Bashing Dev - ENOUGH ! - Page 4

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

If this behaviour of Dev is a colour of love then it is something no woman deserves.

Such type of so called intense love only looks good on screen. In real life it would be enough to drive the object of such affection to suicide. This is not a colour of love , this is the colour of selfishness and obsession.

OK just answer my question what does the intense emotional lover called Dev want?

He is not willing to marry the girl and he is not willing to let her go! So does he want to make her his mistress, keep or what?

You have no intention of being honorable yourself, you have no intention of letting anyone else do the honorable thing with her. 😲

Oh wait I forgot he needs time - for what?? Please answer for what does he need time when he has no earthly intention of trying to convince his godly mother! 😆

Oh sorry I again forgot, he is preventing Sona from committing a grave mistake by marrying someone when she is in love with him. Sho shweet. 😳

What should Sona do instead. Forget her dreams of marriage, family and children. Either become his mistress or become a nun or jogan. 😆

No one here hates Dev. At least I want Sona to be with Dev but a normal, honourable Dev not this selfish, psychotic character.

Originally posted by: srilotus

No one's bashing Dev here. Dont think so
hum jise jitna pyar karte hain ,ussi pe naraaz bhi hone ka bhi haq rakhte hain.
this is love of his fans.
This is fandom .

Thanx for the much needed post.Even I do agree that whatever he did today was wrong.But trust me he is a man with a golden heart.Right now he is not able to decide his priority.The reason behind his behavior is the fact that he has never taken decisions for himself.If u remember the hospital scene, Dev did not hold Sonakshi responsible for his mother's condition but himself.He thinks that he doesn't have the right to think about himself.This is where the problem lies.Until and unless he fights himself he won't be happy.He needs to convince himself that his mother and Sonakshi occupy two different positions in his life.Until then we will have to see the different colors of Dev's pyar.

Originally posted by: vandyt1602

Thanx for the much needed post.Even I do agree that whatever he did today was wrong.But trust me he is a man with a golden heart.Right now he is not able to decide his priority.The reason behind his behavior is the fact that he has never taken decisions for himself.If u remember the hospital scene, Dev did not hold Sonakshi responsible for his mother's condition but himself.He thinks that he doesn't have the right to think about himself.This is where the problem lies.Until and unless he fights himself he won't be happy.He needs to convince himself that his mother and Sonakshi occupy two different positions in his life.Until then we will have to see the different colors of Dev's pyar.

Originally posted by: NN07

Answer to your question

Dev wants to be with Sona and at the same time can not see his mother upset !

He is not at all expecting Sona to wait for him forever .. But it is just too early to marry someone else

It would have been fine if she had really moved on !

As for now .. Dev needs some time to think about it .. Somebody to guide him .. And I'm sure It would happen soon .. He would soon find a way to convince Ish & Sona too

But not right now.. He's too messed up with the news of Sona Ritvik marriage ..

And yes he needs TIME to take the correct discison !!

Is Sona doing the right thing? Would she be happy with Ritvik?

Not at all

She can marry anyone once she has moved on .. But no .. Even she knows .. Dev was forced to take this step !

And you call him selfish?

Well for me, selfish is a person who ignores others' happiness for his own !

Not the one who has been sacrificing his own happiness since ages !!

He is not selfish by any means !

Originally posted by: NN07

Naraz hona is one thing dear & calling him psycho, stalker and what else, is another !

If we don't like something about the character, we can express it in a sober way too !!

Even I'm not happy with his discision but that doesn't make him the one 'who doesn't deserve love' !

I'm sorry but such posts are just not pleasing

Originally posted by: NN07

Answer to your question

Dev wants to be with Sona and at the same time can not see his mother upset !

He is not at all expecting Sona to wait for him forever .. But it is just too early to marry someone else

It would have been fine if she had really moved on !

As for now .. Dev needs some time to think about it .. Somebody to guide him .. And I'm sure It would happen soon .. He would soon find a way to convince Ish & Sona too

But not right now.. He's too messed up with the news of Sona Ritvik marriage ..

And yes he needs TIME to take the correct discison !!

Is Sona doing the right thing? Would she be happy with Ritvik?

Not at all

She can marry anyone once she has moved on .. But no .. Even she knows .. Dev was forced to take this step !

And you call him selfish?

Well for me, selfish is a person who ignores others' happiness for his own !

Not the one who has been sacrificing his own happiness since ages !!

He is not selfish by any means !

Dev is not a teenager who is ruled by his hormones. He is an adult of 28 years who promised a woman that he loves her like a man loves a woman. Now he has his reasons for not keeping that promise and also breaking up with her. We can analyse his circumstances, upbringing or what not to understand the why. But the fact remains that he is an adult. He should not allow others to dictate decisions in life. He has to take responsibility.

Very sorry to disagree... What is he trying to prove.. That he still loves sona.. Or Sona can only love him???? He can sacrifice his love for his great great jagat janani.. N wants her also to lead his rest of her life in his momories?? Like seriously.. He doesn't want to marry her nor let her marry anyone.. What is fair in love.. When he has ended his love?? He has become psycho n am not feeling a bit bad seeing him coz he still worships his mother but doesn't want sonakshi to move on also.. In real life we call such ppl sadist.. Pshcho.. Pathetic Dev... Selfish fellow than his MOM. N yeah he is not son to that mother... He is SLAVE..

Originally posted by: ...Doctor...

I can't believe you actually said all this.

First things first, please watch yesterday's episode, Sona clearly mentions that Dev's agent got Ritwik's loan cancelled.

Secondly, Dev is stalking Sona. If someone keeps tabs on you 24*7, follows you wherever you go, that too without your knowledge then it means that person is stalking you and it is not justified even if that stalker loves you and you love him back. God forbid if that happens with someone in real life, you should report it immediately. It is a crime.

Thirdly, he really needs a psychiatrist for his anger issues, anxiety issues and for his uncalled obsession with Sona's personal life.

Also, Sona should be the one deciding where her happiness lies, not her ex-boyfriend or some xyz person who doesn't even know her properly. She still loves Dev but that doesn't mean that she can't move on with Ritwik. She can, she should and she would because Ritwik can offer her things that Dev can't. Sometimes love is not enough.

Lastly, if he can't marry Sona because of his mother then what is he trying to do by following her everywhere and trying to shoo away prospective grooms? He wants her to be a part of his life but doesn't intend to marry her, is that what he wants? Why should Sona agree with that?

P.S.- I do think that Sona still needs time before settking with Ritwik and the challenge thing is a bad move.