Spineless Dev, Selfish n Blind Ishwari, Stupid Sona note:pg 21

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Diclaimer: Please Leads ke fan refrain from reading, you all will not like it😳
Was thinking since long to make a post but refrained from doing so and thought lets see the over hyped Maha episode and then decide and the Over Hyped Maha Epi was 🥱

The sole member responsible for this mess is Mr Devdas opps Mr Dev Dixit
The son who knew his mother inside out was too blind to see her insecurities and was literally thoping his GF, his new found love on his mother *Applause Worthy*
Every single member including his GF noticed the insecurities and discomfort but the IDEAL SON was too busy in his new found happiness and love
Going by the relation, Ishwari and Dev share, it was absolutely ok for her to feel insecure. She has been possessive for her son since beginning and when the same son starting prioritizing she was scared-of loosing him
Dev must have address her insecurities, notice the changes in her, talk to her but nah he wanted Ishwari to accept Sona without giving her time 🥱 and assumed that she is happy...height of Assumption

And wen Ishwari couldn't handle it, she mistakenly consumed tablets(correct me, if it was intentional)
It took his mother's life to understood that she was not HAPPY and what he did to make to his mom happy...broke up with GF...so simple ...kitna easy solution hai *deserves claps*
okay it was impulsive decision due to the situation he was in and he couldn't think straight so in pain, fear he spoke those words...fine, nothing wrong but after his mother's discharge, he should have spoken to his GF, apologized her saying that in the heat of moment he uttered those words and he didn't really meant all that and I am sure she would have understood it. He should have taken her in confidence and asked for some time to deal with his mother but what he did - Royally ignored her *claps*

Ishwari - she single handedly have brought up her kids, faced the world alone and she is portrayed as Bechari Maa 🥱 okay physically and health wise she can be weak but going through so much hard ships in her life, she should have been Mentally and Emotionally STRONG but she is shown too weak like who will die if she will put her foot on surface...Seriously 🥱

Sonakshi - I actually loved the way she handled break up(initially), she stood for herself and her self respect, showed mirror to Ishwari and decided to move on to make her parents happy
When Dev got to know about Sonakshi getting married, unka pyar umad aaya *wow*
all of a sudden he started taking interest in her life, starts stalking her, ruins her wud be husband career *aww what a true lover*
Had he loved her truly, hv have made attempts to convince his mother instead of stalking her

And his GF in anger and fit of rage decides to get married *brilliant*

On seeing him full drunk, his sec/PA calls his GF not his home 😆
and seeing him like that, Gf melts and all her high talks and self respect goes for a toss but chalo thik hai socha hoga k pyar se bolegi toh samjhega aur shayad samjh bhi jayega

Coming to Dev ki Deewangi...it should be Dev ki bewkufi, stupidity etc not deewangi
Sona actually invited him for her engagement and for what? 🥱
itni stupidity...i mean common no girl wud do it, atleast family ke baare sochti? chalo familly chod do...apne fiance aur uski family ka sochti...kuch waqt pehle hi she was headlines of news paper and all over news channel and still invites EX-BF for engagement *Height of stupidity*
did she thought, for once, what rithvik will feel? okay she dont love him but does that mean she dont have to think about his feelings?

Ishwari can see it all how miserable is his son but she wants to play blind
Dev-Spineless is the word...who cannot stand up for himself
Sona- Selfish ruining someone's life

Rithvik is being so supportive of her, understands her well, giving her time and space and what she is doing? still doing Dev jaap
She do not have any right to make Rithvik suffer...though he may not love her but he is going to be her husband, she herself has decided to marry him, rejected his advice to push marriage further(infact she preponed it) and now feeling miserable
she never, once, tried to know how he feels...uski engagement hai but she is busy watching her ex-bf 🥱

IF rithvik will agree to marry her now also then he will be dumbest man 😆 he should not marry her, he do not deserve her


One thing, I dont understand why fans bash Rithvik? what is so wrong about him? Had he been negative character then its ok but why now?
you wants you couple to be together and eventually they are going to be together and rithvik is just a part of their journey but fans bash him n insults him as if he n Sona will be getting married. It is not cool to bash someone just cos they are paired opposite one of the lead
Accha hone ka haq sirf leads ko hai? why can't parallel leads be positive too? why cant they be endearing and lovable?

Ishwari too bashed and called psycho mom...that is the main crux of show

this whole break up drama was handled too badly 👎🏼 too much fimly without maturity
mockery of love and insult of Devdas 😆 Devdas was not a stalker, he let Paro have her own life 😆

And about "itihas ne devdas dekhe par dev dixit nhi dekha"...yes nhi dekha and I hope kabhi dekhe bhi nhi...it looks like he is sleep walking and staggering😆

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Well said TM.. wish I could give 1000 likes to your post.
After watching today's episode.. I say Dev and Sona deserve each other😡.. They don't deserve nice people like Ritwik and Natasha.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sajinifaby

SSS - oh wow...Spineless Selfish Stupid...😆



Jokes aside...unfortunately, when love is separated by other factors... and not the lovers themselves... this is what happens...
Eh? Love separated by "other" factors. How? Please tell me what is love without respect, equality, understanding , communication and basic dignity. What people think of "love" is just a fleeting moment of passion but it takes a whole lot of factors to live that love.
Love is not a joke where you say the word and it shouldn't be treated like that.
Here there is obsession , that is all. Ishwari's love for son according to you should be selfish and true too because it' encompassing and she doesn't want to share. Passion of her louu.
Love can be dysfunctional and that is what has become here.

