking🤗
Exactly. Ishwari's health has pretty much dictated the course of their entire relationship. More than Ishwari convincing Sonakshi, I need Dev to earn her trust back. If Sonakshi agrees due to Ish, it would be like Mommy getting Dev's favorite toy for him coz he threw a tantrum. That is so not how I want things to pan out. Next time Mommy throws a tantrum Dev will again let go of his toy. They need to understand Sonakshi is a person - with real emotions and feelings.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: LiveLife321


Yaah Sujatha. She is stronger than Dev but she is also human na yaar. Let her give up & get tired. Let him put some efforts to win her back.



Oh you misunderstand me. I don't mean to say she would forgive. Oh no. Definitely not. He has to work his ass off trying to win her back. But a personality like hers wouldn't choose the path of giving up. Not for long.
I don't know what the makers have planned but I do know what I want her to do. You will too. Posting my OS in a few minutes. Read and let me know what you think. What say?? 😉

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