Spineless Dev, Selfish n Blind Ishwari, Stupid Sona note:pg 21 - Page 4

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Posted: 9 years ago
#31
1st post in forum and that is also a negative one..wowow..
thanks for the warnig..didnt waste my time to even read it...
Edited by M.soni - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#32
Thanks for the disclaimer. Really helpful👍🏼
Btw, are we watching the same show??🤔
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Posted: 9 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: saumiee

You have a problem with others watching a romantic episode 1000 times? Seriously? That is quite judgemental.
If some people can suggest the members to ignore negative posts completely if we don't like it, we can also suggest you to ignore the show if you don't like it. As simple as that😊



read sentence again... never said i had a problem...

if i show up in topics such as "Ae Dil Hai Mushkil <3" "omggg dev was so romantic" and post my view I will still be told to ignore the show and not watch it... there are less opposing views in those topics because members are given their own space to express their views...

so kindly give space to others to express their view without posting 'negative' posts and 'don't watch the show'... if there are people who find it romantic... there are those who do not find it romantic let them express their view without namecalling and telling them to stop watching the show 😊
Edited by jaanetu - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#34
We all know at the end its Devakshi together... but whatever is been shown now is not acceptable... i strongly feel if something is wrong then it is... just because 100 ppl say it right it wont be right...
Stalking is wrong
Throwing self-respect to gutter in name of love is wrong
Hurting a person's feelings and ruining his family reputation just because u r not over ur ex... a big wrong
Ruining a person's career so that he doesnt marry ur ex...
Not letting ur ex move on neither bring her back to your life in proper way.. but want her to be his secret lover... in front of his mother they have broken up... but secretly lets be lovers!!!!!!! 👎🏼
(I seriously dont understand what does dev want... I had asked in another topic as well... does he want Sona to be his secret lover so that only they know and not the world??? we all know what is such relationship called!!!!! if u love someone have guts to admit it...)

I started watching this show because of the unique concept... both Dev and Sona were shown so mature... i wish they showed the same maturity even with breakup sequence... no Ritwik.. no engagement drama.. no stalking...

If they had decided to give time to make Ish understand or be together without marriage because Ishu wuldnt agree.. Im sure Sona's family would have supported her... but Sona felt taking them for granted was much easy task..


even if Ishu agrees for Dev and Sona, it would be because of emotional blackmailing from Dev...
She would agree because Dev blamed her, he was drunk, his business is at losses and he is ruining his life... not because she likes Sona...

Does Sona need such family????

Edited by sowmyap03 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#35
This show though being Fictional was hailed as BEING CLOSE TO REALITY , so being close to Reality.. current behaviour of Dev is termed as Stakerish , psycho , creepy and
its better to stay away from such people.
A well educated person like Dev who have seen hardships of Life , this behaviour really comes as off shocking and weird .

When this show was started the Initial promos depicted a Matured break-up where both the parties had accepted and were being shown as Matured people who
are trying to find a way as a team.
and Now the same thing is shown in such Gory way , that it is making me puke and cringe ..

Just for some Drama sake , the characters has been ruined badly ..such that I no more feel sympathy to any niether Dev nor Ishwari and now toh not even Sonakshi.
In reality a sane person like Sonakshi (as shown earlier)would run away from such Mother-Son duo...but now same Sonakshi is being shown at her Dumb best .
what's up with challenging bf and inviting him to engagement .
I am sorry , but she just appears same to those numerous TV female leads who to show their feminist Avatar jaan bhujke do Ungli.
The dignity , Integrity of character is questionable here .

I was interested in this show to see how they deal with Ishwari's insecurity but what is being shown is absolute W*F**kery type.
In past few episodes , Its like the show got derailed majorly and i see no way of character redemption of Dev .
Makers will probably find easy route and spoilers do suggest they have went that way . but sorry whatever Dev did is just not Pardonable .

I am one of those who contribute to whatever little TRP this show is getting , so I have full right to express my POV.
And I'll be glad if members rather then posting mocking/snarking gif's or LOL-ing or stating that that leave watching the show if you dont like ..yada yada ...be same and matured enough to participate in debate/discussion and if they cant do then follow your own advice i.e
be in your paradise bubble and love your jodi.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: sajinifaby

SSS - oh wow...Spineless Selfish Stupid...😆


Jokes aside...unfortunately, when love is separated by other factors... and not the lovers themselves... this is what happens...

If reality vs what they showed is ur concern.. then i can tel you this happd... i also called for my engagement... with a card... in the hope of seeing him one last moment... after lot of media n all in ma life too... its mixed n bottled up emotional stride...U need strength for all this...to fight all odd factors...

Really reading thru ur post... i can only say either ur hardly an emotional person n too level headed or u just havent experienced something like this ever...coz all what u spoke are ideal but not always realistic...

Loving parents.. respecting them.. knowing that they are wrong... n sacrificing ur love...this is not a path for the weak...or spineless...





@ red.. Can we please avoid making comments about IF members and judging what kind of person they are? It's against IF COC..
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Posted: 9 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: ranbirkprfan1

Some of these pseudo feminist are regulary bashing KRPKAB and its characters with the most harsh critical way, it makes me wonder whether they really like the show or are just here to spread the negativity. If you don't feel good about the show you are free to go. Constructive criticism is welcome but it's going OTT since last few weeks.

