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Posted: 9 years ago
#71
He used those harsh words to deliberately hurt her so that she hates him and go away from him.
I dont think he meant that. But nevertheless they were very hurtful. And he will face the consequences for that later.


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Posted: 9 years ago
#72
"Kis haq se" this single line has so many meanings to it.
I am so PROUD of the writers of this show. You guys really know what you want to portray.

I am sure many of the forum members will never agree to my POV. all bashing is WELCOME .

From Dev and Sona point of view they have every right on each other as they are in love.


coming to Ishwari - what right did Sona seriously have???
her reply that she is her doctor and while in her care Ishwari is in this state. Doesn't it make it sound like she failed as a Doctor. as soon as she says this , dev fires her .


just because you are in love with a man/ woman its not right to imagine and weave your dreams thinking that you will be accepted by the family.

Time and again this show clearly brings out the difference between - " being in Love" to " being a Family". for many out there , it might look one and the same. Being in love needs 2 individuals, being married - is between families with many individuals. Love is one -to -one and marriage is many to many.

if you really understand this complexity, then the decision of dev to break relationship with Sona is totally justified. Many of us are bashing at DEV since he said this in a more blunt way. This is the characteristic of DEV . HE IS BLUNT . period.
but wasn't this the same that Bijoy Bose advised to Sona - albeit in a more subtle way " re-consider your love" .



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Posted: 9 years ago
#73
Aaj toh mamaji pe bahut gussa aa raha hai. He is exactly like his sister. Actually all thd Dixits are pure selfish using people according to their requirements. Kaha hum mamaji ko sensible bol rahe the. We thought he will knock some sense into ishwari but looks like he needs some sense for himself now. Now we are expecting neha to do something but we should not forget that she is also a Dixit. Dev has to realise his selfishness and repent truly if he needs sona back. sona should give him a hard time. For now team Sona.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#74
Yes this line "kis haq se " was so heart wrenching in fact d way dev was speaking to son a was very bad n more of it to come today I agree seeing her mom in that condition dev's character is such a such that he reacted like that but he could have handled it in a better way may be he could have told sona that mom is happy with their relationship and this is y her condition is like that and may be both of them give her sometime to accept them may be dev back to doing everything all his mom wants to and show her that he is still d same dev even though there is a girl in his life now and his feelings for his mom will never change and am sure son a would be full support to him all d way

But in a way we look at it this is a much needed breakup for dev to knew d importance of sona in his life and for ishwari to knw what sona is meant for dev and for sona to be back to Dr.Bose to stop all d insults she went through and she been taken for granted...she was jus trying to adjust to d new family with their flaws without complaining only with a hope that she is loved by all of them but she was losing her identity in all these
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Posted: 9 years ago
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It hurts...it really hurts...in this scenario, we would tend to lash out as the person who made the statement that turns our world into hell... For Sona its Dev...
I can't fault Dev wanting his mother safe...I just wonder if he could have made it less hurting when to spoke to Sona. It made me feel as if DevAskshi love story was not the villain but Sona was the main culprit. She made Dev change which made the mom feel insecure...was Dev blaming Sona indirectly, I wonder...


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: JazzyM

It hurts...it really hurts...in this scenario, we would tend to lash out as the person who made the statement that turns our world into hell... For Sona its Dev...

I can't fault Dev wanting his mother safe...I just wonder if he could have made it less hurting when to spoke to Sona. It made me feel as if DevAskshi love story was not the villain but Sona was the main culprit. She made Dev change which made the mom feel insecure...was Dev blaming Sona indirectly, I wonder...


Word! Even I think Dev is subconsciously cursing himself and indirectly Sonakshi too for changing him so much that He became oblivious to his mom's feelings. He said that outside the hospital room , "I can't be the old Dev. .how could I do this"

It was his fault if he could not see beyond Sona's love, Sonakshi always noticed the changes in Ishwari and was vocal about them to Dev. He can't blame her for it. . And he knows he is wrong. He will repent big time once he realises how ruthless he was.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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How selfish really was Dev. He has always been that way. It had always been about his mother, his sisters, their happiness, their comfort. That's it. He can lecture on no distinction between 'mine' and 'yours' in love but in matter of seconds refers to Sonakshi' family as 'tum log'! How convenient Mr.Dikshit. How easy is it to break a girl' heart in a moment. The girl who gave her all self to you and your undeserving family. She went beyond her way, took in all the taunts and insults silently, time and again tried everything within her means to bond with your family all for the love that she possessed in her heart for you. But unaware of all these were you Mr.Dixit who at the end of the day often didn't have the faith to believe in the instincts of the one who loved you. Your love for this woman who just gave herself selflessly again and again took a backseat everytime your mother was in the picture. It's easier to make tall promises and claims but to turn that love into real actions every single day with a heart striving through all odds to make one' love triumph, that is what love is made of! How shallow has 'I love you' become these days. I remember Sona mentioning once 'How much ever I know of you, that' enough for me to fall me in love with you'. Hey little girl, little did your heart know that we don't need much to fall in love. Very little do we need. But what is essential is whether the person has all that which is needed to stay in love! The real beauty isn't in the fairy-tale beginning of a journey, but in walking on those thorns all along the way with the fingers interwined. Very few have the strength to take up this walk. Soul-mates are not the ones who fit into your life as if they were destined to be so. Rather they are the ones who make the whole of the world bow down to their love and make it work for them. Unlike all our wishes to see Sonakshi coming out of the mess that her heart is at the moment and leaving behind the Dixits completely, I don't really think it is going to be that easy. Love is a strange thing. It can give you the joys of the heaven and also give one a glimpse of heart-wrenching death in a living being. Probably my words can't encompass what it is like to be in love, yet not want to be in it anymore. It is like wanting to free yourself whilst hopelessly clutching on to the past. Sonakshi would struggle with her unrequited love every single day, but she would grow, she would grow from a girl madly in love to a woman of grit and strength. Looking forward to this journey of Sonakshi for every girl who has loved and lost has a Sonakshi living within her. :)

