Despising Dev more each day - Page 8

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

I am watching the show from day 1 and I understand Dev perfectly. A person should never be judged by how he behaves with those he loves or his equals and betters. Judge him by the way he deals with his inferiors.

Bullying Sona boss, insulting Tina are doing nothing to improve his image. Loving someone and being worried for that person does not give you the right to hurt those who are helpless in front of you. Also it is not as if he is doing something tangible for his love. He is not acting where it matters. He is not even realising how demeaning this act of his would be to Sona. Some love and care this is!

Why doesn't he take out his anger at mummy or his sisters? I wouldn't mind if he lashes at someone rich and important.

In the beginning of the show also he behaved like a jerk with Sona both at the time of offering her a job and when she was getting engaged. But they redeemed him later.

Right now it is only being a downhill ride for Devs character and the makers need to take urgent steps to salvage it.

Originally posted by: rahulvats12

He lashes out on sonakshi boss because he cares about her and even on Tina just because he thinks he has lost last piece of sonakshi also and it's just a sudden reaction as he was very tensed even we people also sometime lose our consciousness when we r tensed...it's just a human behavior ,so it doesn't mean dev was wrong and why he will take his anger on mother as he still doesn't know the reason why ishwari don't like sonakshi and he don't know about mother's insecurity...u may have watched show from 1st episode but still doesn't understand dev's character

Originally posted by: sappushivu

well..no one asked you to stop watching the show :) ..if you stop imagining stuff..all i said was no one forced you to watch promising you perfect charachters..yes , i know you pay for your cable..we all pay...govt kuch free mein nahi deta..kya kare 😆...you can dislike a charachter but we jus requested to go not go extreme in expressing it...if you do..then plz kindly be ready to face criticism from all the people who love the charachter..am sure u wldnt keep quite urself if someone attacks your loved one wth harsh wrds..as someone said every action has an equal n opposite reaction..then don blame the forum for attackin on negative comments n bla bla..

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

U have yourself confirmed what I wrote without realising it.

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Dev is not angry with his mother though she caused his break up as he still doesn't know the reason for her not liking Sonakshi. He still gives her complete respect. But he can shout at Tina for his fault in breaking the phone and Sonakshi boss for doing what is normal in any company.

If you still can't understand what is being shown wrong in Devs behaviour, I seriously don't want to spend time and effort in making you understand.

Further I don't hate Dev or find him disgusting. He is a character I have liked that is why am a fan of the show. My only point was that the cvs are now making the character unlikeable and morally wrong.

Originally posted by: aaliah3108

So in all weak people do not deserve to exist ...if they exist they should just be despised ??? They should be left coz they are unable to act as per how the society demands of them or other people expect out of them or how the " said " strong people would react in the exact same situation.

Since they are "oh so weak" emotionally they do not deserve anything ...everyone should remain away from them coz they may cause harm to u ...What would you do if there is someone like Dev around you ...keeping admonishing him ...u r weak ... u r a shrink ...go hide in a hole ...dont come out ...ok as u cant stand up for urself and neither will we allow anyone else to understand u coz u r so so weak !!!

Cant it be accepted that yes he is weak and flawed and complicated and he did things coz he is made that way or is that way... cant he be given a chance ...no one is perfect not even the strong ones !! Everyone has shortcomings ...one type or another ...coz there is nothing like perfection.

Why hate on a person as he is emotionally weak ??

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

I am watching the show from day 1 and I understand Dev perfectly. A person should never be judged by how he behaves with those he loves or his equals and betters. Judge him by the way he deals with his inferiors.

Bullying Sona boss, insulting Tina are doing nothing to improve his image. Loving someone and being worried for that person does not give you the right to hurt those who are helpless in front of you. Also it is not as if he is doing something tangible for his love. He is not acting where it matters. He is not even realising how demeaning this act of his would be to Sona. Some love and care this is!

Why doesn't he take out his anger at mummy or his sisters? I wouldn't mind if he lashes at someone rich and important.

In the beginning of the show also he behaved like a jerk with Sona both at the time of offering her a job and when she was getting engaged. But they redeemed him later.

Right now it is only being a downhill ride for Devs character and the makers need to take urgent steps to salvage it.