contrast of bose family nd dixit family

What an contrast of thoughts nd behaviour in both the families ...Bose family esp father made a declaration Ki I m friend of urs and any problem or thoughts u want to share "I m their" nd sona guilty feeling not disclosing her most happiest moment only becoz dev still did not disclosed it ...she is very sure Ki her family is going to accept with open arms nd here such an irony ,dev is so scared to share his feelings nd ishwari is scared to b part of his son's happiness ...and she is supposed to claim that she wants her son's happiness but not at the cost of sharing ...really what an contrast ...it is always different in saying nd doing ..