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Posted: 9 years ago
#78
And how amazing is that. . In the beginning of the episode, he says. .
"If you ever want to believe anything, believe that I will always be there for you. . No one can come between us"
Poor Sona, why did you believe this man🥺
It was all a white lie. . He threw her out of his life like a fly out of the milk.👏
What is his biggest punishment? To live away from Sonakshi, with a family where no one actually gives a damn about his so called 'sacrifice'. .
He has hurt someone who loved him unconditionally for the people who dont even care about him.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aadk

How selfish really was Dev. He has always been that way. It had always been about his mother, his sisters, their happiness, their comfort. That's it. He can lecture on no distinction between 'mine' and 'yours' in love but in matter of seconds refers to Sonakshi' family as 'tum log'! How convenient Mr.Dikshit. How easy is it to break a girl' heart in a moment. The girl who gave her all self to you and your undeserving family. She went beyond her way, took in all the taunts and insults silently, time and again tried everything within her means to bond with your family all for the love that she possessed in her heart for you. But unaware of all these were you Mr.Dixit who at the end of the day often didn't have the faith to believe in the instincts of the one who loved you. Your love for this woman who just gave herself selflessly again and again took a backseat everytime your mother was in the picture. It's easier to make tall promises and claims but to turn that love into real actions every single day with a heart striving through all odds to make one' love triumph, that is what love is made of! How shallow has 'I love you' become these days. I remember Sona mentioning once 'How much ever I know of you, that' enough for me to fall me in love with you'. Hey little girl, little did your heart know that we don't need much to fall in love. Very little do we need. But what is essential is whether the person has all that which is needed to stay in love! The real beauty isn't in the fairy-tale beginning of a journey, but in walking on those thorns all along the way with the fingers interwined. Very few have the strength to take up this walk. Soul-mates are not the ones who fit into your life as if they were destined to be so. Rather they are the ones who make the whole of the world bow down to their love and make it work for them. Unlike all our wishes to see Sonakshi coming out of the mess that her heart is at the moment and leaving behind the Dixits completely, I don't really think it is going to be that easy. Love is a strange thing. It can give you the joys of the heaven and also give one a glimpse of heart-wrenching death in a living being. Probably my words can't encompass what it is like to be in love, yet not want to be in it anymore. It is like wanting to free yourself whilst hopelessly clutching on to the past. Sonakshi would struggle with her unrequited love every single day, but she would grow, she would grow from a girl madly in love to a woman of grit and strength. Looking forward to this journey of Sonakshi for every girl who has loved and lost has a Sonakshi living within her. :)

How beautifully you have said it.👏 Very true, like I said before, Love does not have an on-off switch that you erase every feeling in an instant. Sonakshi will have to face and conquer every bit of the heartbreak with each passing moment. She will face it every day and she will learn to live with the pain or grow out of it.
I am also looking forward to see Sona's journey to being this woman of grit and strength. . She is indeed pure gold😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: saumiee

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What an episode👏
High on drama. . High on emotions. .
I don't know whether the DevAkshi conversation in the beginning was intended to show how emotionally involved Dev is with Sona. . But it came across to me as the contrast between what Dev promises and what he does.
He certainly is a weak man when it comes to emotions.
Conveniently proposes, conveniently disposes.

I agree, He had no choice left. .the revelation by Mamaji made his love story look like a villain for Dev. This could have been done in a better way Mamaji.

But, I was taken aback when Dev said "Kis haq se?"
Really Dev, who was the one who kept saying Pyaar haq deta and all the mushy lines?
Now what?
And what a reply Sonakshi. . "I am her doctor"👏 Glad that she didn't say the lines which Dev kept repeatedly saying. .never meaning them.
Okay, He has officially fired her from the job? Amazing👏
He couldn't make even a proper eye contact with her.
He could amicably have ended everything. . But he choses to hurt her heart . . Break it into a million pieces. So not done.

I am looking forward to the showdown tomorrow⭐️ Sonakshi gave me goosebumps.
Go away Sonakshi. .let him suffer. He has no rights to hurt you like this, treat you like princess or garbage at his own convenience.
For now, TeamSonakshi only😳😆



I also was happy to hear from Sonakshi that I am her doctor...

me to Team Sonakshi only

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