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Posted: 9 years ago
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👏👏 very well said dear.. 👍🏼
If we treat our fellow humans with humanity and use cordial words for expressing our displeasure then this place can be peaceful .. Being kind to each other shouldn't be that difficult.. We sure are cultured and well mannered people to talk to each other and not fight with real people for the sake of reel characters.. 😉

As long as we know that our intentions are safe and not to attack other's opinion then, bring it on.. The God is inside you and it shows you the way.. Let's not wait for other's to come to discipline us.. 😉
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Great post, however too ideal for humans to follow.
The only solution is, I believe, to start avoiding threads that one feel could offend them. If one feels they are level-headed enough to participate in a conversation without losing their cool, only they should get into debates.

At the end of the day, everyone is here only because they feel deeply for the show, some are more expressive while others silent (like me). Probably thread-naming templates should become a part of forum COC (Disclaimers etc,) 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey, I have till now refrained from saying anything about this divide that is seen on the forum and how a lot of members are responding to it but since you created a separate post for it, I thought about putting my 2 cents. I have read a lot of posts and their replies and have not seen any member bashing the actors playing the role(there may be rare exceptions)In fact most express with how impressed they are with the actors for perfect portrayals.
I would have to agree with everything @ pehchaan kaun said.There have been a lot of mocking posts on Ritwik's character with no real reason(or constructive) to criticize other than the fact that he is standing between the two leads. .Even his physical attributes like height were mocked which I feel is wrong.Critics give the disagreeing members space to express their views and hope and expect for the same. Wherever the characters are criticized, all members have a right to express their agreement or disagreement but personally attacking members who criticize? Is that right behavior?
See,some people use diplomatic words, some strong, some softer and some sarcasm to express their view. If we can accept and understand the flaws/actions of fictional characters, can we not extend the same courtesy to fellow members who use strong words. It is just their way of expression.
I have quoted the below post to point out that as a reader I felt TM was indirectly attacking members with views different from hers. Isn't that negative? Why do the some members have to justify their point by questioning intelligence or emotional level or depth of a person?And the below is just one of the many posts I have come across.

Originally posted by: saumiee

I am afraid the advice you have given would not even reach those ears dear!
wonder if the forum will ever become free from the clutches of insensitivity and crass criticism that it has been facing lately.


I believe in giving credit where due and criticizing where felt disappointed. So your intentions are right, but I hope you understand the other POV as well.
Ultimately I would only want to say that every member should feel free to express their view without feeling they would be harshly judged for the same. Hope I was able to make my point.
Edited by rose4ever - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#14
Very well said!

I think one can debt in a very respectful manner... Everyone can voice their opinions!!!

I truly feel this show is amazing with an amazing ensemble cast ..


Hope this forum will be more fun .. I rem the IPK days everyone would bash or love ASR... But could not ignore him! honestly let's make the forum fun instead of bashing and being derogatory !

Sorry to hurt anyone .. This is my two cents worth
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: rose4ever

Hey, I have till now refrained from saying anything about this divide that is seen on the forum and how a lot of members are responding to it but since you created a separate post for it, I thought about putting my 2 cents. I have read a lot of posts and their replies and have not seen any member bashing the actors playing the role(there may be rare exceptions)In fact most express with how impressed they are with the actors for perfect portrayals.

I would have to agree with everything @ pehchaan kaun said.There have been a lot of mocking posts on Ritwik's character with no real reason(or constructive) to criticize other than the fact that he is standing between the two leads. .Even his physical attributes like height were mocked which I feel is wrong.Critics give the disagreeing members space to express their views and hope and expect for the same. Wherever the characters are criticized, all members have a right to express their agreement or disagreement but personally attacking members who criticize? Is that right behavior?
See,some people use diplomatic words, some strong, some softer and some sarcasm to express their view. If we can accept and understand the flaws/actions of fictional characters, can we not extend the same courtesy to fellow members who use strong words. It is just their way of expression.
I have quoted the below post to point out that as a reader I felt TM was indirectly attacking members with views different from hers. Isn't that negative? Why do the some members have to justify their point by questioning intelligence or emotional level or depth of a person?And the below is just one of the many posts I have come across.

I believe in giving credit where due and criticizing where you felt disappointed. So your intentions are right, but I hope you understand the other POV as well.
Ultimately I would only want to say that every member should feel free to express their view without feeling they would be harshly judged for the same. Hope I was able to make my point.



Like i said before, i do not support criticizing the actors looks or behavior... This post applies to all people who create threads (criticisiny dev sona rithik and ishwari or even gkb).. Dont get too personal .. Just express your views - positive or negative feedback is good for the show.. We should worry when there is no feedback from anyone..
I also want to tell forumwasis to ignore or nit reapond if u dont like the content instead of bashing the TM. Please understand that you are actually bashing a teal person for spraking something against a fictional character.. Which is not right thibg to do..
Lets all accept that this is a fictional show and characters and lets not take anything personal. Just sit back and enjoy the show..it is the story of cvs and all we can do is comment on it .. We cant change their story even if we want to.. So relax and take it easy
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Like i said before, i do not support criticizing the actors looks or behavior... This post applies to all people who create threads (criticisiny dev sona rithik and ishwari or even gkb).. Dont get too personal .. Just express your views - positive or negative feedback is good for the show.. We should worry when there is no feedback from anyone..
I also want to tell forumwasis to ignore or nit reapond if u dont like the content instead of bashing the TM. Please understand that you are actually bashing a teal person for spraking something against a fictional character.. Which is not right thibg to do..
Lets all accept that this is a fictional show and characters and lets not take anything personal. Just sit back and enjoy the show..it is the story of cvs and all we can do is comment on it .. We cant change their story even if we want to.. So relax and take it easy
@bold:Yes, either respond without bashing TM or don't respond.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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And I Quote -

"Please understand that you are actually bashing a real person for speaking something against a fictional character.. "

So true...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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ur post title itself says u are moral policing ..
anyways if people want to bash let them ignore those posts.. they eventually get buried in timeline..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: my-true-love

ur post title itself says u are moral policing ..

anyways if people want to bash let them ignore those posts.. they eventually get buried in timeline..



Again i just shared my views how we can keep peace in forum.. Act or ignore upon your own discretion..
I am not here to judge if people dont follow what i suggested.. Just my view
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Posted: 9 years ago
#20
I wish people in this forum show some more maturity in dealing with negative comments. In my opinion, negative comments are like a wild fire. If you provide the wind, it spreads. If you stifle the wind it dies! The best policy is if one does not like something in a negative post, then do not comment. Just let it be. Have fun and see how it dies!
Fiction is meant for entertainment.. If we do not like something, we can always choose something else. If KRPKAB is not right for one, then maybe, tune in to something else. The bottom line is we all want entertainment. Today we have close to 500 channels in India! What is one Sony TV! But we have just one life, so let us live it right... Chose right.




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