How is Dev hurting himself going to help? - Page 2

Originally posted by: gigi16

Dev is following his mother's footsteps, Ishwari got him back with the pills drama and now he is trying to not let Sonakshi move on with his crazy manipulations. It is very sad to see a son turning into a emotional blackmailer like his mom instead of being a separate entity and win his girl back.

Originally posted by: tia.o

That's human nature, my dear. You see, we, humans, are the only living creature on the planet who make a very simple situation complicated.

Every problem has a simple solution if you look at it from a straight-forward, honest standpoint. I found in my life, that truth spoken in factual, calm manner can disarm even the most unreasonable person.

Imagine this scenario.

Dev goes to his mother and says, Mom I love Sonakshi. I tried to live without her but I can't. But since you don't like her, I'd like to know why.

What will his mother say? May be, deny that she doesn't love Sona or say why she doesn't love Sona.

If she denies that she has any objection against Sona, the road is clear.

If she defines the issues, take steps to solve them starting now. If she is afraid of losing her son, then assure her that she will be gaining a daughter just like Sona's family will gain another son. There is no loss in making a relationship, the only loss is in breaking a relationship.

So simple and uncomplicated solution - pure honesty and straight forward talk.

But no, instead stalking, breaking properties, getting drunk and injuring one self seem like a more feasible solution.

I can only shake my over logical head at this.

Originally posted by: AlooMatar

@Annysageflower - I agree it is a cry for help and not by a person who is in his senses. Because the sensible thing would be to talk to his mother and convince her that he needs Sona in his life.

But he wasn't raised to be a sensible young man. He was always the docile and devoted son of a single mother who will blindly follow her wishes no matter how much he is hurt.

As for the drama at the engagement I'm just going to take it as a bad day when the CVs forgot the realistic story they have been telling us so far.

Originally posted by: tia.o

That's human nature, my dear. You see, we, humans, are the only living creature on the planet who make a very simple situation complicated.

Every problem has a simple solution if you look at it from a straight-forward, honest standpoint. I found in my life, that truth spoken in factual, calm manner can disarm even the most unreasonable person.

Imagine this scenario.

Dev goes to his mother and says, Mom I love Sonakshi. I tried to live without her but I can't. But since you don't like her, I'd like to know why.

What will his mother say? May be, deny that she doesn't love Sona or say why she doesn't love Sona.

If she denies that she has any objection against Sona, the road is clear.

If she defines the issues, take steps to solve them starting now. If she is afraid of losing her son, then assure her that she will be gaining a daughter just like Sona's family will gain another son. There is no loss in making a relationship, the only loss is in breaking a relationship.

So simple and uncomplicated solution - pure honesty and straight forward talk.

But no, instead stalking, breaking properties, getting drunk and injuring one self seem like a more feasible solution.

I can only shake my over logical head at this.

Originally posted by: AnnzSageflower7

well said Tia...

But in this route it will be Ishwari who would set in motion talks to get Sonakshi back for Dev's sake. How lame is that? He won't have the Bose' s respect and it gives Ishwari all the power in their relationship again.

Next time they have a huge disagreement, they'll have to ask Ma first. And what sort of a situation will he be throwing Sonakshi into in marriage? One where his mother and GKB call the shots?

Marriage is not happily ever after.

it's a whole new ball game with new rules and complications.

And with it too happiness and love , if some are lucky enough.