Dev Dixit- ever the puzzle - Page 2

Such contradictions and yet so lovable...

Originally posted by: AnnaPaquinFan

To be honest , Dev is very complicated character,

He's the person who brutally annihilated Sona's career to make sure his mother gets best nutritionist in Delhi.

And treated her so badly n shuted at her when Ishwari fell ill , where there was no fault of Sona , n he didn't allow her to even give an explain. Typical Dev Dixit.

Same happened when NIkki landed into trouble in a girl's night out due to her own immaturity n Dev was mad at Sona...

Plus the way he broke her phone was totally unacceptable.

But he's same person who tolerated a bunch of pain in the ass kids to secure sugar free cake for Sona's mom n went personally to deliver it becoz it was his fault the first cake got destroyed.

he himself went to Sona's house , apologized n made her take the phone . It was adorable.

He is making sure the poor employees like guards etc. can pay the bill for their daughter's marriage , we've seen several in occasions example of this, including his driver , Tina, and the retired employee who came to thank Dev in presence of Sona's father.

And when Sona's accident happened , he was besides himself in worry ( though I highly suspect the Tube light Dixit has already fallen in love with her by that time n just didn't realize that. )

He shouted n was really rude with Tina , he bullied Sona's new boss using his own power.

But he's the same guy who gave a good amount of money to a very poor girl who came to sell gajra n though he couldn't buy any of that , the sad disappointed n expectant look on the girl's face triggered his kind heart.

Dev Dixit ever a great puzzle.

Before you bash him, you need to know he's also capable of extreme affection and selfless kindness.

Yes he's weak , he's crazy , he's ruthless many times. But that's not all to him. He's so much more than that.

Fully agree. He is a guy with some weaknesses just like you and me - a mixture of good and bad. Neither angel nor devil. Just human.

Dev is a little kid who had to grow up really before time to meet up the expectations his God had kept for him . At a very tender age he was given the responsibility of his sisters n mom by his mom .. He was told to do well in life for them . Yes he loves his family n would do that happily but the child within him suffered alot cos of it n he didnt have even one person/friend to share his thoughts , problems n all with anybody ! its really horrible being that way .. n I guess with time he started to believe that the only aim in his life is giving happiness to his Mom and fulfilling all her expectations...n nothing else...Nothing wrong in it but he also deserved to be happy , he also deserved to have something in life he can be happy abt from his heart ...but no - he worked , n worked really hard to achieve so much in life that his mom n sisters dont have to suffer anymore - LIKE how his maa wanted..
In a nutshell he was forced to grow up way too soon by life n his mom ...n he started believing that the purpose of his mere existence is his MOM n her happiness or his family's happiness ... he doesnt have any right on his happiness .. He was ready to marry any random girl for Neha too...
But then came Sona n she made him realise what love is , what sharing-caring is , what frndship is , what it is to have somebody in their life .. Even when they were together , how many times he made me feel bad for him - every time he said first time life mein someone is mine , someone is for me , someone is my happiness , n I am beings elfish pehli baar etc - my heart used to ache for him ... Cos everybody needs somebody - A friend , a confider , a companion ... and for him his love was his companion n soulmate .<3
But again reality struck hard n he was thrown into 'making his ma happy' zone once more n he again sacrificed everything of his being for her . This time , his life itself . & now he is just a lifeless person who is all alone n the worst part is - He cannot even tell that to anyone - his sisters , his family - NO ONE .
He loved Sona with all his heart n he knows she did too n he also knows he broke her heart , along with his. This guilt and regret is eating him up n as mamaji said even if Sona forgives him one day , will Dev be able to ? I am sure NO... cos he broke HIS Sona ... but still the love , the care , the longing is there - & will always be there n any given chance its only understandable that he wants to make life easier for her - cos he knows how much pain he has already caused her n still is helpless - and thats the worst part...
Though he is trying to hold himself up n gather is broken pieces its really clear that his parts are missing and are with Sona . He knows he belongs with her but cant have her . And its already eating him up - cos when u have someone else to blame for ur sorrow its painful n horrible but when u know u are urself to blame for ur heartbreak - its dreadful . N now when he sees Sona with someone else , he is going to reach his saturation point of sufferings...
He had and is suffering his whole life and is about time he understands his mom and realises its not wrong to be happy . Yes his family is important but everytime not at the cost of his happiness and choices. He was alone his whole life and he is alone again .. and he knows one decision and he can have his life , his happiness back but cant ! and that makes everything so terrible for him ...
Cos right now what he has believed from childhood - his selfless dedication for his mom is overpowering his own love for Sona ... but soon he wil realise ...

Beautiful post! :) One has to think a lil deeper to understand Dev but its not that difficult ...

And as I can see , my devakshi are 2 beautiful human beings who are currently suffering horribly when they only deserve happiness and togetherness .

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Originally posted by: ...Dexterity...

I am still pondering over this Gargi 😕.. Will update the post shortly ... BTW, thought to comment first but only thing I was able to write was a simple RES 😆

Originally posted by: Sruji1

Exactly 👏 👏. He makes mistakes like any normal human and after that he rectifyies too. Love him, hate him, understand him, or not understand him but you can't ignore him . He may not be perfect life partner for any girl, he may not be perfect son but he loves his family and go extreme lengths to make them happy. Mr dev dixit one of his own kind ❤️ ⭐️.

Originally posted by: saumiee

Very well said Gargi🤗

Dev Dixit is complicated but He has a pure soul in the core. He is extremely vulnerable one moment and extremely rigid the other.

He can be rude to the extremes. . But he doesn't think a moment before apologizing if he feels like it.

He wants to be away from Sona and he is the one who gets tears of happiness when he just looks at her. . talking to him.

All the contrasts you pointed out are beautiful.

I am so glad to see this post, specially because you made it.😳 That even someone so strongly opinioned about Dev doing wrong to Sona, could see through what Dev really is. He is definitely not one dimensional.

One of the main reasons I am unable to move on from Devakshi even after Dev's brutal way of break up 😆