Why all expectations from girl?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I watch this show as fiction. and find it highly entertaining while keeping it real. but I am surprised that based on upcoming Sonakshi's rejection...majority blaming Sona... is it fair?
Sonakshi is human to... just like Dev. and A heart wants what the heart wants 😉Sonakshi has been pretending to be strong for so long.. Hurting inside, trusting her parents, being honest with Ritvik.. Kudos!

everyone went in this knowingly...Dev.. who made all the decisions for Devakshi and Sonakshi's family.. (forget Ishwari here.) Sona who was pretending to move on, doing all this for her family, her dad.. Dad..Who thinks sona is the strongest and pushed for a marriage day 2 of breakup. His ego, his pride 😡 She could have taken time to move on but talk of marriage was shoved on her the next day by dad who thinks she is made of stone; rishta, paid for by ishwari, thrown in her face the following day, and then Mr. Stalker, Psycho Dixit himself who intruded her privacy, followed her like a deranged man, put roadblocks in front of her friend, possible fiance...Mom, who knew the pain of her daughter.. but went along with her hubby thinking rushed marriage to a good man is the answer... Without realizing the depth of their daughter's love... who just doesn't fall in and out of love like Elena😕 Elena.. who was after Sona to move on from the moment Devakshi broke up😕

Poor girl.. Rushed to marry thinking it will help her move on, give some peace to her own family and help her immature, self absorbed, self hurting Devdas move on!!!! She took it all on her 👏 She was hurting inside but still kept her cool with parents and Dev.. her caring and love showed in every time she went back to talk to him. told him... marry me now and my apne ma baba ko mana loongi.. he didn't care. and Ritvik.. who saw all the signs.. esp. on the engagement day.. Sona had eyes for only Dev... he should have gotten the clue...him and his family knew this is a messy situation.. with a powerful ex.. Mr. Dixit... doing his psychopanti

Yes, she was wrong but she did it for people she loved, including Psycho lover. yes, Ritvik, the innocent good man got hurt.. but he also went into this with his eyes wide open!!!!

can't just blame the girl.. always... all expectations, societal pressures are for a girl? while the guy's psychopanti is... oooh so romantic😡

why should sona just run back to Dev... just cause "mummy maan gayi" otherwise she broke all her promises????


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Posted: 9 years ago
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No dear. Nobody is blaming Sona for rejecting the proposal.

Infact the whole forum is happy that she rejected. Dev needs to realise her value and need to repect her feelings. We all want him to try hard this time to win her trust back.😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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For me the issue is not how Sonakshi is reacting, its more of she was projected as something else before and her characterization has changed alot. As if I am seeing 2 different Sonakshi in the same show.
The expectations come from the point that we have seen a mature Sonakshi, be it the promos or the episodes till now. I get what she going through, even Dev for that matter but the dramatics is too much.

I dont find any of Dev's stunts romantic.After the break up everything in the show has gone downhill.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: JyotiBThakur

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<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#663366">Infact the whole forum is happy that she rejected. Dev needs to realise her value and need to repect her feelings. We all want him to try hard this time to win her trust back.😊</font>



I have read quite a few posts saying otherwise. But I am glad we agree.
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Originally posted by: OmNaMaSteOm

For me the issue is not how Sonakshi is reacting, its more of she was projected as something else before and her characterization has changed alot. As if I am seeing 2 different Sonakshi in the same show.

The expectations come from the point that we have seen a mature Sonakshi, be it the promos or the episodes till now. I get what she going through, even Dev for that matter but the dramatics is too much.

I dont find any of Dev's stunts romantic.After the break up everything in the show has gone downhill.



I agree. She has been shown mature and strong and assumed to be strong. But she is also a girl who experienced true love, true passion and then it was brutally snatched away from her due to no fault of her own. She tried, she begged.. But lover disnt listen. Heartbroken, she trusted her parents and tried to move on.. No one really helped.. They pushed her... She remained strong and honest. In the end.. She broke.. Seeing her lover on ground, all drunk, for the world to see.. She is just a girl. And has many facets to her personality.. Just like any other person. CVs are keeping the leads real.. In my POV!

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