Isn't Ishwari right afterall?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Dev when he felt he was at a cliff edge, chose what he has always done, protect his mother, do right by his mother.

Fair enough, Sona felt hurt. Being hurtled out of your loved one's life isn't easy but thats what Dev did and I sympathise with Sona.

Everybody reacts to an event. Ishwari did, Maamiji did, Mamaji did and so did Sona's parents and everyone else.

Its been weeks since their separation. We have seen Dev and Sona's desperation. What we see is Dev is despearte for Sona (to understand why he has done what he has done) and Sona is desperate to move on, not weigh her heart with love but just her mind with faith in her parents choice. I hope there is another side to both these characters.

I mean, I hope on the side we don't see, Dev is sorry for what he has done, laments about it and Sona is sorry for Dev, not as someone who couldn't make his decision and hurt her but as someone who she absolutely knows is true at heart but bound by the adversities and promises made to his mother/his upbringing.

Sona has broken her promise too - " I will never leave you even when you leave me".

It is all well and good to see strong female leads but an extraordinary lead would be one who combines strength with compassion, sorrow with understanding and love with absolute faith. Else, this story will turn out to prove Ishwari right - their 3 month love will be only worth barsaath mein naala and 2 minute noodle.

There are plenty of shows to show us the ugly side of failed love. Please not another!

I want to see the other side. I'd rather I see their unconditional love, come what may kind of love.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes i feel the same ...
Sona should have kept her promise that she willnot leave him even though he left him... It's not needed to show if she is not going to keep that promise..

But here Dev only left her but still not leaving her ... Sona accepted that he left her and trying to move away from him...

Sona doesn't want to break her heart again as she knows that Dev 's mom doesn't agree for their relation so she wants to keep Dev away from her.. but unless until both have a passion to step together nothing is possible...

Both dint think about how to survive their love instead thought why he left me..??? Why should I keep my mom sad...

The strong sona we saw is different from this sona...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Just wat I mentioned in one of the posts replies..

They need to understand their faults before they try and correct Ishwari...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: jigsaw1234

Dev when he felt he was at a cliff edge, chose what he has always done, protect his mother, do right by his mother.

Fair enough, Sona felt hurt. Being hurtled out of your loved one's life isn't easy but thats what Dev did and I sympathise with Sona.

Everybody reacts to an event. Ishwari did, Maamiji did, Mamaji did and so did Sona's parents and everyone else.

Its been weeks since their separation. We have seen Dev and Sona's desperation. What we see is Dev is despearte for Sona (to understand why he has done what he has done) and Sona is desperate to move on, not weigh her heart with love but just her mind with faith in her parents choice. I hope there is another side to both these characters.

I mean, I hope on the side we don't see, Dev is sorry for what he has done, laments about it and Sona is sorry for Dev, not as someone who couldn't make his decision and hurt her but as someone who she absolutely knows is true at heart but bound by the adversities and promises made to his mother/his upbringing.

Sona has broken her promise too - " I will never leave you even when you leave me".

It is all well and good to see strong female leads but an extraordinary lead would be one who combines strength with compassion, sorrow with understanding and love with absolute faith. Else, this story will turn out to prove Ishwari right - their 3 month love will be only worth barsaath mein naala and 2 minute noodle.

There are plenty of shows to show us the ugly side of failed love. Please not another!

I want to see the other side. I'd rather I see their unconditional love, come what may kind of love.



For that to happen Dev has to realize his mistake. He is still stuck on "Sona is doing wrong and my mother can do no wrong"

It's been weeks since breakup and he is still there.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I kind of agree with your post.

My thinking is she loves him a lot and would never have left him. He gave her no option but to walk away from him. He pushed her away and she is walking away knowing she gave it all to the relationship.

Does her promise (" I will never leave you even when you leave me") still apply if Dev marries a girl chosen by his mother?

see there are a lot of scenarios where promise cannot be kept.

I do not agree with her going into a new relationship so soon. I believe she is making a mistake. I think she should move on but not in a new relationship.

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