The Dixit Sisters: A Vindication - Page 3

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Samanalyse




Thank you!Of course I don't mind... I made this post to start some good discussion😉I do think Ishwari is to blame for the divide between the siblings. Of course, she didn't intend for this rift but it is a direct result of the way she treated Dev differently from her daughters. To be fair, it was because she had limited resources and being from an older generation, figured that it was lucrative to make her son the primary bread-winner. She gave him everything he would need to be financially successful -- including the confident attitude that can only come from believing that things are black and white -- but she didn't give him the tools to deal with emotional complexity, because she figured it wasn't important. He would take care of the family's material needs, and she would take care of the household. Little did she realise that a time would come when he blurred those boundaries, assuming that it was alright with her.

As for the sisters, I think they know they can't really be happy for Dev until Ishwari approves from her heart, because until then, Dev's feelings can only lead to more pain and turmoil for all of them. Dev may be unaware of Ishwari's difficult and stubborn side, because she has tried her hardest to show him only her best side, but the sisters know better. They can either make the situation worse by joining in Dev's naive enjoyment or they can think about the long-term and try to see that his happiness is not destroyed prematurely. I think they chose the latter.😊

Thank you very much. So Ishwari is more or less like a dictator, she controls everybody's emotions too, nowonder every single member was worried about her happiness. As the writers have started it this way, i hope they don't just end the show with Ishwari's change of heart, and then they live happily ever after. This is possible in a fiction but not in real life.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Such a beautiful analysis into the psyche of the three sisters...
I am astounded... We never saw in that light...
The three sisters are navigating together in the dark...
But I am very sorry for that guy Dev, who will eventually have no one to help him move forward when the storm will take along with the happiness for him and leave him behind the debris of doubt, guilt and sadness...
That will be the time he will have to find his own way...
Interested in knowing where they will reach...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thank you Sam for this beautiful post.👏 Now I think I have understood them better. The moment they knew about their brother being in love they wanted him to share everything until Ishwary intervened. The girls are so sensitive to their mothers emotional states that they understood her displeasure even if she was not verbal about it. From that moment I think they are observing and reacting only after thinking it through. It is like there is a ticking time bomb there.😆
Brilliant analysis. If possible please give regular episode analysis.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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this was really a much needed post and an awesome one too...
i actually felt wen dev was telling sona about her dream regarding the photo session it was very natural now because dev has changed a lot since falling in love...today he is informal in his approach toward his near ones...but as u ritely said his sisters r not supposed to know this change in dev although they hv been talking about how he has taken to colorful shirts...they hv obviously sensed something changed in dev but obviously cudnt pinpoint what and why...

so for dev to expect his sisters suddenly behaving like friends and pulling his leg like normal sisters do wen big bro falls in love is actually quite a leap...

he has always been the reserved and reticent bro so much so that wen he joined nikki and rhea to play vid game (wen he realized neel is not sona's lover) both the girls were shocked and cudnt believe this is the same dev they hv known for years...so obviously dev needs to gv them time to absorb this entire thing that their bro is in love and is now nomore a mere machine who earns money but is human who laughs and enjoys life...

i am pasting a portion of a post i made earlier to further clarify my point...
"wen he dragged sona to his family (during photo session) he pushed nikki to one side to make space for sona by his side...and just before that rhea and nikki who were sitting on the sofa had so excitedly got up and stood on left and right of dev...both were excited to hv their photo with dev btwn them...but wen sona came dev literally pushed nikki to one side for sona...and instantly nikki's smile vanished and she cudnt believe wat her bro just did..."

if dev doesnt slow down and gv his family time to accept sona then he will only end up distancing sona from his family...

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