Word on this👏 constructive criticism was always a part of this forum, but recent posts have been filled with such harsh use of words that the negativity seems intentional and forced.
And whats with the same 'spineless, stupid' chanting🥱
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Posted: 9 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: saumiee


might be better for those liking the track to consider hundreds of other choices such as watching the "romantic" episode 10,000 times than reading 'negative' posts and telling others to give it a rest 😃

You have a problem with others watching a romantic episode 1000 times? Seriously? That is quite judgemental.
If some people can suggest the members to ignore negative posts completely if we don't like it, we can also suggest you to ignore the show if you don't like it. As simple as that😊

Which is why I say exercise FOE. Live and Let live. We can do this debate-debate thing all the time. But atleast try talking about the characters ..won't that be more interesting like why you think Sona is not being disrespectful to her parents or try justifying that.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: mayu1982



@ Bold: Asmita am too shock @ Blue..

Well whatever your POV for the show i can understand and respect as well.

@ TM over here is criticizing almost every character, content and what not is going now over here. It is almost like I don't like YHM but will make a post and criticize each and every character stating this is my different POV. Yes I have used gifs instead of writing long essays , but Did I cross line of respect? Did I get personal ? Did I comment which is hurtful ? Well that is my way of expressing my pov. Is it necessary to explain things in essays. Did I mention in my post- about anti love of jodi fans or something.


Surprisingly you want matured discussion by getting personal. 😳

Although I hardly see you over here, so let me tell you I have myself criticize Dev character in many posts . So no one can tag me - blind fan or whatever - am sure regular members knows me this much.

Hopefully you will stick to content/character of the show only instead of getting personal about anyone. I am deeply hurt by your post more than anything else. Not expected this from you.

Respectfully Reported ..

P.S. @ GM : Time to come to this forum ..




The snarking gif that was posted looked like a mocking one esp the line "because of this post forum activity will increase and forum be number one "... It came across as directly making fun of TM's post and the POV also devaluing the opinion completely . If gifs intention was not that then my bad I am Sorry , but for me it looked like that .

Yes I have not been regular member of the forum so I have no idea abt the regular member's opinions too but not being part of this forum can be coz I can't handle being part of no of forums at the same time . But I have discussed this show numerous time in Bollywood forum land is also a regular TRP member .
I was waiting to see Ishwari's insecurity angle also probably may be I never posted here coz Devakshi was never my game ... But never had issues with them either until now when the story went completely haywire and I felt I should voice out my opinion . I din't knew the Forum has a rule that members who are not regular cannot post .. My bad again , this will be last post then .
But again not everyone who post first time here can be assumed as not a regular with show or not having iota of knowledge abt show and the characters .

I was not being personal ... I felt that instead of having a debate or trying to show TM how she is wrong in understanding the characters as members claim to understand...they were Mocking the members with LOLing or making gifs or simply calling haters or ignorant abt the show .

Since you mentioned YHM , in the same way my views were mocked there either by saying leave watching the show or similar snarking gifs were posted and opinions devalued . So may be not for me a "non-regular" member , members who post here regularly at least their pov's can be respected.

Anyways sorry for disappointing you ...
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Posted: 9 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: VintageWine

All three characters mentioned by the TM need a reality check!!
Sona is no less than Dev with beating behind the bush, she has played Ritwik n her parents to the beat ... on every occasion of her function she kept looking fwd for his arrival, now I understand she loves him n shit, but y play with Ritwik's feeling FFS ur gonna marry the guy... not a random dinner date!! She very well knew Dev's presence during the ring ceremony would call it off. She played it well. And she is pretty shameless for someone who claims to have high morals... what was d necessity to drop him home?? Cab bula ti , us admi nu usmein dalti n bej deti. End of Story. Nahi, ab she'll go uske ghar n play her no u left me drama.😆

Dev...Spineless like the TM mentioned , id add coward too!!He knew his mommy dear so very well but could'nt fig out her creepiness ?? I wont even call it insecure anymore!!
He was the one who broke up, y cant he let her be in peace?? Either let her go or win her back... not act like a teen loser !! Wait for the D-Day create a scene n spoil someone else's rishta! That woman sona even mention that she would leave it all if he married her, all he did was stand there n go restless 😆.

Ishwari is creepy AF!! I would understand a mother's insecurities or partly obsessed nature, but this woman is on a total diff level.😆 so diff I find it hilarious abhi ke liye. She apparently reads her son so well yet cant fig out he's hopelessly in lou with sona ?? She has had her brother spoon feed her the situation yet she pretends to ignore n thinks he's busy with work n yeda yeda. 👏 Even the daughter who is married spelled out the situation to her. Needs help IMO.


Fully agree with you😆😆😆. There is inconsistency in the characters if you watch the initial episodes and the later ones. Some may say its a change in the character due to the progression of story but I find the fundamental inconsistencies like the Natasha engagement episode and the reaction of Dev and Ish.
Edited by NBT-BV - 9 years ago

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