If reality vs what they showed is ur concern.. then i can tel you this happd... i also called for my engagement... with a card... in the hope of seeing him one last moment... after lot of media n all in ma life too... its mixed n bottled up emotional stride...U need strength for all this...to fight all odd factors...
Nobody expects the show be real and reality is subjective. What is your personal experience is personal while a lot many people..never call their exes to any of their personal celebrations especially engagement especially given when the guy stalked you to your date with your fiance and how fiance's family has problems . Or how her OWN DAD , would not like this.
Wonder what kind of special daughter would put her family through this shit? Self-respect.

Loving and respecting your parents- where is that when for your own selfish stupidty you are not only disgracing, making your family uncomfy but also putting your in-laws on the spot.
All Hail Sona. What a shitty head.
And personally- if ever a girl thinks she is not over a guy and wants to see him for the last time- break the effing engagement or postpone till you get your head in right place. That is not love but stupidity, obsession and you are calling your flaws and using louu as a cover. Not a judgement but a social comment.

Really reading thru ur post... i can only say either ur hardly an emotional person n too level headed or u just havent experienced something like this ever...coz all what u spoke are ideal but not always realistic...

Umm so just because TM is sensible enough and understand the mess this show has become ..you are calling her emotional..how the heck you even infer. This is not ideal but real. Life is not some love drama but if you think pulling such stunts is real and should be "understood as real" then sorry thats plain stupidity and dumb. Not love..thats you being in denial about how pathetically you screwed your own family.

Loving parents.. respecting them.. knowing that they are wrong... n sacrificing ur love...this is not a path for the weak...or spineless...
Loving and respecting parents- Going to call my ex whose mom my dad promised that he would never send her daughter to . Calling that ex who put me in embarrassing situations. Calling that ex who my dad hates at this point.
Oh Dev's louu for Ishwari - aww so cute . Basically a lvoe that encouraged him to destroy other people's profession, personal life..is cute.
Sacrificing love- but where, he was busy stalking Sona, shading Ritwick ..creating a mess..where is the sacrifice.

All these actions of Dev, Sona and Ishwari are weak and spineless. If Sona had a spine- she would have broken up with Dev and never encouraged his stalking or told him that I would come running to you..whenever..or invited him to her engagement . She put her parents and their respect in jeopadry.

Dev is epitome of spineless lead. So no comments there.

Ishwari- Should celebrate she can spin all her kands as love too. Afterall that is realistic too.😳





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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ranbirkprfan1


You're free to marry a perfect guy like Ritvick and we won't complain but it's the story of imperfect Dev & Sonakshi who are blindly in love and everything is fair in love and war. Again if you aren't liking the track instead of ranting everyday in the most offensive manner give it a rest.


Umm why would I marry either of the guys. Didn't we just establish it's a fiction show. Unlike you who rant aobut people , we rant about fake characters.

Every love story on tv is imperfect and no Ritwick is not a perfect guy and such thing doesn't exist. Didn't the lovely other posts who called him all sorts of names establish that few days back.

Umm, love and war are two different things. War kills people and it's never right. Love is what we are questioning here and if this love justifies every action then Ishwari stands corrected as well.Because her love is beyond too then.

I don't think a forum is a [personal property. THe title was pretty much descriptive and if you don't want to engage and talk about the character then please refrain from personal attacks.



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ranbirkprfan1

Some of these pseudo feminist are regulary bashing KRPKAB and its characters with the most harsh critical way, it makes me wonder whether they really like the show or are just here to spread the negativity. If you don't feel good about the show you are free to go. Constructive criticism is welcome but it's going OTT since last few weeks.


Umm, I am a feminist. None of us are fools to not know the end-game. But if you think few psots on a random forum results in negativity then I don't know what to say.

It's important to vocal this perspective as well because for us the story and show ain't working. Just like zillion posts are made explaining the dewaangi or Dev or Mahaanta of Sona then why cannot there be a criticism about how they are portrayed right now for a certain section .Rest is the makers call , given the track record they don't give much Hope there.

Actually I would take that pseudo feminist label too , better than blinding my eyes to the stupidity the makers are trying to inflict. Or to raise slogans for Sona when she sounds like a hypocrite especially talking about self-respect when she put her family through that shit.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Well can I give 1 million like to this post please ??

I will never ever understand the concept of love which makes me blind towards my parents' respect. I can take their love for granted at times, but never their honor specially in front of society.

