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Posted: 9 years ago
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After watching the today's episode...I feel something broke inside me. I felt the same pain I felt years back when my boyfriend left me. But the circumstances were totally different. He was two timing me and was in a relationship with another girl

That jerk realized his mistake after some time and tried to come back in my life and apologized for his behavior . But I didn't forgive him. I was heartbroken and it took me years to get over it. Years later I fell in love again and have been married for past 10 years. My husband knew everything from day one as we all three went to same school but till date my hubby has never taunted or hurt me by taking his name.

I feel lucky that I am getting to spend to my life whom I loved. We should learn to appreciate our partners and never take them for granted.

Coming back to Dev, the circumstances that led him to break up with Sona was real and acceptable. Any normal person would have done the same and so even though gone through a heart break myself, I still feel Sona should forgive Dev if he genuinely repents for his mistake.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thanks for sharing your story with us !!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thanks for sharing your story with us.
Wish u all the happiness with your love one.
And totally agree with the last para.
Edited by kashishbano - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Absolutely lovely post...thanks for it!! 😊
And yess...i totally agree with ur point of view regarding dev!! under the given conditions, he coulnt be expected to act rationally at all!! he will repent his actions soon n lets see how he works it out with sona!! 😃
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Glad you're happy in the long run..
If Dev really wants Sona.. He will have to work a lot unlike last time who embraced him no matter what...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Break ups have become more common these days but most of the time the reason is one of the partners such as two-timing, bad behavior etc. Usually when it is an outside factor (such as parents), the couple try to make things work together.

These days, young adults have the ability to speak to their parents or go away with their loved one. But Dev's case is different. He is overly attached to his mother and has blind faith.

No girl in Sona's shoes will ever trust Dev again in reality. Something in this relationship was lost today and that is the trust factor. How will Sona believe in anything he says again even if they make up?


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Posted: 9 years ago
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most of us are of feeling that DEV does not standup to his promises. he does not love sona enough and does not deserve her. we want him to fight for his LOVE against his GOD.
Seriously, when sona realized that she was hopelessly in love with Dev , all she did was become a cry baby. Is this the characteristic of any strong and independent woman?????

one needs to have courage to profess love. its for the other person to feel the same or not. In her case, she did not even TRY ..

Dev on the other hand, be it impulsive or whatever had every courage to bang on her door in the wee hours as soon as he cleared his mess to profess his LOVE.

Had it not been for the single incident of almost losing the life of his dear mother and eavesdrop her conversation with his mama the thought of breakup did not even cross his mind. he was not even ready to discuss about sonakshi initially.

being true to his character, he decided in his usual style , weed out the problem itself. here according to him, it is him and sona being in relationship that caused the problem, so end it ... solution is as simple as that!!!!!

comparing between Sona and Dev , i am team dev anytime. at least he had the courage ( in your words ruthlessness) to VOICE OUT , while all sona did was give up even without trying!!!!!!!!!!
this to me that is TOTALLY unacceptable.


Edited by randomramblings - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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wonderful story.. i think you did the best and wisest thing ever. A two timing man is not meant for a lady like you.

in the case of Dev, he is a one man woman. Sona should know that. She should know that Dev cannot and will not love any other woman other than Sona.. Yes, he could not live up to his word due to his impulsive nature.. The problem is he actually wants both women in his life - his mom and his love ( nothing wrong with wanting these "two" women!).

Good luck to him as he needs to work hard for it.



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