I feel awful seeing the destruction of Sona's character. Both remaining blind to Rithwik's feelings and being self-absorbed were so out of her character. Sona couldn't help Dev to make him want to be a better person, but Dev successfully pulled her down to his level where one can't see things beyond I, Me, Myself. She truly 'fell' in love 👎🏼

Dev's tamasha was horrible. The Mahaepisode was aired with an image of angry Dev who is not Devdas, but all the crying, helpless feelings crap etc - can someone plz explain me how those were not Devdas-like ? In reality if one truly loves someone, he/she would always care for the honor of the other's family. Look at Dev ! After drinking so much he had the audacity to show upto Ritakshi's place again ! He cant go in front of Ishwari while drunk, but he can go in front of Bose Parents while being THIS drunk ?

Amidst all these, I just feel sad for the Bose Family who had been nothing but the BEST in this show. They dont deserve this at all. Nothing is going as per the way I wanted it to. I wanted Sona to be angry at Dev about he treated her and her family. But now it seems Bose family will give hard time to Sona which in turn will be flowed down to Dev. Even from Sona's side, the realization will not come on her own. This is so not how I wanted it to be.

Nothing much is left for me in the show to see except for Devakshi chemistry 🤔
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Posted: 9 years ago
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All three characters mentioned by the TM need a reality check!!
Sona is no less than Dev with beating behind the bush, she has played Ritwik n her parents to the beat ... on every occasion of her function she kept looking fwd for his arrival, now I understand she loves him n shit, but y play with Ritwik's feeling FFS ur gonna marry the guy... not a random dinner date!! She very well knew Dev's presence during the ring ceremony would call it off. She played it well. And she is pretty shameless for someone who claims to have high morals... what was d necessity to drop him home?? Cab bula ti , us admi nu usmein dalti n bej deti. End of Story. Nahi, ab she'll go uske ghar n play her no u left me drama.😆

Dev...Spineless like the TM mentioned , id add coward too!!He knew his mommy dear so very well but could'nt fig out her creepiness ?? I wont even call it insecure anymore!!
He was the one who broke up, y cant he let her be in peace?? Either let her go or win her back... not act like a teen loser !! Wait for the D-Day create a scene n spoil someone else's rishta! That woman sona even mention that she would leave it all if he married her, all he did was stand there n go restless 😆.

Ishwari is creepy AF!! I would understand a mother's insecurities or partly obsessed nature, but this woman is on a total diff level.😆 so diff I find it hilarious abhi ke liye. She apparently reads her son so well yet cant fig out he's hopelessly in lou with sona ?? She has had her brother spoon feed her the situation yet she pretends to ignore n thinks he's busy with work n yeda yeda. 👏 Even the daughter who is married spelled out the situation to her. Needs help IMO.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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what's all with this " don't watch this show " , there are some who are not interested in Devakshi love story and more interested in the drama as a whole.

I personally like the conflict in the show but I absolutely don't like that they are justifying everything in the name of love.

As i said before , if what Dev did today was his deewangi in love then why are people here hating Ishwari, what she did was her deewangi in her love for her son...how is it that mom gets all the hatred and beta gets away with it when both their action are almost identical.

Sona, what she did wasn't acceptable to me at all. She brought a family ( Rithwik's family) to the ceremony and left them high and dry, left her own parents high and dry...

she was the one who agreed to the engagement inspite of so many chances given to her , asking her several times whether she wants to go ahead with it...

So while Dev ruins a persons career and professional life, sonakshi puts the same guy and their family to shame , all this in the name of love, how can this even be lauded.

My question still remains, if Dev's Devdas love and deewangi is all fair in love and war and emotions cannot be controlled etc etc, then why the hatred for Ishwari when the same is applicable to her love for her son?.



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Read your title and first two lines 😆
Thank God I didn't read the rest and thanks for warning 😉

The post id anyways too long 🥱 .. would've simply wasted my time to only disagree with you 🥱

So, thanks again for that first two lines😉
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I am actually a die hard devakshi fan.. Loving the show a lott.. But still inspite of the disclaimer I read ur post😆..
Actually what I feel is that the cvs gave us enuf of sensible beautiful episodes..so a little bit of poor script, fans can easily ignore those..
I will not call sona stupid or dev a bewakuf.. It's ok.. Whatever they did I still love the show and the lead couple. So no complaint from my side becoz I have ejoyed and I am still enjoying this separation track.. Its many times better than the horrible crap shows which are running for years after years..


But I will support ur opinin about one point that parallel leads can also be good.. Ritwik is a wonderful person by heart.. Natasha, too, was a lovely girl.. Love triangles mein positive 3rd person ko lane ke chakkar mein they had brought such good people that I just dont want to hate them..
Yes off course devakshi is our lead couple.. We are watching the show for them.. But ritwick should not be bashed.. He is a nice guy yaar.. Hope he gets a good life partner soon..

Anyways I am a supporter of devakshi and this show.. And I love everything about them..😳😆

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